A good guy friend of mine, who happens to be a divorced dad with two kids, took issue with
the advice I gave the lady who wrote in the other day. I told her to stop pining away over some dude who's got baggage (read: a soon-to-be ex-wife and a couple of kids).
He said (outside this particular guy still being technically married) that a man with kids could move onto a new relationship and be a wonderful, supportive and loving partner. That he could manage his new love life, as well as his fatherhood and his relationship with his ex properly, if he's a good and self-respecting man. He said that when women skip over men simply because that man has a child, they could be missing out on what could be a wonderful and life-long love. Read the rest here.