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Michael Skowronski


Last Updated: 3/16/2009

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Gender: Male
Status: Married
Age: 51
Sign: Scorpio

City: KIRKLAND
State: Washington
Country: US
Signup Date: 11/7/2007
Wednesday, October 22, 2008 

Current mood:  contemplative
Category: Romance and Relationships
..Falling In Love over the Internet..

Falling In Love over the Internet

This is a question that I am often asked…“Do you think it is possible to fall in love with someone over the internet even though you haven't met?”

Yes it is possible and it happens all of the time. The real questions you should be asking are, “Will I still be in love with this person once we have met? Will this person fit into my life? Will this person be good for me?” And if not, “Why not?” and “How is it possible to fall in love with the wrong person?”

(The rest of this blog has been removed...see details below)

If you scroll down to the comments left by others, not only on this blog but many of my other blogs you will see that MANY people found a lot of help in the content of my blogs. Unfortunately I had to remove the content of most of my blogs for the reason stated further below.

You can continue reading my blogs by joining my relationship healing group, the details of which you can find at http://RelationshipAdviceSite.com

By joining my healing group you will get...

   * The Ultimate Guide to Relationship Healing
      a four hour Audio Program.

   * All of my blogs.

   * MANY hours of additionaly Audio programs.

   * Live tele-classes given by me where you will have
      the opportunity to ask your own specific questions.

   * Access to my coaching via email just like you have
      seen in my blogs here on MySpace.

Why did I Remove my Blog Content from MySpace?

I have spent more than a year doing free spiritual and relationship counseling on MySpace. If just review the comments on my blogs (which I have left intact for you to review) you can see that I have spent a great deal of time and covered a lot of topics. I have really enjoyed it and thank all of you who have participated. Many of my friends have touched my heart very deeply. I love you all!

Unfortunately doing it for free has resulted in me not being able to write new blogs or serve as many people as I would like too. Doing it for free has caused me to maintain a fulltime job with not enough time to coach those people who want and need the help I have to offer. By charging for my services I will eventually be able to quit my job and do my spiritual counseling work full time.

My blogs really do contain all you need to know in order to live a healthy and happy life and the live coaching I offer in the healing group fills in the gaps. Please consider joining this group today. http://RelationshipAdviceSite.com

Love and Blessings,
Michael Skowronski
Author of Unforgettable: A Love and Spiritual Growth Story

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Яαђк¥†

 
Great advice! Sound warnings, while also being hopeful! :)
 
Posted by Яαђк¥† on Wednesday, October 22, 2008 - 6:22 PM
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Carla

 
Hello, Friend! :)
 
Posted by Carla on Thursday, October 23, 2008 - 12:08 AM
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Jim B

 
This should be shared far and wide. Well said, Michael.

 
Posted by Jim B on Thursday, October 23, 2008 - 12:08 AM
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gypsygraver
Sonja johnson

 
Awesome post! Keep 'em comin':)
 
Posted by gypsygraver on Thursday, October 23, 2008 - 4:37 PM
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Pamela in red

 
A lot of it is chemistry. We are attracted to another person's smell, body language, voice and the way they kiss/make love. You can get a sense of the individual through email and even phone conversations, but you have to see them face to face to know if it's truly going to work out.


I've seen it blossom and I've seen it wilt. Oddly enough, most times it works if both parties were honest about their weight, height, income and private life. Women tend to lie about their weight (on the low side)and men tend to lie about their height and income level (on the high side). These things shouldn't matter, but unfortunately they do to a lot of people.

 
Posted by Pamela in red on Thursday, October 23, 2008 - 9:25 PM
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Denni the Apartment Finder
Denni Jordan

 
This is great! I remember my grandmother telling me as a kid to never consider a man who treated his mother bad. When I was a lot younger, I didn't follow her advice and dated a guy for a long time who was always pretty rude and disrespectful to his mother. Eventually, he treated me the same way.
It is so TRUE!!!

At 36, I am single and haven't even been out on a date in over a year. Most of my friends tell me I better find somebody or will end up old and alone. Thankfully, I don't listen to them. I love the last paragraph of your blog. You have to love and nurture yourself. Too many people look for others to love and accept them, when they don't love themselves. It took me years to learn this lesson. I am my own best friend. I am definitely open to finding true love, but am not looking for it. I will be happy if I am single until the day I die, because I love myself.
Blessings, Peace & Light!

Denni
 
Posted by Denni the Apartment Finder on Friday, October 24, 2008 - 12:10 AM
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Cherie

 
Great blog!!! Many words of wisdom!! I completely agree that happiness comes from WITHIN...once you learn to love yourself, then you will be able to be a part of a healthy relationship! So many people look to other people, material items, money etc for happiness....I feel that 'I' complete MYSELF....the people and THINGS in my life are a 'bonus'....they accentuate ME!!
Thanks for the add! I look forward to 'catching up' on your previous blogs!
Many blessings to you my new friend....
 
Posted by Cherie on Friday, October 24, 2008 - 5:11 PM
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Cheerleader 4 Charity

 
You are blessed to have a nice following. iLove what your female friends had to say about this entry!!! ...lovingly, tammy
 
Posted by Cheerleader 4 Charity on Friday, October 24, 2008 - 5:11 PM
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AINT NO LIKE QUEENHE SAO ....EYE C U!!!!

 
You touched it from all angles.
Nothing discouraging only truth!
 
Posted by AINT NO LIKE QUEENHE SAO ....EYE C U!!!! on Saturday, October 25, 2008 - 6:44 AM
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Ulla Lindstroem

 
Thanks Michael...it's funny...one of my new songs on my new CD is called: HOW IS IT POSSIBLE (a duet by the way) and it is all about this subject. You can hear a sample of it on my Profile and on YouTube. But I feel like sharing the Lyrics here...hope you don'y mind? All my best, Ulla :-)) Music & Lyrics & Copyright: Ulla Lindstroem (NCB.) How Is It Possible I'm thinking of you honey night and day! I love you darling, never go away! I feel you pounding in my heart so much I constantly long for your touch. Just meeting you was like a dream come true, I never had the love I have with you, your eyes and aura have a special glow an angel from heaven, I know. How is it possible to love someone, you haven't really met? Isn't it wonderful, the feelings you can have with no regrets? You're in a different world so far away, but though we are apart... you will always have that special place, inside my heart. I always wanted what I have with you you give me feelings that I never knew I feel you with me everywhere I go you’re giving me strength when I’m low. You add a new dimension to my life In heart and soul I feel I am your wife a love so sacred, honest and devine I’m grateful and honoured you’re mine. How is it possible to love someone, you haven't really met? Isn't it wonderful, the feelings you can have with no regrets? You're in a diff'rent world so far away, but though we are apart... you will always have that special place, inside my heart. You took me by surprise and I will always wonder why we got this loving feeling that, can almost make us fly like eagles over mountain tops, like seagulls over sea like love for mother nature you mean the world to me! Solo You have your own reality I know, and I have mine And though we may not ever meet our love is so devine! (so devine!) How is it possible to love someone, you haven't really met? Isn't it wonderful, the feelings you can have with no regrets? You're in a diff'rent world so far away, but though we are apart... you will always have that special place, inside my heart. I love you Honey! .....I love you too! Listen to samples of my new CD/songs on YouTube: http://www. youtube. com/watch?v=ljbmYw8z3j4
 
Posted by Ulla Lindstroem on Sunday, October 26, 2008 - 5:22 AM
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Adam

 
Until you've met and spent time with the person - in person, it's prolonged fantasy. Alter-egos. Filling in the blanks as it says. I've been through this (once 10 years ago and another time not too long ago) and it can be painful, very. It almost always is...for both parties... has anyone had a positive experience with this? I'm curious.

 
Posted by Adam on Wednesday, October 29, 2008 - 4:21 AM
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Ruzlyn

 
I absolutely agree on what you've said here but although I have this great affection for one boy which I blogged about few months ago, I have not taken the leap yet of meeting him in person.
Thanks for posting this and keep on inspiring!
 
Posted by Ruzlyn on Wednesday, October 29, 2008 - 4:21 AM
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David Sun

 
About 2 years ago I met a beautiful, quirky woman over the internet. We had these crazy conversations and shared a similar sense of humor. She was pretty much who she said she was/presented herself to be when I flew out to South Carolina to meet her. It didn't quite click for a continued relationship yet it was a fun adventure to go to a place I had never been before and enjoy my time with a genuinely interesting young woman.

 
Posted by David Sun on Friday, October 31, 2008 - 12:12 AM
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~Maya~ Twin Flame with a purpose
Maya Love

 
Oh yes, it is possible!!! I found my Twin Flame here on myspace!! He is from the US and I am from Germany, well..what counts is just the trustness, the faith and...the LOVE!!!!! before we saw each other eye to eye we knew already that this is it, we had finally found the right one, the better half..and even more..we had found our Twin Soul/ Flame. We will marry next year March...and we know each other since January this year. thanks for posting this...and pls ppl..never give up..somewhere on the other side of the net is somebody waiting..for you. ;) Love and light Maya
 
Posted by ~Maya~ Twin Flame with a purpose on Friday, October 31, 2008 - 3:39 AM
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~Following My Heart~

 
What a clear, wonderful way to explain these ideas. Detaching ourselves from outcome and expectation is one of the best ways to avoid disappointment and achieve happiness. It is also so important to remember that no one outside of ourselves can ever fill a void within us. When we complete ourselves, we can then allow someone into our hearts for the sole purpose of adding to our lives. It is liberating to not feel a need to search for completion, only enrichment. Thank you for your insight, love, and friendship.
I am truly grateful for your presence and guidance in my life!
 
Posted by ~Following My Heart~ on Friday, October 31, 2008 - 3:42 AM
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kepple
anna moyer

 
Yes, I am proof that it can happen, I met my now husband on myspace in August 2005, we chatted and fell in love, I first met him physically in May 2006 when I landed in Dallas, from England, we married in December 2006.

 
Posted by kepple on Friday, October 31, 2008 - 4:54 AM
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~Widowed~

 
I met my boyfriend on Match. com.. Three years Nov 6..
 
Posted by ~Widowed~ on Thursday, November 06, 2008 - 3:20 AM
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Terea Doster Photography
Terea Doster

 
i completely agree..and yes you can find your soulmate on the internet..i did.

 
Posted by Terea Doster Photography on Saturday, November 08, 2008 - 4:14 PM
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Darling Muse ♥
Darlene Smith-Graham

 
This is very good advice..nothing compares to getting to know someone face to face...where every thing is clearer...
 
Posted by Darling Muse ♥ on Thursday, November 13, 2008 - 8:26 PM
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Courtney
Courtney Merritt

 
I love this blog!

My husband and I met over the internet. We fell in love over the internet. When we met in person, it was definetly harder because people act different over the internet. There was chemistry for us, but it was like having to get to know each other all over again.

 
Posted by Courtney on Friday, November 21, 2008 - 9:51 PM
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patsy
Patsy luebke

 
Good work Michael.I must love myself more than i know. am happy alone.meeting someone on the internet has a lot of down falls.people that dont want to live in the same state.love is something that has to grow between two people.and sometimes the chemistry is their but is that love.
wondering what is love,
 
Posted by patsy on Thursday, December 18, 2008 - 7:32 PM
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flame in the snow

 
Excellent advice!!
 
Posted by flame in the snow on Thursday, December 18, 2008 - 7:32 PM
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Controlled Chaos

 
Thanks Micheal,..I hope you don't mind but I posted this on my bulletins for everyone to read with Kudos to you and links to your books and such. It is wonderful and I think people will benefit from these words. Thank you again and I love all the information on your Myspace.

 
Posted by Controlled Chaos on Thursday, January 15, 2009 - 4:41 AM
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