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Age: 39
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State: Missouri
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October 28, 2009 - Wednesday 

Current mood:  angry
Category: Life



I was surfing the net today and I ran across this story on the CBS news site, it reads:

"(CBS)  Classes were back in session at Richmond High School in San Francisco's East Bay Tuesday, with counselors available for students to talk about Saturday night's horrific crime - the gang rape on campus of a 15-year-old student who had just left the homecoming dance. The victim was airlifted to a local hospital after being beaten, robbed and raped.

A 19-year-old former student and a 15-year-old current student have been arrested, but more arrests are expected soon, reports CBS News correspondent Sandra Hughes.

"Multiple offenders, multiple people raping over prolonged period," said Lt. Mark Gagan with the Richmond police.

What makes this crime so shocking is that police say at least 20 people were involved in the rape or stood and watched the crime without going for help.

"These are witnesses that are encouraging and allowing behavior to continue," Gagan said.

For those who watched and did nothing, it may be morally reprehensible, but it's not illegal.

"Although this is a very difficult crime to hear about, the fact is California law does not impose an affirmative obligation on anyone to do anything when you are watching a crime," said Trent Copeland, a legal analyst.

Richmond High School has a 69 percent truancy rate and is in a school district that had 19 student murders last year. Fights at Richmond have been posted on YouTube, and a van was set on fire on the football field's new artificial turf. An investigation by CBS station KPIX-TV last year found only a handful of the 16 security cameras in the school were working.

On Friday, there were four Richmond police officers on duty at the dance, but the security guards patrolling the grounds were released at 9 p.m., a half-hour before the victim left the dance.

"Dance was successful event and safe for the students that were there," said Marin Trujillo, the West Contra Costa Unified School District spokesman. "This dance itself was a successful event."

Police are now searching for cell phone video that onlookers may have recorded. Wednesday, it's expected that the suspects will be in court for arraignment. "

When I first read this story, somehow I felt some sort of bizarre responsibility.  Not like I could have done anything to help but I am aware that I am a part of the society that somehow let these kids get so desensitized to violence and it's repercussions. 

I had a myriad of questions, such as where was security??  It is apparent from the article that this school has a history of violent crimes committed by students.  Oddly enough, I just read a theory in my psych class that which discusses the "diffusion of responsibility".  Under the diffusion theory, people are less inclined to help a victim in distress because there is the belief that since there are so many witnesses, no one single person bears the personal responsibility to go for help.  I don't completely understand the thought process behind that but even more baffling to me is not only did none of the students feel the responsibility to call for help but instead, they felt the need to join in the assault.

This girl was gang raped for about 2.5 hours with no help....how does that happen?  What messages are we as adults sending these kids that such behaviors and violations are acceptable?  I am well aware that these kids are old enough to take responsibility for their behavior but at what point did group think and mob mentality kick in?  Even more disturbing to me is what is the self esteem level of a young man who is willing to be the 20th person to rape a woman.  I have heard of people running trains on young women in college situations and even then, I have to wonder about the person who agrees to enter the body of a woman after many others.  With these attacks, condoms are seldom, if ever used........what the hell are people thinking??  Not saying that this would have been okay if condoms had been used and it was never made clear in the article if they were or not but from my experience with working with young victims of sexual assault, they usually are not.

This crime is heinous at best and I think that all involved should be charged as adults and held accountable for their behavior.  I do, however, remember at our school dances when I was growing up that we had security that patrolled outside and if kids were loitering they either had to leave or go back inside the dance. 

What say you, have we created a society that has minimized the consequences of such behavior or is this just a tragic incident of negative peer pressure at it's finest.  All I know is, if this had been MY child, the people who committed this assault could only pray that the police got to them before I did.  I would not mind pleading nolo contendere   (no contest) to premeditated murder.  I know it sounds extreme and the law is here to handle things like this but I know in my mind, the law would not be moving fast enough and vigilante justice would be much faster and save a lot of tax payer money.  This is inexcusable and there is enough blame to go around, for sure.  I hope the best for this young lady, she has a lot of healing to do, bless her.

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CyberSoulSista

 
As I said on Sunn's blog, our youth are morally bankrupt, comatose in common sense and can't buy a clue in judgment.  I'd be right there with you saving tax payer money.  I can not imagine what that poor girl went thru for 2.5 hours.  That is hedidous & all parties involved need to be charged as adults.  It's going to take her a lifetime to heal mentally, spiritually & emotionally.  Her physical damage may heal quickly and let us pray that hasn't been damaging to the point that if she wanted to have kids later in life that they've taken that from her as well.

 
Posted by CyberSoulSista on October 28, 2009 - Wednesday - 6:26 AM
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100% Real ¤¤§†ÃÑG¤¤

 
I read all the time, I've seen crimes that on their face would be considered even more sick, twisted and unbelievable than this one but for some reason this one sticks in my craw and I really believe it's the aspect of mob mentality.  I can't conceive that we've damaged these kids so badly that they even thought this would be a marginally sane idea.  It sickens me that the crimes committed by young people are no longer "shocking" they are nauseating and force me to wonder if we have somehow bred a society of psychopaths. 

I'm unsure what the answers are right now but I've always preached that along with freedom comes responsibility.  As a society, we've been so damned worried about things the government has tried to legislate regarding parenting and I am again aware that you can't legislate morality but I sure as hell think that someone needs to do something because if kids are acting like this, someone in their life is not using common sense and taking time to really teach kids the difference between right and wrong.  It is kinda like my mom used to ask me when I wanted to do things with my friends "If they jumped off of a bridge would you jump too?" my answer is a resounding HEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLL NAW!

Why are these kids jumping?

 
Posted by 100% Real ¤¤§†ÃÑG¤¤ on October 28, 2009 - Wednesday - 7:15 AM
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Bishop

 
I just read this on YaHoo...

I was going to post a reply, but decided not to, seeing
as what I was typing was turning into a rant about
how blind we as a society are, and how we're quick
to pass the buck and place the blame, when we should
have seen fucked up things like this coming.

And when it happens, we act surprised and shocked and outraged.
People will blame today's youth, but in whole, it's everyone's fault.
Everyone. The kids, the parents, the school, the crowd, the city, the state,
the music industry, the food administration, the legal system, and this overall general
mindstate of the public at large.
And all the self-rightous, psuedo-holy folks will look at this
when it airs on Nancy Grace 3 days form now
(since she's STILL searching for the killer of JonBenet), and point fingers,
and blame everyone, but never stop to turn that same finger on themselves,
and ask "What could I have done to make sure this never happens ?"

The baby-boomers of the 70's and yuppies of the 80's fucked up
their tommorow, so the kids of the 90's are fucking up the todays.
If children are our future, I'd rather pass over to the other side now.
Cuz this world is fucked.

[HoLLa]
 
Posted by Bishop on October 28, 2009 - Wednesday - 7:04 AM
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100% Real ¤¤§†ÃÑG¤¤

 
Bish-op,

You know you can always rant here and you raise some valid points.  There is enough blame to go around, tv, movies, music, parents, schools, food and even the environment.  Think I'm kidding....??  Look at a ladybug, when I was young they were bright red, now when I see them, they are more orange, we are tainting something.

What we are tainting more though are our children. Someone is failing to break their foot off in the asses of these kids, look at the crime statistics stated in the article, they have had problems for years.......I'm with you, I'm not sure this generation is equipped to manage the world......and no amount of going green is going to help that shit.

 
Posted by 100% Real ¤¤§†ÃÑG¤¤ on October 28, 2009 - Wednesday - 7:18 AM
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Bishop

 
Actually, I'm about to rant about this "Save The Sharks" bullshyt PSA my station just aired.
Oops...Just did it over on Facebook.

I pulled back from this one for 3 reasons.
1. I'm having a caffeine high somehow, and need a cigarette.
2. My mynd keeps going back to the fact that no one helped this girl. NO ONE. How the fuck does this happen ?!?!
I once almost got my ass kicked for stopping a guy who was choking his girlfriend. In the bar. Right in front of me. And everyone else just stood around watching as this discharge from his father's dick disease choked her out the front door. And MY friend got mad at me, saying "You don't know their situation. You don't know what she might have done to deserve that." What The Everlasting Holy Fuck ?!?!
I guess "NOMMO" now means "If you're in trouble, you're on your own."
3. I've become in the last year increasingly irate at the way lyfe is nowadays, and how we just except bullshyt covered with bullshyt, call it beautiful, sweep it under the rug if it bothers us, and expect lyfe to be a crystal [god I hate that name/word...long story about my ex] staircase.

Maybe that'll be my next rant blog.

[HoLLa]
 
Posted by Bishop on October 28, 2009 - Wednesday - 7:30 AM
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Mkono Na
Mkono Na

 
It's not a minimization of the consequences.  I have to think that part of it is a glorification of them.  How many songs, books, movies and tv shows have we had that glorify criminal and/or prison life?  In this type of sub-culture, the consequences for crime are an expected part of life.  A bid in prison is just another way to earn "stripes" and "street cred".

Also, remember what happen in Florida a couple years ago, with the woman and her young son?  The assailants were about the same age as these, based on the two males in custody right now.  If I remember correctly, it happened in housing project.  I don't know if Richmond, CA has any projects, but it's got areas so impoverished that projects would be an improvement.  The correlation between lack of education and high crime rates is most clear in poor areas like these. 

Oh, and let's not forget the constant and pervasive mysogyny(spelling?) in Our society and the entertainment industry, especially the stuff that glorifies criminal lifestyles.

Put all that together, and let it simmer in a in a child's mind for 10-15 years, and you get a teen that thinks that crime is the only choice they have.  And that mentality makes any crime- all crime- acceptable.  Or Glorified.
 
Posted by Mkono Na on October 28, 2009 - Wednesday - 11:14 AM
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Keith
Keith Jones

 
Horrible. The degeneracy of this society.
 
Posted by Keith on October 28, 2009 - Wednesday - 3:30 PM
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Silver Diamond ®™
Silver Diamond

 
unfortunately, the law allows you to be a by-stander. If you are witnessing a crime, such as rape or murder, you are not "required" to do anything.
It's sad to think that this girl was not only a victim of rape and robbery, but of indifference.

 
Posted by Silver Diamond ®™ on October 28, 2009 - Wednesday - 4:51 PM
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Howard
Howard Janapol

 
As a pacifist I would have a hard time harming these individuals. But as a parent I know I would lose it. I believe that his is where our society is going. World wide rape is a weapon of war. In this country it hasn't reached that level but we don't value our children and so this happens. How many times have we heard of someone being brutally beaten with many onlookers. Non of whom felt a need to do anything including calling the police. The fact that there were guards and police at the dance seems to me to say that they didn't take their jobs seriously. I am sick about this. I believe that not only should the rapists be prosecuted but the police on the scene need some consequences.  Thank you for writing this. The more people that get an upset stomach from reading this, the better. Peace, howie

 
Posted by Howard on October 28, 2009 - Wednesday - 5:00 PM
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Kristin
Kristin Scott

 
Girl, I could rant about this for hours without a breath... the fact that this happened in front of other people who were either cheering or talking others into participation makes my stomach turn worse than eating raw chicken would!! 

I don't know what's happened to the young people of today, all I can do is raise my son NOT to be a member of the mindless masses, to stop what is wrong or to report it to someone who can.  It makes me sick...

Just this past school year, Florida made the news (again) for the brutality one boy endured at the hands of four others in school, being sodomized by a mop handle in the locker room - over a period of time... while other students were around. 

Where is the supervision in our schools and at our school functions.  If there is a dance going on at the school - security should be on duty until that dance is over... WTF?  When did the budget become more important than the safety of our children.  And IF there was NO way to keep security there, they should have had teachers and parents volunteer to "patrol" the area to make sure those who were coming and going were kept safe!!!

Ughhhh, this makes me sick to my stomach... and I need to stop here, cuz like I said, I could go on and on...

I'll pray for this girl - she's got a long road of healing ahead of her. 


 
Posted by Kristin on October 29, 2009 - Thursday - 12:21 AM
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Joyce
Joyce Hurst

 
this was such a sad and heartbreaking story.  We all need to teach our girls not to get themselves into situations where they may possibly have no control over what could happen, and at the same time.. it's very sad that a girl can't even enjoy a school dance without these monsters attacking her. 

If something like this happened to my daughter, I wouldn't be responsible for my actions.  I get so sick of our justice system giving men like this a slap on the wrist and nothing more, so they can go out and harm our children again.  I say, let the bastards fry!

 
Posted by Joyce on October 29, 2009 - Thursday - 1:32 AM
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Ms Devi's boi
MsDevi s boi don

 
i read today that 4 kids were indicted. ONLY FOUR???

What about all the kids who walked by and did nothing. We in the adult world call that depraved indifference!!

"To constitute depraved indifference, the defendant's conduct must be 'so wanton, so deficient in a moral sense of concern, so lacking in regard for the life or lives of others, and so blameworthy as to warrant the same criminal liability as that which the law imposes upon a person who intentionally causes a crime." [http://definitions.uslegal.com/d/depraved-indifference/]

i remember the popularity of all the vigilanty movies of the 70's and recall how the authorities cried foul that such entertainment media would breed a generation of outlaws willing to take the law into their own hands. Well,... i think they dodged that bullet!

Sheesh! i am so-o-o-o ready for a revolution!
 
Posted by Ms Devi's boi on October 29, 2009 - Thursday - 8:39 PM
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Valkryie01
Neil Hale

 
believes that rapists at heart are true perverts, just like child molesters!!!  Child Rapists are a step above that, and if proof is over and above reasonable doubt, castration, without
anathesihia or sterilization (of the offender) and then death from a possible  post-op infection  (of the offender) is appropriate!!

 
Posted by Valkryie01 on October 30, 2009 - Friday - 2:22 AM
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