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Current mood:  inspired
...we all want the same basic things: food in our bellies, a roof over our heads, a safe place to live and raise our family, compassion, to have access to care when we're ill, freedom, an education, an education for our children, a job or other means of support, the desire to contribute or be productive in some way, to express ourselves and be heard, and prosperity.
I enjoy these spirited discussions. We are all Americans looking to do
the right thing - though we often completely disagree on how to accomplish these things. But we all want the same basic things in the end. Still, we can openly have these discussions and this is one of our nation's
great legacy.
I personally believe in the possibility of win-win situations. I believe in synergy. I believe in respect, understanding and peace. I believe in the Golden Rule: do unto others as you would have them do unto you. IMHO, THAT is the lofty reason for action, as opposed to the promise of reward or fear of punishment. I believe that you don't get pure peace by hating war, but by loving peace.
And I don't mind being personally attacked, I'm
the only one who knows who I really am and my own real intentions, and I know
that my intentions are positive and loving. But generally personal attacks are a
distraction from a constructive discussion and the sign of frustration
and desperation by the attacker. We can be passionate and convinced without being vicious and nasty.
Ironically, we often have the exact opposite ideas about how to accomplish the very things that we all want. But THOSE WANTS ARE THE TIE THAT BINDS US. So we can continue to have discourse, but why not agree
to be generally respectful and constructive? If I don't agree with you,
I may feel that you are misguided or misinformed, but I don't choose to
then judge you to be an idiot. The one thing that I won't personally tolerate is prejudice. So, if I feel that you're coming from a racist or sexist place, I get sensitive about that and I may not choose to continue to engage with you. But otherwise, I do so enjoy hearing the thoughts, opinions, beliefs of others whether they agree with me or not, and I maintain that we can all grow by keeping the lines of communication open. I also realize that many times, in the end, we will just have to agree to disagree....knowing that at the end of the day we all really do want the same things.
Think Peace! Much Love, Andrew
4:13 PM
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