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Thursday, June 25, 2009 
News
Be sure to check out Cyn Balog's interview posted the other day here on Myspace and also the excerpt vlogs posted on the blogspot
here.


Guest Blog
Dear Diary… 

Like Anna Reiley in Twenty Boy Summer, when I was a teen, my journal was my constant companion. I wrote volumes during high school, scribbling away at lunch, in study hall, sitting on the gym sidelines when the teacher bought my ready-made “cramps” excuse. I even wrote during other classes by disguising my journaling as enthusiastic note-taking.  

3-subject spiral notebooks were my favorite, because I could decorate the front and back covers inside and out as well as the inner dividers. I could stick extra stuff in the pockets, too, like stickers and phone numbers and magazine cutouts that conveyed my ever-changing moods. Those journals rocked.
 

Sadly, they no longer exist. Well maybe they exist in a landfill somewhere, but I’ll never see them again. That’s a really long and stupid (on my part) story, but it doesn’t matter now. Because a few years later, still long before I’d write the first lines of Twenty Boy Summer, I marched into an art supply store in New York City and bought myself a new journal. It was quite the “I Will Survive” moment, and I’ll never forget the feeling of that notebook in my hands again, pen pressed against paper, words spilling out fast to keep up with my long pent-up thoughts.
 

Still, I was nervous. It had been about 3 years since I’d journaled. What would I write about now, after all this time? What if I die during my impossibly long commute on the subway and someone finds my private journal? What if someone finds it and reads it? What if someone finds it, reads it, and decides it’s totally stupid or lame or mortifying, all while I’m completely dead on the subway and these total strangers are reading my secrets and judging me? What if?
 

Yes. What if?
 

What if Anais Nin, Sylvia Plath, or Anne Morrow Lindbergh had asked the same thing? These three diarists are my favorite and have inspired me in both writing and in life, but what if I never had the chance to meet them on the page because they were too afraid of exposing their own truths? None of these women hide from their deepest pain or lie on the page, and for that, I truly admire them. Their heavy, complex works remind me why it’s so important to write about our own lives, even while we’re busy writing the fictional lives of our characters.
 

From personal experience, I know that when I’m journaling regularly about real life and emotion, I’m happier. More calm. Content. It’s like my mind and soul go for a much-needed walk in the fresh air and sunshine every time I sit down to write, later infusing my fiction with life, passion, truth, and authenticity that I might otherwise miss. And journaling leaves a record. Proof that I existed and experienced and loved and cried and laughed and freaked out occasionally, too. 
 

So whether you’re a published author, an aspiring writer, or a Book Chic visitor who simply loves to read, I’d love your thoughts on journaling. If you already keep a journal (or have kept one in the past), has it affected your writing, reading, or other aspects of your life? Why do you journal, and what do you write about? Do you ever re-read your entries or share them with others? Do you draw in or otherwise decorate your journal? How would you feel if your journal was published? Would you ever read a friend or loved one’s journal under any circumstances? If you don’t journal, why not? Would you consider trying it? Have you read any published journals or diaries that you enjoyed?
 

Thanks for sharing your thoughts and suggestions! Happy writing and reading to all!


Contest
To enter this contest, answer Sarah's question and you'll be entered! A random commenter will be selected to win an ARC of Twenty Boy Summer! This contest will be over Sunday, June 28 at 8pm EST. A winner will be notified by Myspace email shortly after.
Zulmara

 
Love journaling...and love to read past journals.  I journal regularly in a journal, online, or through email.  My journaling takes on different lives and spirits depending on mood, loves, life, and all the other stuff going on in my life.

Sometimes my journals are letters written to one or two people, sometimes ramblings, always inspiriing...I think it is how I feed and nurture my muse...

thanks for asking...

ADELANTE!!!

Zulmara
 
Posted by Zulmara on Thursday, June 25, 2009 - 5:45 AM
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Jo's Book Blogs

 
I never used to keep a journal or diary, and I don't now either. I don't think anything exciting enough happens to me. I have a notebook I use every now and again to write my thoughts in about things, but I rarely use it. I don't have much to say.
Years ago, when I was a teen, I read in a magazine that keeping a "Feel Good" diary was a good way of boosting your self-esteem on bad days. Basically, it was a diary/journal you wrote in when you were given a compliment on anything, and when you have a bad day, you read it and feel good about yourself. Sounded like a good idea to me. However, mine turned into a diary of compliments my crush of the time had given me, and only him. He was a cool guy, so it filled very quickly. I get it out every now and again and read over and remember how lovely he was. But if anybody ever read it I would DIE. It makes me feel vain and maybe slightly obsessive. Plus I would comment on what he said and I was SUCH a girl. It's kind of embarrassing. No-one really knows about it, and I keep it hidden.

 
Posted by Jo's Book Blogs on Thursday, June 25, 2009 - 12:20 PM
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Prodhi
Prodhi Manisha

 
I used to keep a journal back when I was a kid. I used it mainly to vent during an emotional outburst. It helped writing my feelings out and rationalizing meanwhile. I don't keep one nowadays, mainly because there's so much going on and things seem too complicated to spell out in words anymore (and also because I have a younger sibling who loves sabotaging me with newfound info about my private life:P). But yes, once she grows out of it and I get a littlle more time besides everything, I want to start again. It was cool back when I did it, and I don't think that has changed now.

 
Posted by Prodhi on Thursday, June 25, 2009 - 2:26 PM
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NICOLE [ZBZ]

 
I used to journal in high school. I kept a journal especially in the summer. I have about 3 or 4 that I filled up. It's fun to look back & read about how I was feeling at the time. I began journaling when I was with my first "real" boyfriend...so it's interesting! haha! 

I probably wouldn't want my journal published or read by anyone. I might share it w/ my husband since he's in it a lot...haha!! I would only read a friends journal if they asked me to.

I also have a lot of blank journals and notebooks. I like to browse through all of the different styles in the bookstore & buy 'em when they are on sale. I've thought about starting again...
 
Posted by NICOLE [ZBZ] on Thursday, June 25, 2009 - 3:07 PM
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Amanda

 
I go back and forth about journaling. Sometimes I'm real faithful and write every day for months, sometimes I don't write anything down for 2 years. It all depends on my mood, I suppose. I do keep all my journals, even the stupid ones from when I was 10 years old. Sometimes it's fun to go back and read those...

 
Posted by Amanda on Thursday, June 25, 2009 - 7:33 PM
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*~S.A.R.A.~*

 
i have tried to keep a journal in the past but it never worked out. i would write for a couple days then forget about it or run out of stuff to write about. i write poems and short stories sometimes and that i guess you could say is my journal. those last longer and do the same thing for me that keeping a journal does for other people/ but i love reading other published journals fiction or nonfiction.
 
Posted by *~S.A.R.A.~* on Friday, June 26, 2009 - 3:24 AM
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Book . . . Spot

 
I have a couple of journals...One I write in at random times and rarely read over--and would never want anyone else reading. And I have a writing journal for help with what I'm going to write but it's disappeared and I have little (or not so much) mental freak outs over that every so often. I probably have other journals with drawings in them...I really have a ton of notebooks, etc for all different purposes (I always have to write something somewhere).
 
Posted by Book . . . Spot on Friday, June 26, 2009 - 4:20 AM
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Kayla♥Cakes
Kayla Feifer

 
I keep a journal but I don't really write in it that often. I wish I wrote in it more, but for some reason I never do. I reread my journal but I would be horrified if someone else read it.
 
Posted by Kayla♥Cakes on Friday, June 26, 2009 - 5:01 PM
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Tarawr

 
Over the past few years I've bought cute journals that I convinced myself I would use them and that made it okay for me to buy them. And I did. I wrote in them for a few days, talking about my life, maybe writing some poetry, and then it sort of became a chore. But then this past May, my last month of high school, I bought a journal that was really cute, and I've actually kept up with it. I think the reason I continue to write in it is because I don't only write. I like to take pictures from magazines, or articles, or things online, and put them in with my writing. It's visually appealing and it reflects on the mood I was feeling at the time.
 
Posted by Tarawr on Saturday, June 27, 2009 - 11:18 PM
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