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Matthew Rivera


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Gender: Male
Status: In a Relationship
Age: 25
Sign: Gemini

City: Lynnwood
State: Washington
Country: US
Signup Date: 7/9/2005

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Saturday, November 01, 2008 07:57

Current mood:Dark
Category: Life
Okay... so enough time has passed that I can almost talk about it without getting frustrated. On 09/26/08 at 1820, I watched a Friend and Coworker die, crushed beneath a large metal frame full of glass that we were attempting to move. It wasn't too gruesome, and it was quick, but it was still horrible. I've kinda just kept to myself since then, as I didn't want to be the object of sympathy or whatever it is people feel the need to inflict upon someone who's just been through and event like that. It's now been enough time that I no longer feel the need to quarantine myself, and I felt that I should at the least get it out there, since it is a rather major event in someone's life.

His name was Sergey Bateyko. He was 35, and the youngest of several children whose mother still resided in Ukraine. He was one of those exuberant and joyful people who always had smile on his face and could be counted on to lighten the mood. He was a hard worker, with two jobs, and an eye for Quality. He was a loving husband, and doting father. He'd been with the company since it pulled itself out of the garage, and would have been with them till he could work no more. He was an amazing person, and a caring friend. These words reflect merely the palest summary of who this man was, and the world is a far darker place without his infectious laughter, and stubborn will. I will confess that I loved Sergey as a person, and while my loss is nowhere near what his family and closer friends may have been, I will never forget him, and I can only hope that whatever there is after, he's ended up right.
Danny
Danny Pool

 
Man, its harsh to loose someone that is close to you. It seems this is happening too often, and for the wrong reasons. I just hope that everyone can work through this, and reflect on all the positive things he has done, and have no regrets for not saying something they felt they should have or wishing they hadnt said something they did. Im sorry you had to witness the event first hand.. I can only imagine how that must have been. I hope you can work through it Matt....
 
Posted by Danny on Saturday, November 01, 2008 - 01:12
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Songwriter
Vanessa Throckmorton

 
Hi Matt,

I don't think I could say anything without it making your pain worse... but again, I want to attempt to try... it's a shame you had to see that, and a tragedy to loose someone that didn't deserve it (who are we to say anyone deserves to die) But alas - you are in pain, and you have my support, call me anytime 901-604-5145. Come back and visit buddy! You are always in my thoughts! You can think of me and Dave and MOM (marcella) as your family to the south. Never underestimate it! Call if you need anything or you want to catch up!! <3 Ness
 
Posted by Songwriter on Tuesday, November 04, 2008 - 21:57
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