So I spent the evening with some great women.  I had a friend who turned 40 today and it was great spending time with women who have been there and done that. I heard some great advice from women who really have it together in respect to life. I do feel we as women should embrace each other and lift each other up. Men have done this for years. They have always done this with one another instinctively. Women always seem to be in competition with one another. Every female friend I have brings something significant to the table of life. We have to surrender to the fact that there is always someone funnier, someone more put together, someone with better hair, someone prettier, someone smarter, someone more accomplished. Thats always going to be true no matter who you are. Just be comfortable with yourself and really reval in the fact that no one can be as good at being you than you.  Embrace other peoples assets that you dont have and let them make you better. Don't be jealous, just be happy that  person is good at what they are good at and learn from it. Be happy and blessed that they are your friend. You will teach them and they will teach you. Open your heart and spirit and you will find complete gratitude.