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Monday, October 12, 2009 


On Saturday, I received a check. (As always, receiving a check is the greatest thing ever (!) and I immediately wanted to put it into the bank.) I have a business checking account with Wells Fargo, but since I forgot my ATM # on the card, I had to wait until the banks opened Monday to make the deposit.

When I woke up today, I realized that it was Columbus Day, which is a Federal Holiday. This means most schools, government offices, the postal service & banks are closed in observance of the day Columbus came to the Americas. I really needed that check to clear, so I went to the Wells Fargo ATM anyway and was desperately making up pin #’s when to my surprise,  I noticed that the bank was open.

I walked up to a really nice investment consultant I know there (Andrew Jacob) and asked him why Wells was open when everyone else was closed. He told me that since Wells was very business oriented, they wanted to be there for business customers whenever possible. I asked if the employees get time and 1/2 pay. They don’t. I asked if he wanted to work today. He didn’t. He said everyone else he knows is at home with their families. He wanted that extra day. Andrew also told me that Wells was going to do this on other holidays too... So they can be there  for customers when no one else was.

While I truly appreciate the fact that the bank was open today, I can’t help but feel really sorry for all the employees who looked miserable today. The bank was completely dead. Yet they still had to be there, working more hours for the same pay. In this economy, if you have a job then you should be considered damn lucky. Complaining shouldn't even be an option. But does that mean working with no time off. Never taking a holiday. Never relaxing or enjoying freedom?

Americans work almost more hours then anyone else in the world, yet the US in not even amongst the top 10 countries in the world for quality of life. On the advice of 14 female friends, I started reading, “Eat, Pray, Love,” by Elizabeth Gilbert and she talks a lot about the difference between the European mentality to working and the American one. The Europeans work to live, take many holidays and focus on the pleasures in life. Conversely, Americans live to work, take barely any vacations and when they do, would rather be entertained then actually engage in pleasurable activities.

This is a big generalization of course, but I still can’t help wondering: What makes us think we need to work till we bleed?

Mp



RICHARD

 
I admit it I work way to many hours, am even contemplating starting my own endevor on the side and adding 20 or 30 hours a week to my work schedual. It boils down to this horrible addiction I have, its food I tell you I just cant kick it I have to eat. I have tried going without cold turkey but I am just not man enought to do it. All jokes aside, you make a valid point several members of my family make a great deal more money than I, they have nice toys but they never have time to use them it seems?
 
Posted by RICHARD on Monday, October 12, 2009 - 11:07 PM
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Bignip
Chris Nipper

 
I completely agree with most of what you have said. I used to be in the navy so i have been to many countries, and it is a proven fact that we tend to work our ass off for not a whole lot. Our government says that we are doing all this for the freedom that we have, but shit we never get to enjoy freedom since most of us work all the damn time. Now having a job that you love is a great benefit cause most of the time you are happy to spend the time at work and accomplish the goals that are infront of you, but still we need more time to do what is more important in life. Such ass spend more time with your family so that you can see your first kid take their first steps, be there for your mom when she is sick, make meaningful love to your spose, and just have time to relax for once.
 
Posted by Bignip on Monday, October 12, 2009 - 11:08 PM
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Mr. Dog

 
Wells Fargo was closed early on the 9th to be open today. ... or so the sign said... I'm BofA anyway!
 
Posted by Mr. Dog on Monday, October 12, 2009 - 11:08 PM
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ad:"polymath wannabe"

 
I wonder if it's maybe related to depression era mentality?  Having work was everything then.  That and the early American "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" philosophy might assist in creating a culture where we define our worth/value as people by how productive we are.  Just thinking out loud mind you.

adam

 
Posted by ad:"polymath wannabe" on Monday, October 12, 2009 - 11:08 PM
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A Fish Dinner in Memison aka Mez aka Irvin

 
Mandy, you seem to have this knack of posting on topics that are pretty germane yet often taken for granted.. thank you so much...
I only officially work 25 hrs per week, but with school work and my music projects– none of which pay anything to date– I never find myself too busy to smell the roses.. 
..except it's winter here n Colorado already.

 
Posted by A Fish Dinner in Memison aka Mez aka Irvin on Monday, October 12, 2009 - 11:55 PM
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Simon
Simon Meagher

 
MMMmmmm. Well, I don't like considering myself European, I'm Irish. But, I work somewhere between 70 & 75 hours per week. That's by choice though. I work for myself. Most of my customers, clients, associates and affiliates are everywhere else other than Ireland. So I have to work on their local time too. Sucks, but it's worth it. :) I've worked in petrol stations, building sites, security business, web/graphic design. I've been working since I was 15. I plan to retire within a few years. I'm not going to spend my life busting my ass off. While I'm young and I have the energy I'm going to make as much money as I can, then settle down and enjoy my life.  

Most people in Ireland work a 39 hour week. Some work 2 jobs. Personally I think things are going to get a lot tougher, the number of people looking for 2nd jobs is increasing daily. Taxes are going up on everything and the Government/Banks are finding new things to put taxes on. So the lifestyles Europeans once enjoyed and took for granted are fading away. One pub is closing down each day in Ireland.

I work hard to achieve a goal.
I can't say why anyone else works hard.
 
Posted by Simon on Monday, October 12, 2009 - 11:55 PM
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Ather

 
Japanese work even more.  Really, with today's economy and job maket, WF should hire people just for the holidays, and let their workers get a day off instead of forcing their slaves to work work work.  And Columbus didn't actually disocver America, he only lead the way there.
 
Posted by Ather on Tuesday, October 13, 2009 - 12:51 AM
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\m/egan Boggs
Megan Boggs

 
As someone who has to work most holidays (including Christmas and Thanksgiving unless they happen to fall on my day off) without extra pay, it totally sucks when you know most other people are off. On the other hand, I work ridiculous hours, not because i want to, but because I have to. My (sadly meager) means of life depends on it.

 
Posted by \m/egan Boggs on Tuesday, October 13, 2009 - 6:13 AM
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Kevin In No Mans Land

 
here in the uk we work more hours then we get holiday and we work more hours then any other european country at least we did, can't see it would have changed. we also keep upping retirement age here.

And a little note to Simon M, i'm english and i don't consider myself european and to be honest i want nothing to do europe what so ever.

 
Posted by Kevin In No Mans Land on Tuesday, October 13, 2009 - 6:13 AM
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Simon
Simon Meagher

 
Good on you :)
 
Posted by Simon on Tuesday, October 13, 2009 - 6:49 PM
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John

 
I thought I would have a quick answer for you, but this is tougher than I'd thought.     I'll just say that when you work LOVE THE DOING!   If you *LOVE* what you are doing, then it's not work.  Or as someone once said, if you aren't enjoying what you're doing, you're doing it wrong.   When you have real passion for what you do it doesn't feel like work.

Another thing is control.   Having control over ones life as much as possible is an ideal for lots of people.    The more control I have over my life, i.e. the more I can do what I love and the less I am controlled by out side forces (e.g. government, nature's rath, etc.) the better.   More money gives you more control.    This, btw, is a big reason I'm against socialism.  It sucks a man's life from him.

Don't get me wrong, I love vacations and down time.   I need them to re-charge my physical and mental batteries and I want to enjoy other aspects of life aside from "work".


 
Posted by John on Tuesday, October 13, 2009 - 6:14 AM
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JOY!
Joy Hopkins

 
maybe, just maybe... in other countries everybody pays there own way and thats why they can afford the luxury of time and money to holiday.  I can't even afford to be sick ONE day... and both my husband and I work our booties off.  There is too much government aid in the u.s for some people to sit around on their lazy butts popping out kids left and right and being unemployed by choice because our taxes allow them to do so!!!!!!!

 
Posted by JOY! on Tuesday, October 13, 2009 - 6:50 PM
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Tony

 
The simple truth is we're trained from birth here that we can be replaced and most of us not only work to live but just to survive.
 
Posted by Tony on Tuesday, October 13, 2009 - 6:51 PM
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Jenn Marie
Jennifer Myers

 
Amen. That's the plain and simple truth of it. We work our butts off trying to be better than the next employ in line because if not, we could be without a job. "There are applications lined up out the door. What makes you so special from them?" "Well, sir. I'm ready to work my body to the bones for your company!" And then continue to do this until you're retirement age. And what sucks is now alot of retirees are coming out of retirement to work because they still can't afford to live a happy retirement!

Also, school's down here in the south were open on Columbus Day. I kept mine home.

 
Posted by Jenn Marie on Wednesday, October 14, 2009 - 2:12 AM
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Jenn Marie
Jennifer Myers

 
whoops! :P employee** 
 
Posted by Jenn Marie on Wednesday, October 14, 2009 - 5:16 AM
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Kansai Music Conference

 
Yeah, that pales in comparison to things here in Japan. With the Japanese population now declining, it can only mean more working hours. Companies tell their employees not to work overtime, but the employee response is "what? how do you expect me to do all this work you've asked me to do in a regular work day?"  
 
Posted by Kansai Music Conference on Wednesday, October 14, 2009 - 2:12 AM
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♥JEN♥

 
Because its the american dream!  You work as hard as you can to get promoted...to get more money...to work more hours.  Its this vicious circle that we all do....I know I've done it.  Our goals are to work hard enough to bring in money so we can do and provide great things for our family.  Instead...we get a decent paycheck but it doesnt cover the extra 30 hours you are putting in per week or how much your family misses you.  Its what we are all programed to do....

 
Posted by ♥JEN♥ on Thursday, October 15, 2009 - 2:35 AM
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Al Wycherley

 
I think you'll find the UK and a lot of other European countries also work stupid ours and shifts. My factory is about to go 24/7 and the managers, who'll still work 9 to 5 Mon to Fri, are all telling us how great this is for the company. Try telling that to our families.
 
Posted by Al Wycherley on Thursday, October 15, 2009 - 2:35 AM
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Naz

 
You answered your own question with your very statement!!

"I received a check. (As always, receiving a check is the greatest thing ever (!)"

Mystery solved....

Your welcome!!

Hugs,

Naz

 
Posted by Naz on Thursday, October 15, 2009 - 6:59 PM
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Stephanie
Stephanie Higdon

 
Because bleeding is fun.

And I obviously need sleep.

 
Posted by Stephanie on Saturday, October 17, 2009 - 9:04 AM
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Corwin

 
Every over-worker has a different story. Some enjoy their work, some work to support the "little extras" in their lifestyles and still others find themselves having to work more than one job just to scrape by. I could tell you all kinds of stories about that last category. If you're poor in America nowadays, you generally stay that way no matter how hard you work. It's sad, but it's a fact.

 
Posted by Corwin on Saturday, October 17, 2009 - 7:46 PM
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Leigh Stoner www.leighstoner.com

 
Food for thought................If everyone is busy working all the time, when do you have time to complain? In America it seems that most family's have 2 wage earners. I believe this is due to the government nickel and diming us to death. 
When you have more than one child in day care, the lowest wage earner in most cases seems to be almost working for free. Add sales tax, property tax, health insurance, etc., what's left? I didn't even get to food and shelter.
I have a saying about freedom in America- "Freedom is a figment of your imagination." Yes I know we have it better than most of the world but, I have also seen our rights and freedom diappear over the years.  
 
Posted by Leigh Stoner www.leighstoner.com on Monday, October 26, 2009 - 9:23 PM
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