Our culture is so full of pain.  I used to have an almost psychic ability to tune into what someone was feeling and draw them into describing how they were thinking and feeling with appropriate questions.  Many would tell me things they'd never been able to tell anyone- not their spouse, not their best friend.  They felt safe with me, and I felt very protective of them.  Once they'd shared this with me, I was able to "tune-in" to what they needed, emotionally snuggling them or seeming to say just the perfect thing needed to inspire them into some action...

It's been "gone" from me a bit, I don't get those vibes anymore, or at least not as strong.  Bring it back!  Bring it back!  BRING IT BACK!!!