Noticing that people who i use to hang out with i dont hang out with them anymore.. I wouldnt say it is my fault it might be maybe they wanted change along with me. If you don't like something change it; if you can't change it, change the way you think about it. When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. Without accepting the fact that everything changes, we cannot find perfect composure.  But unfortunately, although it is true, it is difficult for us to accept it.  Because we cannot accept the truth When come to a bad situation with people, don't worry it'll change.  If you're in a good situation, don't worry it'll change. Just because everything is different doesn't mean anything has changed. Maybe it is the way it was suppose to be. I dont know maybe we are not suppose to try to make it the same again, maybe we are suppose to sit back and watch it change around us.. People we weere friends with just changing, or yourself changing... Hell i mean if I do something wrong i will admit it, why is it so hard for other people too.. I guess that is why everything is changing and everyone is so fake..  Our only security is our ability to change.