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Last Updated: 11/17/2009

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City: Minneapolis
State: Minnesota
Country: US
Signup Date: 7/14/2005

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Tuesday, October 13, 2009 
   by Steven Ward 

By the time that I arrived 
you could not say my name 
for the aphasia. 

The bleeding stopped, 
they told me in the hall, 
but you had lost the letter S. 
You couldn’t name the shape on paper 
or press the sound against your teeth. 
They explained it as a loss of data, 
as if the program of you crashed 
then restarted incompletely. 

Or, I thought privately, 
as if the hand of some indifferent angel 
had held a magnet to your disc. 

You greeted me in a terror of apology, 
hysterical to demonstrate you knew me still, 
although you could not find the word 
to designate your second son. 
In a panic you recited 
a slew of scattershot details— 
my birth weight, current address, 
my affinity for word games, my allergy to dogs— 
my life a scattered deck of cards. 

I tried and failed to calm you, 
garish with a crisp bouquet in crackling paper 
and a voice I’d practiced in the car. 
But you could not be distracted, 
were only driven to a fresh distress 
on finding yourself helpless 
to fashion even an apology 
from the words left at your disposal. 
The ideas were falling fast inside your head, 
but their parachutes would not inflate. 
You regarded me, unblinking, 
palms pressed against your cheeks. 
I was ushered out the door 
to relieve your agitation. 

In the hallway, 
sitting in a plastic chair, 
I had the very strong impression 
that my name itself had broken. 
Mechanically, like an overburdened axle. 
A name that can’t be spoken 
by the person who conferred it 
has plainly failed its purpose, 
outlasted all utility. 

If I could relive our episode entirely 
I’d hand the flowers to a passing nurse, 
march into your room with an alphabet beneath my arm, 
escort the doctors to the door, 
and dispense with all their Latin chatter. 
“Here,” I’d say and lay each shape against the bedsheet, 
“find some combination of our twenty-five good letters 
and make me a new name.”
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!J.I.G.G.S.A.W!

 
wow.dope
 
Posted by !J.I.G.G.S.A.W! on Wednesday, October 14, 2009 - 5:29 AM
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Oma

 
thats deep!
 
Posted by Oma on Wednesday, October 14, 2009 - 6:34 AM
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☆★ヨmily☆★

 
ok i read that wrong delete that dessa

 
Posted by ☆★ヨmily☆★ on Wednesday, October 14, 2009 - 9:31 AM
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Ed
Ed Augugliaro

 
had me start to finish, enjoyed it a lot
 
Posted by Ed on Thursday, October 15, 2009 - 12:59 AM
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Kunt Trashula
Tasha Lacroix

 
this is amazing. reminds me of when my grandmother was in the hospital. its deep. and i understand completely. <3

 
Posted by Kunt Trashula on Saturday, October 17, 2009 - 7:28 AM
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Mike Jones!
Michael Yoest

 
Perfect.
 
Posted by Mike Jones! on Saturday, October 17, 2009 - 9:20 PM
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Billie Jo

 
Not that this has THAT much to do with the poem, but there's this book that has a bunch of little anecdotes about crazy brain dysfunctions (like different aphasias). It's a really well written, easy-to-read kind of book by an MD/ph.d in psychology. it's called The Man Who Mistook His Wife for a Hat. Oliver Sacks


 
Posted by Billie Jo on Tuesday, October 27, 2009 - 6:56 PM
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Dessa

 
I'm a pretty big fan of Mr. Sacks. Good taste. 


 
Posted by Dessa on Wednesday, October 28, 2009 - 2:55 AM
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