I want a guy that makes my heart skip a beat, who brings me flowers just because, who can laugh at my jokes and then joke back and keep the flow, a guy who is intellectual and can have debates on a variety of subjects, a guy who views education of high importance, a guy who's smile makes me melt, someone that can hold my hand in public and be proud, who makes my day by saying "You're beautiful," that knows the difference of when I need a shoulder to cry on and when to give me some space, who will protect me when someone momentarily shatters my dreams, who can make me laugh and really laugh, not the fake laugh, that can cook something besides ramen or easymac, that thinks creatively with me and life, who will carve our initials under an Oak tree, who will kiss me on the forehead, that will have random and spontaneous dance parties with me on the street, in the car, at the mall...anywhere, that isn't afraid of what others think, that is confident but not cocky, a guy who will defend me again others who put me down, who will serenade me till I fall asleep, who will go on a random road trip with me to nowhere, that can tolerate my wild yet friendly family, who can be respectful to my friends and my family, that loves cats! A guy who can support my dreams and allow me to support his, that will be open and honest to me, who will let me satisfy their emotional and physical needs, a guy that will let me love him and give him part of my world, who misses me after he hangs up the phone, that can be serious when needed and knows the appropriate times to joke or not, who will play kung fu with me, that will sing kareoke with me, a guy who will inspire me to do something greater than I can imagine, who will be faithful to me emotionally. mentally, and physically, a guy who will write down all the things that make him love me, a guy that is a fighter in the sense that he will never give up on a goal or dream, a guy who is willing to work through the thick and thin, good and the bad, a guy who is a best friend and a lover, who will be my partner in crime, and FINALLY...a guy who will be able to do all of these and still be standing my be in the End.

I know this is a long list but everyone has always told me to never settle for anything less and to only give what you would give...maybe he's out there.