MODESTY MIRROR:

Mirror One:  Is my shirt too tight?

            Trampoline time:  When you "bounce" your fingers on you tee shirt between you cleavage does the material make an immediate and strong come back like bouncing on a trampoline?  If so, your shirt may be too tight.  Remember it won't grow as the day progresses.

Mirror Two:  Is my top to short?

            Stick 'em up!  When you raise your hands in the air how high does your shirt come, how much belly do you show?  You might be surprised how many times a day you have to raise your arms.  Try layering with a longer tee underneath.  The boys' or men's departments in most stores carry inexpensive tank tees in various colors.

Mirror Three: Are my pants to tight or low cut?

Apprenticing with a plumber:  Low rise pants cause a problem for most females.  Stand in front of a mirror and bend over.  Can you see down the top of your pants?  Does the top of your "under secrets" stick out above your pants?  Squat down in front of a mirror so you can see what others coming behind you might see.  Does it look like someone poured you into your pants and forgot to stop pouring?  [Again, tee to the rescue.]

Mirror Four: What am I reflecting?

            Mirror, Mirror on the wall:  Sit down in front of a mirror in your shorts, skirt, or dress.  Many things that might seem to work when standing, quickly loose their modesty when you sit.  Ask yourself if you would be comfortable to have your grandpa [or any man that you respect and admire] sitting across from you.  Better yet, would he be comfortable sitting across from you in those shorts, or skirt.

Mirror Five:  Is it cold in here?

            'Nuff said…: You might want to get a thicker bra or use your secret fashion weapon, the tank tee.

Mirror Six:  How low can you go?

            Salute:  Tired of seeing way to much cleavage?  Place your hand against your chest with your thumb in the "well" of your collar bone.  It is located at the base of the throat.  With your thumb in that position, any skin below your hand is probably too much skin.  Check it out.

Mirror Seven:  Say What?

            When in doubt, ask your dad or brother to be honest about what they think.  They will be honest most of the time.  Thank them and accept their critique.