Wow! I just turned 38 Sept 7th. One thing I've always been gifted with is paying attention to people, and listening to them even when they think no one is paying attention.

I can understand why ladies at times seem so preoccupied with settling down and finding that one person. Women have biological clocks in regards to having children. Whereas a man can be fifty years old and be able to make children. A man can goof off for most of his twenties, concentrate on his career in his thirties and put the rest of the pieces together later.

I talk to my friends, and most of them have children, baby mother drama as well as a lot of personal drama that their trying to get past. They all tell me they wish they were in my situation instead of theirs. I'm not married, have no children and I'm sure about what I want out of life and the type of woman I want as a partner. I been through all the drama as well, but luckily knew better than to become a baby making machine. One of my friends has 8 children by different women. He wishes now he was mature enough back then to realize what he was setting himself up for down the road.

I also have lady friends who have all types of issues going on with guys. Some of them are really nice ladies, but they have all this drama going on with their baby daddies, ex's etc. It seems that the woman they could of been or meant to be they will never become because they cannot get over or past the nonsense. They are at this point driven by destructive and self limiting thoughts and they really don't want a nice guy, or better yet would not know what to do with a nice guy. You get screwed over so many times and you start lose faith in people. You start to expect if there is no drama then things aren't right.

At this point I'm putting all the pieces together. Sometimes too much experience can be just as much of a bad thing as a good thing.

Too be continued.