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Last Updated: 11/17/2009

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Gender: Female
Status: Engaged
Age: 25
Sign: Capricorn

City: vabch
State: Virginia
Country: US
Signup Date: 9/5/2005

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January 29, 2009 - Thursday 
Ohh so like I am a celebrity or something, I have had 15 views on my new blog posted about babydaddy! wooo! And the day is not over yet...
HA! I didnt respond to the dumb girl who sent me an email...so she wrote me again...I replied.. this is what was said...
She thinks it makes me feel so good to post this crap..well im just posting to let my friends know whats going on...but if you want to stalk my page and act like an idiot then go ahead.....
I find this funnnnyyyyy! look what she wrote...Read it:
 
 
SOOOOO does that make u feel better bout urself to post those messages & comments up on myspace bout Ryan? I mean really? (just cuz Ryan didn't want to be with u anymore doesn't mean u gotta be a bitch about it seriously.) and u don't even let Ryan see Brandon anyway, so why u making a big deal about it?? I honestly don't even know why Ryan got with u in the first place! u seem like a total Bitch & a fat slob! yeah honey...looks like u could lose a few...OH? I can post messages & comments bout u too...if u wanna play that game

 
First off, it is not a game, it is reality! And a bitch and fat slob...come on....wayy not a slob, and may be fat but at least I like what I got. And the girl who said this is no bag of bones....Grow up you ...your older than me...geesh
So uhmmm my problem is not about being with Ryan. I did not want to be with a loser. He cant keep a job...so I did what I had to do and apply for child support in 2003 a couple months after Brandon was born. I am not being a bitch bc I want him...seriously...no one does..well obviously someone does now.  But who wants to be with someone that works in fast food part time, has 3 children by 3 different women, and is in debt with support.
He needs a GED, he needs positive people around him. He never has....except for his mom....you can not act like an idiot..I thought we are all grown ups now...and now i am seeing I am the only one.
And making a big deal out of what? you the one emailing me and calling everyone to talk about me..when u dont know me..and the ppl you talking to are friggin losers and the pits of our society.
I am posting on my page....if you dont like it then dont look at my page and then onto my blogs...and sit there and look at all my pics.....and yadda yadda...makes me feel like people want to know all about me...I am interesting, Im talented, creative, smart, a wonderful mom, my sons best friend, just a great person.
I try to help out everyone around me and there for everyone in my life. I am a very caring individual...caring enough to say he does need help and he does need to get his GED so he can get out there and get respected more. He thinks he is a failure..and well he has failed at alot of things..and doesnt help with the negitive people around him. But I am not here to baby him anymore...I have since day 1. I paid for everything..felt bad ...for him. And he jumps from one girl to another.....and .....you know what....
his ex's have all said they were sorry for the way they acted towards me. Now they are regular human beings and have grown up....I respect that they have made the attempt to be civil. Thank you...to you...
I just can't really say anything more other than that people are stupid and don't understand the responsabilities others put on themselves and that can not fulfill. It's pathetic.....It's sad.....
And I have to deal with this til Brandon is out of college..and or until the debt is paid off.......whewww...... Thank god the courts do it...or else I would be stressin even more.
And 1 more thing...he got off of jail last year...and he knew it.. he knew he was going in jail if he didnt pay his dues..all he had to do is pay $1500 to brandon. If you didnt want him to be in jail then maybe you shoulda paid that for him! And we wouldnt be in this situation... or maybe you just know im right deep down inside..and etc...
 
Update: The gf appologized to me! See I am not in the wrong...lol Hopefully she stays this way... we shall see. I just find it repulsive to be treated like this when im not the one in the wrong!
Tiff
Tiffany Blankenship

 
What a douche....like both of them...
 
Posted by Tiff on January 29, 2009 - Thursday - 7:38 PM
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Steven
Steven Albarracin

 
lol damn girl you should write a novel! lol but than again you might not make any profit because if you made a book on deadbeats and how tht scenario goes, than billions of woman who experience the same thing would try to do the same!!wheew...hehe.. usually my advise would be to ignore someone like tht but if she decides to "feed fuel to the fire," By all means it friggin hilarious! I love it when people, especially like this one, Have no grounds for a ligitimate arguement and still try to make a fuss anyway. It shows how society really has gone down hill.. On another note: A report on the radio mentioned how more than 40% of adults can't even read there own perscription bottles let alone understand it!! You should ask her for shits and giggles if she is part of tht statistic and post her reply!!haha bet tht'll piss her off!!lol neway im having to much fun with this.
take care
 
Posted by Steven on January 30, 2009 - Friday - 1:34 AM
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Andrea
Andrea Pape

 
I don't even know the chic who sent you that email and I think she is a bitch. I do not understand why people feel the need to put themselves in business that they don't belong in. Blogs are here for us to vent and keep our friends informed and she wants to write you an email like that. Your a better person then me Megan cause I would have serious told her about herself. I am 24 years old and think her email was juvenile. That is your sons father and that is your business. I went through that with me fiancees ex girlfriend. She emailed me talking all this mess and then when I told her off and put her in her place she was all apologetic and now she keeps her distance. You are better off for getting away from him. If this bitch wants to spend her time defending him and wasting her life on the drama then more power to her. Your baby daddy going to jail was his own fault. It is his responsibility as a father to support his child. He failed to do that so he earned his one way ticket to jail. If he doesn't learn this time then he will go back.
That's life!
 
Posted by Andrea on April 2, 2009 - Thursday - 12:55 PM
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meg

 
yea....well i pretty much said everything to vent...and well he has been out of jail now for a while and still no support! figures! but the chic wrote back and appologized and then started talkin again. But its her problem not mine. And well hes an ass she will figure it out when he cheats on her and tells her he dont wanna be with her anymore. He is drama whether he intentionally means it or not, he is that type of person and well the people he is around are the same... she will soon figure it out. and she a mom so...she needs to think about getting a man that can take care of her and her child....and be there for them 100%...thats what i dont get about women...i actually know someone else who going thru something similar and well the girl finally realizing im right...i pretty much always am! lol
 
Posted by meg on April 2, 2009 - Thursday - 1:55 PM
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Andrea
Andrea Pape

 
What gets me about what you just said is that this chic is a mom. I am all about leading by example and why would you want a man in your life that runs from responsibility? I would want someone who mans up. My fiancee takes care of me, our son (we have together), my daughter (he has adopted her because her dad was just like your ex and I took his rights), and his son that lives with us. That is a good man. Someone being in and out of jail for CHILD Support is stupid. Its not like he is behind on a car payment or a bill in both your names. That money goes to his CHILD. That should be his first priority to pay with his Arby's paycheck...
 
Posted by Andrea on April 2, 2009 - Thursday - 2:04 PM
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meg

 
ohh so like i have never tried to view their profiles and really didnt want to but i was curious and i think they are broken up! haha


but yea..it sux cuz here I am trying to get ends to meet had to cancel family fun nights..and im pissed. the economy is wack and i cant pay my cell bill so its off...and here i am now a college graduate working a job taking care of my son my fiance and busy with homework, activities, and being a "housewife"and my spare time is limited...yet however my babydaddy is free..he cn go run around and not have any responsibility...it's not fair... but you know what.... i could care less i love my son...hes the best thing that ever happened to me!


dunno... i really have no contact with him and well its better that way..bc he makes up lies and acts like a friggin re re when he talks to me.....lol
 
Posted by meg on April 2, 2009 - Thursday - 2:19 PM
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Andrea
Andrea Pape

 
Good for you...As long as we do what we need to do to make sure our kids have a good life then that's all that matters...My friend is going through the same thing I did where her baby's father left her pregnant. If I learned anything it was not to get mad. I told her SHE will have the first smiles, the first laughs, the first steps and all those other memories we love. HE will wish he had been a better father and been involved. My fiancee loves my daughter as if he was her own. She knows him as daddy and he made that official. As long as our kiddos are loved and cared for then we are happy people.

 
Posted by Andrea on April 2, 2009 - Thursday - 2:44 PM
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meg

 
yes thats right. my fiance as well treats my son with respect, he calls him dad, and values our life together as a family. you know u know..... lol... All I have to say is things happen for reasons..and usually its to teach you a lesson and make you understand your life better. (The whole do's and dont's category....)



 
Posted by meg on April 2, 2009 - Thursday - 3:40 PM
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