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Last Updated: 11/27/2009

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Wednesday, May 13, 2009 

Current mood:  content
Category: Life
Didn't anyone evItalicer tell you, staring is impolite...??

Why do we compare each other?
Why must we be the Best?
Is there such thing..........?

We judge, compare and compete simply because we are looking for validation... that's what we are doing.



Going to an event with a huge crowd of people, I found everyone scoping out one another, Scoping out their "competition." Everyone wants to be the best. That goes with looks, with talent, with health & nutrition, with knowledge, with smarts, with popularity, with income- THE LIST GOES ON!

A good question is, WHY are we so insecure about ourselves that we must COMPETE with the next human being? A better question is, WHY are we so insecure that we cannot be happy or content in life until: " all of the stars are aligned," Until "everything is in order," Until "I AM in my absolute best shape," Or "the best looking in the group," Or "the most talented of the bunch," Or " the most intellectual of the pack." WHY must we feel that in order to be happy we must be PERFECT?!



That mind set is dangerous as it WILL rob your life if you do not change your perspective.

Being "the best" is just a feeling- A feeling that is certainly not factual- It is simply a thought you have created in your mind. Everyone has their own perspective and own opinion- SO who's to say one person is better than the next??" And, in all honesty, does it even matter?



LOOK AROUND, this beautiful world is yours! We must try and respect ourselves. Respect the life you have been so blessed to be given.

Yes , it's good to aim to be the best you can be...BUT LOVE where you are at, at this very moment as well!

----The purpose of life was not to compete with one another------
--------It's to Harmonize with one another----------

Why can't we all just be equal? Equally beautiful. If you look closely, and let that superficial mind set fade, you will clearly see the beauty in everyone- Including yourself! We all are uniquely beautiful- how can you compare originality??

Let's all succeed. That's more exciting to me :) Don't you agree?



~Kristin and Cory~
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{DX} ANATO

 
well said
 
Posted by {DX} ANATO on Wednesday, May 13, 2009 - 11:31 PM
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Jeff

 
Very beautifully said. I'll try to quit staring.
 
Posted by Jeff on Wednesday, May 13, 2009 - 11:32 PM
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BIG PHREEKY !
PAUL NEUMANN

 
LADIES!
THAT WAS A WONDERFUL BLOG!
YOU ARE QUITE RIGHT!

BUT............................................................................

WE LIVE IN THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA!
COMPETITION IS WHAT BUILT THIS COUNTRY!
STRIVING TO BE OUR BEST IS IN OUR NATIONS D.N.A.!

AND LETS FACE IT, MEN AND WOMEN ARE ALWAYS LOOKING TO "UPGRADE"!
SPOUSE, JOB, CAR, ETC..

THE HUMAN RACE IS A VERY JEALOUS RACE!

LAST BUT NOT LEAST, WE LIVE IN A YOUTH AND LOOKS OBSESSED SOCIETY!
AND EVERYONE DOESN'T LOOK LIKE THE TWO OF YOU!

I'VE SEEN YOU TWO IN THE GYM! I KNOW HOW HARD YOU WORK TO LOOK GOOD!
BUT EVERYONE CAN'T BE THAT.

BUT BECAUSE WE'RE BOMBARDED EVERY DAY, IN EVERY WAY, BY ALL FORMS OF MEDIA, THAT IF YOU DON'T LOOK, YOUR NO GOOD, PEOPLE GET THAT NEGITIVE MIND SET!

I LOVE THE FACT THAT THE TWO OF YOU ALWAYS TRY AND DO GOOD AND HELP AS MANY PEOPLE OUT THERE AS YOU CAN! YOUR ALWAYS POSITIVE AND NEVER SNOOTY !

THANK YOU!

IF MORE OF THE "BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE" ACTED AND CARED LIKE THE TWO OF YOU, THINGS WOULD BE MUCH BETTER!

HAVE A WONDERFUL WEEK!

PAUL



 
Posted by BIG PHREEKY ! on Wednesday, May 13, 2009 - 11:32 PM
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BURN
Burn deGastyne

 
Right on and on and on!!! If you do your best, you have won no matter what anyone else does.
The same goes for BEING your best. Even better!!
 
Posted by BURN on Thursday, May 14, 2009 - 12:58 AM
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Greg GMan Raupp

 
4 Sure......GMan
 
Posted by "Offical Page" Artasight Productions NV. on Thursday, May 14, 2009 - 12:59 AM
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~WALT'S HAPPY SPACE~PROMOTING COUNTRY MUSIC~
Walt Moore

 
What you have said is so true. It usually takes age to figure all this out but you Girls "Get It"already.
Your blogs are very interesting and You are helping alot of people with your writings.
As far as staring goes,I will be guilty big time if Im ever in your presents,I will try and not get caught.
Rock On Ladys,Walt Moore
 
Posted by ~WALT'S HAPPY SPACE~PROMOTING COUNTRY MUSIC~ on Thursday, May 14, 2009 - 10:57 AM
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J. Hollins

 
I believe there's a certain level of competitiveness in every person, it's normal to want to be the best at what you do. That's a huge part of what drives me to do what I do and I'm sure it's the same for you guys. The problems start when individuals become consumed with being better than others, instead of being concerned about reaching their maximum God given potential/talent. Unfortunately the percentage who has mastered this is way smaller than the percentage that hasn't. Interesting blog post though :)!

 
Posted by J. Hollins on Wednesday, September 30, 2009 - 8:05 PM
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