"...It has been reported that things were getting so tense between the coaching staff and Shane that Shelley Meyer (Urban's wife) placed a call to him herself asking him to stop what he was doing.
It has also been rumored heavily that it wasn't necessarily the quotes about the Ole Miss game that got Meyer upset with Matthews in the first place. Very reliable sources within the Gator program have said that Matthews may have been involved in negative recruiting against the Gators as well. It seems that Matthews is not a big fan of Meyer's spread offense and was talking to high school coaches and players about looking elsewhere for their college careers because of it. It's hard to believe a Gator fan of Matthews' stature would do such a thing, but it seems there's more fuel in the fire than just over a little critique of one game (Ole Miss)...."
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