There are many Asian and Black couples yes. But most of them are Black men with Asian women. People are much more likely to see Asian men with White or Hispanic women. I have done alot of watching and searching as well and I do Only date Asian men. Not everyone that says its rare is being negative it is that it's less common vs Asian men dating other ethnicities outside of their own race. And yes often times Asian parents are less likely to accept a Black female vs a Black male into the family and Black families are much more open to interacial dating then Asian families.

 

Hi Lovely! I just wanted to comment to what you said based on my own experiences. I have dated men of Asian descent my entire life. My high school prom date (age 18) was Chinese. I've dated Japanese, Chinese, Korean, Thai, Filipino and mixed race men (like my husband) as well.




I'm 34 years old as of next week and have been happily married to a half Filipino/half Russian-Jewish man for 3 years now. I think that it totally depends on each Asian family. I would not say that all Asian families are unwilling to accept black daughter-in-laws at all. It is true that both Japanese and Korean society in general are much more homogeneous than the United States or even Canada though. My father-in-law is an Asian man and he has been wonderful to me. From the moment we met he and I got along really well. He has never hesitated offer support/help to us in any way. I even call him "Dad" and he calls me "daughter" too. We are all family and I am treated no differently than my husband's sister. I was not expecting this such treatment regardless of who I married, but it is really sweet.




I think sometimes when interracial dating/relationships are being discussed people can get so caught up on skin color that we stop thinking of one another as individual and unique people first and foremost. Finally, I do come from a very, very racially mixed family so maybe I have a different view point interracial relationships that most people. We have every combination of men/women and women/men couples in my family that you can think of pretty much. Fortunately, all of the men that I dated families were able to judge me for myself/personality so I never felt unaccepted at all. If anything I think we all had a nice connection with one another due to being people of color.

 

A male that is only half Asian is just that half Asian. I never said all Asian familis but for those people that sit around and say Asian families are so accepting of Black women are also not being very honest because most aren't. People are going to claim to mention the truth they should mention it all not just what happens to them but what is KNOWN. Asians at times even hate on other Asians 'cause they are of darker skintone..........
 

Sweetie! Thanks for your response. To correct you regarding MY husband...he is MOST definitely ASIAN. First, it is very highly disrespectful of you to try to tell someone else who or what they are. Our last name is a Tagalog (a Filipino dialect) one as a matter of fact. In addition, my husband still has family over in the Philippines right now that we communicate with sometimes. My father-in-law is a first generation American and 70 years old. His family is also not from the big city of Manila....when people hear our last name they definitely know he is ASIAN and that his father's family roots are in fact deep in the Philippines. In addition, when I am without my husband it is assumed that partially of Filipino descent as well. I have had nothing, but kind treatment from Filipino women, men, and children too. There is always a hug in our greeting to each other. Maybe it has to do with our last name.




My father-in-law also happens to be a "darker-skinned" Asian man and has no issue with someone's race. Both my Black/American-Indian parents have a lighter skin complexion than he does. SURPRISE!! ; ) He is most concerned with a person's attitude, how they treat him, others that he cares about. The same thing goes for my parents too. You are 22 years old and I am very close to 35 so YES to correct you I am MOST definitely speaking from my OWN experiences with a wide range of Asian people..both men, women, and children as well through my entire life so far. I also have other relatives in my family on both my parent's side who are of Asian descent as too. I'm VERY sorry for the rude and intolerant behavior that you have experienced in from what seems to be quite a few of Asian people that you have encountered, but please do not attempt to speak for EVERY person who is of Asian decent. I happen to also teach at a preschool that is predominately an Asian one. I actually have only one black/African-American student in my class and two white children. The rest are Chinese, Filipino, Korean, Thai, Japanese and various mixtures). Finally, please be cautious when referring to bi-racial (Asian mixed) people as being "only half Asian." It is ALWAYS someone's own personal choice of what/how they decide to label themselves.




I am most definitely known for being a straight shooter that is one thing that all of my parents love about me when it comes to their children. Therefore, please don't think that I misunderstood what you wrote about in your posting. However, as I said I think I am probably more similar to Nikki based on her description of herself and her view points since I do come from a very, very mixed race family. I also had some Asian female roommates (Japanese and Korean) when I was in college as well. Many of my girlfriend's of various races are married to/dating Asian men. Finally, my own mother's best friend's when I was a child (growing up in Northern California) were also Asian women (Korean, Thai, and Vietnamese) they are still all her friend's now over 30+ years later. My first crushes were actually on their various sons. I also only wrote from my own perspective as stated that outright. I will say again that I am super lucky ending up with my in-laws and leave it at that. Good luck to you in your future relationship endeavors.

 

My last reply. Mixed is mixed. Wasn't being rude but being mixed and then mixing again is often looked at by many people as Not a big deal. I never said All Asians don't like Black women with Asian men I said it is Less common. Tjere was no need to reply to me first comment. Take care.