People always seem to ask me for advice, but its not my place to interfier in anyone's Life.
if my advice goes wrong and lands you in trouble i'm responsible, because i opened my mouth.

however - the simple rules we could all live by to make the world a nicer place

1) give people the benefit of the doubt - were living in a blame culture where somone is always liable and usually pays dearly for it, granted there are times when accountability must be taken, but theese days its all too easy to point the finger for personal gain, if somebody wrongs you, yeah talk about it, but gung ho guns blazing gets you nowhere.
we see this in the news, in our politics, right down to schoolyard fights.

also - don't sleep with close relatives :P