You are right about all of this. But men have changed as well. They on average have become more feminine.
 

not true. the exact opposite, actually. men face pressure today to be extremely testosterone driven and macho (chugging beers? burping loudly? thinking jessica alba is hot? winning fights? bragging about hooking up? owning a gun? being the bread-winner for the family? none of these things are considered feminine but are required of men to gain respect from their fellow man.). for example, men used to care just as much about fashion as women do. bows, lace, satin, hose, heels, long curly hair, they wore it all. nowadays, it's "gay" to even care what you look like, if you're a guy, never mind wear bows in your hair. I'm not saying guys have it easy, they just have it easier.

 

Do me one favor please. Tell me what girls have to deal with and I will tell you what guys have to deal with. We each know about as much about the other gender as a Lady Bug knows its mother....there is the biology in me : P
 

wait...what? i don't understand your analogy/question.
 

"Can't we all just be kitties?"

I ask myself this every day...