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Status: Single
City: Port Orchard/Bremerton
State: Washington
Country: US
Signup Date: 8/11/2005
Saturday, October 03, 2009 

Current mood:  confident
YES!
I am the closest I have ever been in my life to truly being "Happily Single" & I hope I don't jinx that by writing this ;-)
1st & foremost I'm writing this blog to get some things off my chest so that I may be able to form a strong resolve as to where I'm at & where I'm going in life. I have come to the realization after repeated failed relationships that I am the kind of guy who sucks at relationships AND being single. Talk about a curse! I've never been able to find happiness in either state so I'm determined to change that. My goal is to learn how to be a single guy & be happy with this while growing in the ways necessary to my becoming a success story in the relationship realm. This is ultimately what I want. I love being in love & hope to ultimately find a relationship which will last until we both pass on. With anything in life there is a give & take of sorts & I have knowingly taken a different path than most. For the time being, I have traded love, marriage, a family & all of the nice things money can buy to follow my passion in life & live my dream. I believe that nothing worth a shit in life is obtained without sacrifice & my sacrifice has been huge. I ponder my life & my choices daily & often question myself as to whether I'm doing the right thing but deep down in my heart & soul I know that I'm doing what's right. This is what I was meant to do & to deny it would be a crime to myself, my son, my family, my friends, to all of you & the entire wolrd around me. I would carry that unsung resentment & disdain for my self throughout my life & it would infect all that I touch. I won't be that spoiled kid who takes what they have for granted because i am all too aware of how much I have given up to make this dream a reality. However, I do have to admit that I've been guilty of taking my relationships for granted at times. I'm a woman's worst nightmare in many aspects. On one hand I'm a singer/musician who is kind, loving, passionate, honest, silly, generally cheerful, spontaneous & giving but on the flip side I'm quite possibly the most self absorbed & driven person you'll ever meet & one who does not take well to his passion (music) being questioned & or contended with. I have fallen into too many relationships where my GF has instantly placed me into the center of her universe & my being gone as much as I am (Shows/touring/parenthood) quickly turned this scenario into an unhealthy & often unsatisfied obsession on her part. I on the other hand have two things already firmly placed in the center of my universe-
The apparent love in my life is music & the biggest is my son. I am loyal & true & would never cheat on my girl friend or wife (should I ever get hitched) but the romantic relationship will come in 3rd place on a regular basis when Music & Parenhood are put into the mix which is almost always. Any girl who questions this or tries to upset this balance is ultimately wasting both her & my time in a relationship that was doomed before it began. I guess that's part of why I'm where I'm at now & why I'm writing this blog. I'm in no hurry to let anyone down or be hurt by this ill-fated struggle again anytime soon. I'm a tough deal to take & I've come to the conclusion that it's going to take a very special woman to be compatible with my life & handle me. I believe that capable women are out there but I'm in no hurry to waste my time in another relationship with a woman who is less than what I need. Nor do I want to waste someone's time by not being the type of man she needs. Too much hurt comes from this so I'm determined to steer clear until the right woman/situation should come along. Do I get lonely? I think my debut album's title says it all- Sure I do! That's all the more reason why I want to stay happily single. This doesn't mean being a player and having sex with any & every girl I meet who wants to sleep with me but rather being open to experience what life has to offer & growing stronger along the way. Developing a keener sense of what I want & need in a woman while becoming more honed as to what my woman to be will in turn want & need from me. Sex & intimacy are important to me & part of any healthy relationship so I'm not planning on being a saint but I do plan on being honest & being a gentleman to any & every woman I meet. I make it a point to treat each person I meet with respect & kindness regardless of sex, race, age, nationality, etc. anyway. The only differing factor here is that on a primal level I am undeniabley a man who is attracted to women. I don't believe that this gives me (or anyone) carte blanche to be a dishonest player in my opinion though. I hope I haven't rambled too much with this. I'm starting to see double (triple even! :-) so I'm going to to hit the hay. I'll definitely revisit this blog soon though to reflect, add & or edit any type-o's if necessary. Thanks for reading this My Friends!


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Rice Rocket Studios ™

 
You speak the truth my friend, you will find the right woman for you.You just have to let the forces that are greater then us do there work and it will happen. You take care of your world and that's your son and the rewards for that will be rewarded greatly in more ways then one. i can see it by you doing what you do best and that's being a great dad and giving music to those who can feel the love and pain in your lyrics and connect to you from all over and both are much better then any amount of cash and women who don't respect your doing so.

stay well my friend,you inspire me as an artist in your passion for doing what you love.


MORGAN



 
Posted by Rice Rocket Studios ™ on Saturday, October 03, 2009 - 1:10 PM
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James Hunnicutt

 
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts & for the kind words you have for me & my music man.
I truly NEED that kind of connection with the people around me & there is no greater feeling than to know what I do somehow touches others in a deep & hopefully positive way. I rip my heart open with all of my songs to a varying degree & when the sincerity & emotion I put into it is brought back to be by your words in this blog or by a persons words at a show, it somehow makes things right for me. I gain a great amount of therapy just from singing & performing my songs but I've noticed that sometimes it's like a flipping a coin anymore as to whether performing will indeed make me feel better or at times leave me to a darker place. A good friend of mine noticed this during my last tour & told me that I have an unhealthy fixation with the darker side of things. Namely, death & loneliness. I basically relive the heartaches & deaths in my life every time I perform certain songs that I've written so hearing a positive word afterward helps to keep me from feeling too down afterward should I travel a little too far down the path. Sorry for rambling man.... I aim to respond to every one of these so maybe I should save a little bit of thought & wordage :-)
Thank you again for your thoughts & words. They mean more to me than you know.....

 
Posted by James Hunnicutt on Wednesday, October 07, 2009 - 4:52 AM
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Rice Rocket Studios ™

 
its ok to travel that path thats how all the greats did it,just don't let it consume you brother.

MORGAN

 
Posted by Rice Rocket Studios ™ on Wednesday, October 07, 2009 - 6:42 AM
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tat2darling

 
wow. I agree, it's hard to be wonderful.

 
Posted by tat2darling on Saturday, October 03, 2009 - 1:40 PM
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James Hunnicutt

 
Thank you Schellaphant!
:-)

 
Posted by James Hunnicutt on Wednesday, October 07, 2009 - 4:52 AM
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dan

 
boobies!

 
Posted by dan on Saturday, October 03, 2009 - 3:02 PM
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James Hunnicutt

 
Ha-ha!
I think every comment or message you've ever sent me has had "boobies" in it or just simply says "boobies" like this one does! I love it! Thanks for making me laugh & for more importantly making me think about "boobies" my friend!
They are quite wonderful & being "happily single" does present more opportunities for me to see "boobies"....
;-)
Have a good one!

 
Posted by James Hunnicutt on Wednesday, October 07, 2009 - 4:55 AM
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G-ROCK ™

 
amen, brutha.
 
Posted by G-ROCK ™ on Saturday, October 03, 2009 - 4:17 PM
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James Hunnicutt

 
Thank you Sister G-ROCK!!!!
;-)

 
Posted by James Hunnicutt on Wednesday, October 07, 2009 - 4:55 AM
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Lulu
Lulu W.

 
next time I'm single, its you & me sillybilly ;-)
 
Posted by Lulu on Saturday, October 03, 2009 - 5:47 PM
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James Hunnicutt

 
Be-Bop-A-LuLulu she's my Baby!!!
;-)
Luyou Lurule LuLulu!!!

 
Posted by James Hunnicutt on Wednesday, October 07, 2009 - 4:56 AM
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Necronomiconway Twitty

 
I think that a gal that's already got her own stuff going on from the get go (artist, career, musician-whatever) is the one for you. If someone's just waiting around for the next one, it ain't gonna work. If you and she have your own independent things, then your absence won't be as "traumatic"-and you'll probably be better able to appreciate someone who has their own passion and focus as well. Ultimately, let it come as it will and don't sweat it. My advice (like you even asked for it) is let every gal up front know your priorities, and that if that doesn't work just keep it casual. When my wife & I met I was already the father of a then 3-year old boy who lived 100 mi. north of Tacoma (where I'm at). I made it clear to her as soon as I could that fostering and maintaining that relationship w/him was my A#1 priority, as it was especially tenuous at the time. My oldest son is now 15, and we have a great relationship. My wife has been indispensably helpful in supporting me, and all is good. Good luck sir, and have a good show tonight.
--Matt E.



 
Posted by Necronomiconway Twitty on Saturday, October 03, 2009 - 5:59 PM
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James Hunnicutt

 
1st off...
You may very well have THE coolest Myspace Profile name in existence Matt &
2nd off...
I think you are spot on about me needing to find a woman who is a real go-getter with a lot going on herself so as to not set up that past scenario for me next time around. I've been coming to that conclusion for quite a few years now & voicing it to friends in recent years as well. Thank you so much for sharing your words man & good on you that you are happy with your wife & son & that you all three have a close relationship to one another. Great pic by the way! Sounds like you and your son are crazy close like David & I are. He's 16 & I act like I'm 14 so we have TONS of fun :-)
Thanks again Brother & have a great night!
James

 
Posted by James Hunnicutt on Wednesday, October 07, 2009 - 5:06 AM
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Necronomiconway Twitty

 
Sorry, didn't think that photo would come out so HUGE.
 
Posted by Necronomiconway Twitty on Saturday, October 03, 2009 - 5:59 PM
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~FIRESTARTER~
Colleen Short

 
I hear you dude and would encourage you to read this book...it's perfect for where you are now and can be applied to any relationship you have in the future.
 
PLEASE DONT JUST READ THE TITLE AND FREAK...also while it does cover Poly it is not a poly book. It is a book about honesty, passion and being good to everyone.

The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures (Paperback)


 
Posted by ~FIRESTARTER~ on Saturday, October 03, 2009 - 7:40 PM
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James Hunnicutt

 
I believe that we can learn something from everything so I'm down to check it out :-)
Thanks for the tip Firestarter!
:-)

 
Posted by James Hunnicutt on Wednesday, October 07, 2009 - 5:08 AM
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~FIRESTARTER~
Colleen Short

 
James just read your bulliten ...I admire you for wanting to get a little deeper with life and yourself! Let me know if you ever want some one to bounce stufff off of. I enjoy disscusing stuff and ex[anding my mind and heart.

 
Posted by ~FIRESTARTER~ on Wednesday, October 07, 2009 - 9:30 PM
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looneychickaroo
roxy looney

 
i tend to ramble on too! or so i think! i think it is good that you realize how you are in a relationship. you know your strong holds and your weak ones. as do i for myself. it is not always easy to look at that side of ourselves, ya know! for me anyways! when you find that woman you will know, if she loves you for you. if she loves your son and treats him as if he were her own, lovewize, and if she respects you and your music. anyone who gets with you knows that you are a busy man! if she is willing to go along for the ride and be by your side then that is awesome. but you taking time for your son, your music and yourself, for a while is a great thing, you get to learn what james likes, doesnt like and what james wants. ya know!? well good luck with your journey, and have fun too. how old is your son? please come to stockton, i miss you!!! ;(

haha your just a goof lookin for your ball. haha

i am just a ball lookin for my chain haha jk!!
peace roxy

 
Posted by looneychickaroo on Saturday, October 03, 2009 - 7:58 PM
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James Hunnicutt

 
Thank you Roxy!
I totally agree with you!
I think that this will be a win-win situation for all parties involved in the long run :-)
P.S.
I was talking with Middagh today & we're working out a Stockton Show for Sat. Nov. 14th!
See you soon & thanks again for your thoughts & words!
James

 
Posted by James Hunnicutt on Wednesday, October 07, 2009 - 5:21 AM
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looneychickaroo
roxy looney

 
sweet deal!! yay!! i love middagh he rocks!! he knows how to get things goin!! :P i will be right up front for you man!!! always am!! im still a gimp, :) haha oh well!! james you are groovy dudE!!


take care and have a safe journey!!

stay outta trouble!!!!

 
Posted by looneychickaroo on Sunday, October 11, 2009 - 3:50 AM
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Jungle-Jay

 
It's taken me quite a while to learn to be 'happily single'.  I think people often confuse 'alone' and 'lonely'.  Just because I'm alone doesn't mean I'm lonely.  There are 'those days' when I'm feeling bummed but I always manage to cheer up after thinking about past relationships and the emotional burden that came along for the ride.

I'm not a musician, but I do have things I'm busy and happy with.  Often it seems that women get upset when they're not on the top of the list ALL the time.  I have to agree with Matt E.  A gal that has her own thing going, who is almost too busy for you too, would be your best match.  Any gal less, and you're starting a relationship with one-half already on a pedestal.

 
Posted by Jungle-Jay on Saturday, October 03, 2009 - 10:08 PM
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James Hunnicutt

 
I hear you about the difference between being alone & lonely. I feel alone at times but I think I'm pretty happy & satisfied with my life & where it's going at this point & time. I definitely need a busy-bee who doesn't make her life revolve around me for sure :-)
Thanks for your thoughts & words Bro!
James

 
Posted by James Hunnicutt on Wednesday, October 07, 2009 - 5:26 AM
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Vampire Kitty69

 
well I will say that though a girlfriend shouldn't necessarily be number one she should fal into the same category as friends and family which should always atleast be number two. because there is nothing wrong with putting your dream/career first. but a girlfriend whom would be a long term relationship and all should be in the family/friend category all the same. but that's just my thought. hopefuly when you're ready you should be able to easily find a lady who is happy with a guy who actually has a dream and the determination and ability to achieve it. further more being single is always good for awhile. besides now that you are actually hapy with that it'll be easier for the right lady to find you.
 
Posted by Vampire Kitty69 on Sunday, October 04, 2009 - 12:40 AM
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James Hunnicutt

 
Maybe the "1st, 2nd, 3rd" analogy comes off a bit harsh, so I can see how you might take it that way. I agree that our significant other should ideally be on the same plain as our family & closest friends but my top priorities are My son & My music so going from that romance takes 3rd. I don't think any of the women I've been with could hang with the balance & therefor never made it to an equal plain as my family. They battled my passion & priorities & in the end made themselves a crystal clear 3rd by doing so. I've always told myself the following words in regard to this type of situation "Anyone who forces us to choose in a "it's them or me" kind of way has already made the choice for me". They're gone.... None of my X-GF's did that in so bold but a few have battled with me throughout the duration of the relationship to a degree that things eventually came to the same result. Hopefully I was able to shed some light on the whole "1st, 2nd, 3rd" thing that I was attempting to relate to everyone with this blog. I see where you're coming from & agree for the most part. Hopefully you can see & relate to where I'm coming from as well. I think I expanded my own thoughts on this a little just now & that can never be a bad thing! :-)
Thank you for responding & sharing your thoughts with me!
James

 
Posted by James Hunnicutt on Wednesday, October 07, 2009 - 5:45 AM
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{{Carol}}

 
It’s very refreshing that people are upfront about things. You don’t find that very much. At least from my perspective. Or people try to hide behind a fake wall of what‘s really going on. I don’t get that feeling from you. Writing, to me, is a very cathartic experience.

You know, when you say that you “suck” at relationships…you don’t…I don’t even know you but don’t cut yourself down. It’s not that you “suck”…I look at it like this…and I’m going to use my own life as an example…everything, and I mean everything that has happened in my life were all stepping stones to where I am right this very minute. And believe me I have had my fair share of crummy relationships…but I learned something about myself with each one…and there have only been a few…but still…it’s quality not quantity ;)…anyhow, I could say that I “suck” at relationships too…but then I really take a step back and the answer is no, no I don’t. It’s just that the guys that have been in my life were not the right ones for me.
That’s all…nothing more, nothing less…

I think it is awesome that you are taking the time to sit back and really look at your life. And to continue pursuing your dream…which is singing/performing…that is awesome! And being a Dad.
It’s very important to know where you came from, where you are currently and where you’re going. And it seems like that's where you are right now...trying to figure that all out.

I have just recently figured out in my own life those three things...where I came from, where I am and where I'm going…and it’s an empowering feeling to actually know those things. You feel stronger in a sense. At least I do.
There have been plenty of roadblocks along the way in my life. And not very good decisions made in the process. One being that I moved clear cross country to be with a guy…probably not the best decision I ever made. We are no longer together. And I have been single almost a year now. And during this time I have discovered a lot of things about myself. But I’ve learned to take the negative aspects of things and see the positive. I refuse to ever be with someone again just to be with someone to replace that lonely feeling. I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason...everything.

One very positive thing is that I went back to college after *cough* 20 years…and this just took place in Sept of this year. *Yay me!!*
And I have learned so much about myself in a very short time and I only see things getting more clear as far as the path that I am on. But again, 20 years ago I may not have had the same visions and certainly not the same life experiences I have as of today. So I look at it all as I good thing. Yeah, so there have been some negative things that have happened…but so what…I’m stronger and smarter for it.

If I didn’t move from Cleveland, Ohio to Camano Island, Washington I would not be where I am right now…and I don’t mean in a physical sense.
I mean, I would probably not have gone back to school. I *obviously* would not have met the people I have since I have been here. And Washington state is much less of a depressing state than Ohio…*sorry anyone from Ohio that might read this*…but it’s a true statement. And I wouldn’t be writing this in your blog right now…:p :D so, I consider myself very thankful to be where I am today.

I’m not telling you what to do…but stop saying things like you are a women’s worst nightmare!…stop. That’s crazy talk…
You know that you are a good decent person…you wouldn’t be this upfront writing a blog about it if it weren’t true. You are not a nightmare...maybe a little misunderstood? Big difference.  

I think it is a positive quality to be driven…but using the word self-absorbed in the same sentence sounds like that was something that someone may have said to you? Not 100% on that…just a feeling that I have.
And you have every right to feel almost threatened if someone does not “approve” of what you do.
It’s probably not a good thing if your GF’s of the past have put you on a pedestal and then felt hurt or left out when you would do your traveling or even playing locally.
One thing that I don’t think is right is when someone uses the phrase “if you loved me” ie., you would understand, or you would spend more time with me…that’s just so wrong.
And I’m not sure if I read it correctly or not but if anyone was reluctant of the time you spend with your son??? Wow…that’s a huge no-no. All of those things are important to you. And another person needs to be respectful of that.

And I don’t even think you need to say something like “but the romantic relationship will come in 3rd place”…I think if you found someone who thinks like you do, putting it into a “place” won’t be necessary. I agree with being upfront about the things that are important to you. Those things need to be expressed. It’s certainly not good to bottle stuff up.

I can tell by the things you are saying in this blog that it really hurts you and it means a lot to you to have someone who will understand. And rightfully so.

I love to read and write *does it show???...lol* so I hope I have not been too wordy in your blog…I like it when people write in my blogs…doesn’t happen very often…but that’s what blogs are for, right? 

 
Posted by {{Carol}} on Sunday, October 04, 2009 - 1:10 AM
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James Hunnicutt

 
Wow!
Thank you for your in depth insight Carol Ann!
I love to write myself & have been guilty of being a motor-mouth at times as well so no worries on the length of your response. I applaud you for it actually :-)
I think you are right about some of my "negative" self name calling in the fact that it is a conditioned response. I;ve harbored a lot of pain & guilt over these failed relationships (once again- are they really failures?) & spent way too much time in the "woulda'-coulda'-shoulda'" department sifting though the baggage of my past. You are correct in that I haven't found the right woman yet. That isn't a failure on mine or any of my X's parts. Just didn't work out. Nothing more & nothing less. :-) I don't belive in "regret" per se, so how can I call these relationships "failed"? It's similar to how some of AA's teachings apply to my alcoholism. "It took every drink you took to get you to the point of being sober as you are now so there's nothing to regret". No use crying over spilt milk is a good one too :-)
You are a wise & insihgtful woman Carol Ann & I can't thank you enough for sharing your thoughts, opinions & life with me here in this blog.
I'll respond more when I don't have Dad duties to tend to :-)
James

 
Posted by James Hunnicutt on Wednesday, October 07, 2009 - 5:55 AM
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Jo Cleaver

 
if i can find real love, certainly you can! good luck n i give you kudos for your honesty n integrity here.
 
Posted by Jo Cleaver on Sunday, October 04, 2009 - 1:53 AM
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James Hunnicutt

 
Thank you Jo!
I appreciate your faith in life & me ;-)
I'm optimistic & truly believe I will be happily in love for the rest of my life before too many years pass by...
That's what I want & won't accept any less :-)
Congratz' on your love & happiness too!
James

P.S.
See you in Nov.!

 
Posted by James Hunnicutt on Wednesday, October 07, 2009 - 5:58 AM
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*kiLLaKeLL*

 
It's the only way to be!  My ego has a difficult enuff time making room for others!  If my head can make it thru the door~you deserve self independence and expression with no ball and chain!  It's what really makes life fun!  luv ya!

 
Posted by *kiLLaKeLL* on Sunday, October 04, 2009 - 2:31 AM
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James Hunnicutt

 
Thank you KillaKell!
No kidding! I can't even put up with myself half of the time so I'm not fooling myself by thinking that there's this perfect little angel out there whom I'll never get sick of... :-)
We all have our quirks & faults. The trick is to find someone whose wonderful traits make the negative ones practically non-existent or unnoticeable. I think that's part of what love does. I'm hoping that during this time in my life I might be able to fix & or lessen some of my quirks & be less likely to drive that woman crazy when we do in fact meet & fall hopelessly in love together :-)
Have a good one My Friend!
James

 
Posted by James Hunnicutt on Wednesday, October 07, 2009 - 9:37 PM
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**Alyson**
Alyson Vetter

 
James...,
 I have NOTHING but respect for your honesty, truth & talent.... I think its wonderful that you are putting your honest views & realities out there.... Personally, i have always thought you a REALLY interesting person & have always wanted to know you better as a friend (as we share so many common pals!).... Also, it doesnt hurt that we're practically neighbors! If your looking for new (platonic) friends...., ya know my number!

 
Posted by **Alyson** on Sunday, October 04, 2009 - 4:52 AM
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James Hunnicutt

 
Thank you so much for all that you've said here Alyson!
I am humbled & blown away by your kind & honest words!
I also find you to be an intriguing person & one who goes to the beat of their own drum which is refreshing in this day & age!
You are loving, compassionate & kind but are also one helluva' straight shooter & I admire that about you as well ;-)
I'm looking forward to becoming closer friends with you as the years roll on as well!
You have my number too & we WILL hang out soon!
James

 
Posted by James Hunnicutt on Wednesday, October 07, 2009 - 9:42 PM
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Brandy Pants
Brandy Love

 
I love you James and I'm very happy that you never put your penis in my vagina.  In different circumstances perhaps you penis may of been graced by the warm hug of my vagina.  We were meant to travel a different path however.  A path full of music, shows, tours, laughter, more laughter, even more laughter, snorts, snorting, pooping, PILLaging, sunblock, exposed penis, pink flamingos, looking you in your wandering eye, and jack in the box.  I don't regret a moment of our friendship together.  I never EVER NEVER EVER see you anymore, but that still doesn't change the fact that I love you!
 
Posted by Brandy Pants on Sunday, October 04, 2009 - 7:44 AM
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James Hunnicutt

 
Manch-Spanch & a Balslamic-Chinaigrette to you Branny!!!
(not in the literal sense of course with that 1st sentence ;-) Was it actually a sentence anyway?
FYI- The rest of this IS to be taken in the literal sense....
I love you Branny!!!!
For all of the reasons you mentioned & more....
Thank you for being one of THE best friends anyone could ever hope to have!
;-)
I'll be over to visit soon!
Dr. Rocky McPillerton

 
Posted by James Hunnicutt on Wednesday, October 07, 2009 - 9:50 PM
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Dirty
Dusty Kirk

 
I live the same scenario daily, my friend. I believe a small handful of people were put here to play music and entertain the masses. You are truly gifted and living your dreams. If that ain't punk rock then I don't know what is!! That special someone will come along someday!! Just keep that high quality rock-a-rollin my good friend!! Can't wait to rip up another stage with y'all again!! Take care bro.

Dirty

 
Posted by Dirty on Sunday, October 04, 2009 - 2:53 PM
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James Hunnicutt

 
You are too kind My Brother!
I believe this is definitely my calling in life & not a "passing phase" ;-)
I should come down to Long View & open up for you fuckers sometime soon!
I miss rockin' with you guys too!
Much love to you Bro!
James

 
Posted by James Hunnicutt on Thursday, October 15, 2009 - 7:12 PM
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Your Body is a Temple My Body is a Canvas
Robin Cagle

 
Good for you! I wish you the best of luck. We all have to create our own happiness in this life Im still learning that lesson at 32. Its important that you follow your dreams and live your passion because in my humble opinion success in life is determined by how full you live not the material possetions you aquire. You are not a failure at being single or relationships rather you are just learning alot more life lessons to succeed when it counts. I understand the difficulty of finding someone who can deal with not being the center of your universe. I am someones momma first and I have had many relationships end because of that. I dont need someone or want someone who cant love every aspect of my life and niether do you. To be a father and have your passion for music will certainly take a special women BUT, they're out there. We all are going to end up in the same place eventually our paths are just inevitably varied. Do what you need to do to be happy and being single and still having the intimacy and sex is fine as long as your honest and both know exactly what that means for both of you. I wish you nothing but the best life experiences and am happy for you. Take care!
 
Posted by Your Body is a Temple My Body is a Canvas on Sunday, October 04, 2009 - 6:28 PM
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James Hunnicutt

 
Thank you Robin!
I don't think we ever completely figure it out so it's ok to be in that "learning phase" if you ask me. I think life is a huge "learning phase" by it's very nature anyway. At least we are aware of that & choose self awareness & growth over ego & negative energy. I feel sorry for those people who are big on themselves, think they have it all figured out & tend to roll with that "It's the world's/someone else's fault & never mine philosophy". It all derives from insecurity & we're ALL insecure. It's part of being human but that's where this self awareness thing can be so vitalizing & powerful. Knowing how messed up we can be is a good starting point to being improving. :-)
Thanks again & have a great day!
James

 
Posted by James Hunnicutt on Wednesday, October 07, 2009 - 9:56 PM
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Robs
Robin M Chapman-Thompson

 
It's good that you recognize that you need to be happy with yourself before you can consider being happy with anyone else...
You are a good man, and deserve to be treated with love and respect.
Hugs = Rob

 
Posted by Robs on Sunday, October 04, 2009 - 9:52 PM
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James Hunnicutt

 
Thank you Robs & right back ta ya' My Friend!
Coming from a person as wonderful as you- that makes me feel pretty darn good!
;-)
Have a great day!
James

 
Posted by James Hunnicutt on Wednesday, October 07, 2009 - 9:57 PM
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Grace Penny
Grace Penny

 
Thank You for sharing James! My relationship of 2 years (friends for 5) just ended very badly, despite all my efforts to walk away peacefully as friends.

Your sharing really, really helped Me so much today, Thank You.

Bless~Grace

 
Posted by Grace Penny on Sunday, October 04, 2009 - 11:33 PM
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James Hunnicutt

 
I know how hard that can be Grace & I'm glad that my words & experiences are able to help you through it in some way too. I believe that we're here to help each other out through life & you responding to me has helped me as well. It is humbling & inspiring to know that we can help, move & inspire one another in life. I think it's our duty to try & accomplish this with each other whenever we can. :-)
Hang in there & thanks again for writing me!
Have a great day!
James

 
Posted by James Hunnicutt on Wednesday, October 07, 2009 - 10:00 PM
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♠ Skuz Kitty ♠
Brenda Butler

 
I cried when I read this because it's so true.I left my last 17 years back in Kansas and moved 1593 miles to Montana to start a new life.I left all the bad,hurt,pain and heart break back there.And that's exactly where it belongs...back there at the stop sign!All is well and unfolding as it should. We don't get do overs and I'm pretty sure I wouldn't,these events although some painful do make us who we are.I'm working on letting myself be a happy person now. I know when I'm finally at peace with myself then all will fall together!So on that note good luck to you and you will find someone just right when your NOT looking.(This is what I keep being told)

 
Posted by ♠ Skuz Kitty ♠ on Monday, October 05, 2009 - 8:35 AM
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James Hunnicutt

 
I'm sorry that this hit so close to home Brenda but I'm glad if it helped you to let out something that needed to be set free from inside :-) I do believe in that "It happens when we least expect it" type of scenario. In fact that has happened in my life twice... maybe 3rd times a charm!
Hope love finds you too sooner than later & have a great day!
Thanks for writing me!
James

 
Posted by James Hunnicutt on Thursday, October 15, 2009 - 7:14 PM
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Dolly DeVille

 
Dear James,

who did you piss off??? ;-)


 
Posted by Dolly DeVille on Monday, October 05, 2009 - 11:44 PM
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James Hunnicutt

 
I don't think I pissed anyone off... women are just crazy!
;-)
Hope to see you next month when I play in Oakland Miss Deville!
James

 
Posted by James Hunnicutt on Thursday, October 15, 2009 - 7:20 PM
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♫ Marina ♫

 
I wish you all the best my friend and let
me tell ya one thing ...if you  were not attracted to
women Id worry but you are a normal man with
dreams ...and if ya follow your dreams and keep
an open mind and heart everything will fall into
place,,,you will find your soul mate when you are
least expecting to...good luck on your journey.
Your friend,
Marina~

 
Posted by ♫ Marina ♫ on Wednesday, October 07, 2009 - 11:15 AM
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James Hunnicutt

 
Thank for your kind words & understanding Marina!
:-)
Have a great day!
James

 
Posted by James Hunnicutt on Thursday, October 15, 2009 - 7:24 PM
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Astaroth

 
Youve probaby heard this a million times over, so lets try for a million and one: When you least expect it, the right woman will fall into your lap. I mean figuratively, put if it literally happens, could you complain? :D Someday you'll find someone who is just as giving and compassionate as you are. You are a GREAT guy, and deserve someone equally great, which you'll find some day. So take your time, and stop lookin! Enjoy the single life like you've set out to do! You'll feel better if you don't seek to 'complete' your life with a relationship. I wish for your ultimate happiness even more from this point forward! <3 Tara P.S. Come play around Yakima soon! And send me a text. I'll send you my number again. :D
 
Posted by Astaroth on Wednesday, October 07, 2009 - 9:35 PM
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James Hunnicutt

 
Thank you My Dear...
You are too kind with your words...
I am definitely not looking at this point & am focusing on my life & it's wonderful!
:-)
I'm going to be playing in Kennewick on Oct. 30th so you & Vampire Kitty should come out!
Thanks again & have a great day!
James

 
Posted by James Hunnicutt on Thursday, October 15, 2009 - 7:27 PM
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