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Gender: Female
Status: Married
Age: 36
Sign: Capricorn

City: Memphis
State: TENNESSEE
Country: US
Signup Date: 8/14/2005

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Monday, May 18, 2009 

Current mood:  anxious
Ok, this isn't original.... I'm re-posting a blog by Ted Dekker a "Christian" author.  My sentiments exactly.... may we rise up - followers of Christ - doers of His Word, not hearers only.  The term "Christian" has been a continual stumbling block for many I've ministered to... if I could re-name the word, something describing a movement... not a stagnant establishment... I certainly would. However, the Lord doesn't need my help to defend His name.  Come, Lord Jesus.  


The Baby, the whole Baby, nothing but the Baby, so help us God.

May 14, 2009

SCOURGE OF THE EARTH or compassionate lovers of human kind? Depending on where you live and what your experience is, Christians may be identified as either one, and, much to the chagrin of those who use the label to describe themselves, legitimately so. It all boils down to what you mean by the label ‘Christian.’

Regardless of what we think any particular word should mean, it actually means what society interprets it to mean. Linguistics 101. Like the word gay. I’ve been quoted as saying that I could have once properly been branded the gay author because, although I have always been heterosexual, I once was… well, gay. Twenty years ago the word meant happy. Today it refers to sexual orientation. So although I was once gay, I am no longer gay, not because I’ve changed, but because the understanding of the word in society has changed and it no longer describes what I am.

So it is with the word ‘Christian.’

Jesus summed up his message as follows: Love the Lord your God with all your heart and love your neighbor as yourself. Armed with this simple mandate of love, millions of his followers have forsaken the relative safety and affluence of a comfortable life to extend love and hope to the downtrodden over the centuries. Much could be said to explain how and why Christianity has embodied compassion in a world torn by war, terror, and heartache. It’s all about love, my friend. They may hate you for your love because to the guilty love sometimes feels like salt in a wound, but they will still know that you are Christian by your love.

Unfortunately, in the eyes of many, Christianity is now far better known for much more and much less than love. Not all of the associations are bad, mind you, but they are a far cry from the message of love that ultimately cost Jesus his life. Ask any pedestrian and, depending on where they live, they will tell you who Christians are.

Ask the question in the Middle East and you might be told that Christians are killers whose bombs have killed thousands of innocent bystanders in Iraq; murderers who have brutally killed thousands of Muslims in Lebanon. Christian militia entered the Shatila refugee camp in Beirut in September 1982 where they raped, pillaged and murdered with impunity for three days during what became known as the Shatila massacre. The first suicide bomber in Lebanon was a Christian, blowing up Muslims. The scourge of the Crusaders is still alive in the Middle East. This is what ‘Christian’ means to many in that part of the world.

My father just returned from a town in India where Hindus have killed many Christians over the last 12 months. When he asked the pastors if it was because Christians followed Jesus, they surprised him by say no, it was because Christians means ‘Western values’ to the Hindus. “So then,” my father said, “if you are dying for a term that doesn’t describe you, are you not dying in vain? If Christian means western to them, not follower of Christ, then to call yourself Christian to them is deceitful, is it not? To the Romans, become Roman, the apostle Paul says. Speak their language.”

If you ask a pedestrian in Seattle who Christians are, they will likely tell you that Christians are judgmental, insensitive, hypocrites who are out of touch with reality. Or worse, angry right-wing bigots willing to resort to hate speech and violence to protect their narrow way of life. That they are a political group committed to a particular platform, willing to take up the sword or home-made bombs to enforce that platform.

The last thing that will come to their mind is the concept of sacrificial love or Jesus who showed us that love. Just like the word ‘Gay’ the meaning has changed, like it or not.
And it’s not just Lebanon or Seattle. According to a Barna Group poll, only 9% of those outside the church think Christians in America are nice, loving people. What every happened to you shall know them by their love? Throughout most of the world Christianity is simply no longer associated with the core beliefs of sacrificial love that birthed our faith. It has become like a large vessel of dirty bathwater, full of nasty associations and improper human behavior. Newsweek’s April 7th cover story cited the dramatic decline of Christianity in the United States. We live in a post Christian world, many would say. They might be right. And who’s to blame them? No one wants to swim around in dirty bathwater.

But wait a minute. There is more than dirty bathwater in this vessel. There is something precious and live-giving! And there is a rising generation of thinkers who are as eager to protect and cherish that life as they are to throw out the dirty bathwater.

Don’t throw the baby out with the bathwater, we say.

It’s interesting that Jesus’ first recorded miracle was turning dirty bathwater (in this case water used to wash dusty feet) into precious wine, a beautiful portrayal of purification. My generation wants that wine back and many are willing—check that, eager—to rid the vessel of the bathwater and replace it with that wine, that truth, that core message of love that Jesus gave his life for.

If Christian means judgmental or bigot to most or even many, than to them we are not Christian. We are neither bigots nor hate-mongers nor killers nor whatever else you might think a Christian might be, we are passionate believers in a person who came with a message of love, and his name was Jesus. Our identity is not stamped with any specific political party or ideology however good or bad it is, but to the man who avoided being identified by any political ideology whenever possible and offered only the sage advice to give unto Caesar what is Caesar’s.

We are not defined by any specific social agenda, however necessary or good, but by the love that embraces the downcast in need of a helping hand. We do not follow any moral creed invented by man however honorable, nor spit in the faces of those who struggle to put others before themselves however deserving, but we carry the burden of forgiveness and step aside so that he without sin may throw the first stone, if indeed such a man lives.

Our stories are not about pot-lucks and Sunday school playground squabbles, but about that monster called hate and his futile attempts to dash the hopes of the Great Lover. Perhaps you could call us post-Christian Believers, defined solely by the man we follow, not the institution that bears his name.

We believe that our first calling is to love God with all of our hearts and that our second calling is to love our neighbor as we love ourselves, and for us that is a difficult enough task to waste the rest of our lives on.

We are not partial Christians, not red-letter Christians, not a new kind of Christian, not non-Christian; we are far more and far less than Christian, children of an unfortunate but very real phenomenon that has dirtied our bathwater so now we want out, but out with the baby, please. The baby the whole baby, nothing but the baby, so help us God.

We are many, very many, millions of many. This is the way we roll and we are on the rise.


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Patricia Tyson

 
I have been embarrassed by Christians who have done anything BUT exemplify Christ, too.  I call myself a Believer, if I am confronted by a right-wing nut, who questions my faith.  This is a good thought, however.  Thank you for this, Janis!
 
Posted by Patricia Tyson on Tuesday, May 19, 2009 - 12:54 AM
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Robyn
Robyn Bray

 
This is such a dilemma, isn't it?  I find myself talking about "Christians" as if I am not one, though Jesus is my EVERYTHING.  It's not the name of Christ I'm ashamed of, but how those who claim His Name behave.  I've suffered more at the "mercy" of "Christians" than I ever have at the hands of pagans, gays or even just average people who do not consider themselves religious.  In fact, MOST of my griefs are rooted in what Christians have done to me, and what I see them doing to our society and to the people who go in and out the church doors and finally just give up on church altogether.  I'm starting to meet more and more people who love Jesus but have given up on church, and I find more compassion and Christlikeness among them than those who still "fight" the hardest for the label, "Christian." 

I express my love for Jesus and people everywhere I go, but I'm wanting to separate myself from the labels "Christian" & "Conservative" because those words don't describe the Jesus path, and they don't represent the way He teaches us to live. 

Passing on the true faith to my 18 year old son while struggling with the aversion I feel toward the narrow, loveless, judgmental people who reject us in every church we've attended and offend every other group as often as possible is hard.  But, I'd rather him join me in this struggle than to accept the hand me down, leftovers that is passing for "Christianity" in America right now.  I want his faith AND his Jesus to be the REAL Baby.  

The quickest way to offend most "Christians" I know is to make reference to the words of Jesus in any cultural, political or even random conversation.  They normally reject His teachings as "liberal, impractical and socialist (whatever that is)."  I'm starting to have an inkling that the ANTIchrist might be hiding right where we'd least expect to find him.

 
Posted by Robyn on Saturday, May 30, 2009 - 9:01 AM
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Side-Hug Sam
Steven Queen

 
You are correct, many Christians need to show more love.  We need to be more outwardly focused and more forgiving. 

However, being a former atheist, I can tell you where a lot of the animosity comes from:

Mark 12:30-31- as you mentioned, is the commandment from Jesus to love God, love your neighbor.  

The first and greatest commandment is to love God.  To seek after Him. 

Romans 12:1-2
1 I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service. 2 And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.

As a Christian I should not embrace the sin of this world.  "Loving my neighbor" doesn't mean I should go around thinking everything non-Christians do or think in nonconsequential.  Jesus pointed out sin in His ministry many times.  He did it lovingly.

I believe a lot of the animosity comes from non-Christians wanting freedom to continue in sin and not wanting anyone to tell them differently, whether it be by voice or life example.  To add to that, Christians don't always do a good job of sharing Jesus with those who are lost or living for the Lord as we should.

Remember, those who are lost will act that way.  Lost.  It is expected of them.  Of course they will point at Christians and exclaim persecution.  It is up to us to live like Christ and show them His salvation.  I read this and feel as if all Christians are to blame for the way the lost feel about us.
 
Posted by Side-Hug Sam on Tuesday, November 03, 2009 - 8:06 AM
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InterSession
Janis Leffler

 
I understand your sentiments on this.  Please allow me to clarify my thoughts.  I agree completely that there are those who will feel accused by Christians simply by our presence.  And, that is ultimately between them and God.  My blog was more about those who parade as Christians, but do not show love, but contempt for non Christians. There are 3 kids I personally know (2 of them in InterSession) that were asked to leave a church because of their dress, for example.  Mind you, these kids weren't showing too much skin, or being obscene in any way.  They just wore too much black, had too many piercings, and didn't look "wholesome". The other girl, only 15, was asked to leave not because of anything she did, but, because her mother was involved in a sexual affair.  Stories like this make me burn in anger at the injustice, and the misrepresentation of Jesus Christ.  My only consolation is knowing that God will take care of those who've been abused by "Christians", and some of them I get to scoop up into my group.  And, let me tell you... the ones who've rejected these kids have simply thrown away what is of immeasurable value.  These kids are the true gems of the world.  When they come to Christ, they are trustworthy and faithful witnesses.  They are full of grace and love and mercy.  And, I'm blessed to be a part of their lives.  Mr. Mega church missed out..., but the Lord caught them in His hand, and placed them at my feet.  
I've battled over and over again the stigma that the church has here in the south.  There are many who would come to Christ if they realized how deep, how wide, and how penetrating His love is for them.  Who doesn't want to be loved?  To be accepted for who you are?  To be forgiven and shown mercy when you mess up?  Who doesn't want peace that surpasses understanding?  Like you said, so many seek these things in drugs, easy sex, etc.  And, there is short term fulfillment from these things.  But, Jesus is a well of Living Water.. that, when fully experienced, is like comparing the best wine to muddy water when held up to the things of this world.  
Time and time again I've labored for years with different kids to build trust, in hopes of convincing them that Jesus Himself is often misunderstood because of the actions of people in churches.  It remains the frustration of my ministry.  Perhaps I encounter it more often because of the type of ministry it is.  But, is this not what the call is?  To reach out to the least of these?  To go to the highways and byways to fill the banquet hall?  To visit the sick, and those in prison?  To be the friend of "sinners"?  Where did we lose this idea?  Who re-wrote the script that we should seek out those who are great tithers, who appear to have great families, who look the part?  If I hear one more person speak of "healthy" churches as those who've got their s**t together, so to speak, I'm going to lose it.  Did Jesus call us to be a healthy church, or to go get the lost sheep, the "sick" sheep, and bring them in?  Are we to force a person who is eaten up with cancer (sin) to stand up straight, put on appearances, draw in some eyebrows, and act right, for crying out loud?  Or, are we to love and nurture that person... not condemning them for the fact that they have cancer... for that is the condition of us all left to our own devices.  Only Jesus can make a person whole.  But, that is what happens far too often in "Christian" churches.  Not by all, mind you, but the cruelty of one can easily outweigh the kind intent of others.  
I believe there are going to be many surprises in heaven.  There will be those that we'll be surprised are there, and those that we're surprised are not.  And, who can search out a man's heart?  Only the Lord.  The conclusion of the matter is this: to forgive tirelessly, to love mercy, and to love others violently.  So, I end my statement in the manner you opened - with the most important commandment.  Amen!  :)  Thank you for allowing my reply.  :)

 
Posted by InterSession on Tuesday, November 03, 2009 - 2:27 PM
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