if i was him i would keep tryin to find her and forgot what his family says
 

God bless you and your ministry. I went through this with my family, my mother was raped by her own dad at the age of 12 which makes us brother and sister. I found out about this at a late stage in my life 37. I then found out that the man my mother married when i was about 3 is'nt really my father either. I wanted to know who my real father was, whats his name, whats he like, where he's from but my family always kept this a hush hush thing. There is too much pain concerning this. Am i wrong to look for such a man? I think that old wounds would open again and i too would be hurt in this process. Maybe it's not the same as looking for a sister but what is the same is the need to search for that relative that concerns you at heart. I pray for a solution on both sides and i pray for a right conclusion. Thank you and God bless you for this time amen. brother richie kenneth