I was talking to one of my girlfriends Ki-Ki the other day and she was telling me she felt invisible and like she did not exist in her family:( I asked her why she felt that way and she told me b/c she was the oldest and she had 3 younger siblings. Her dad had remarried and that's where she felt left out b/c the 3 younger siblings were her half siblings.

She felt she was kicked out of the family. I told her I felt some what how she was feeling. It hurts when you have parents who remarry and move on with their new life and families and you are left behind.

I am very close with my sister and I have a lil brother but I knew what she was saying. Ki-Ki just recently got engaged and her dad told her he would not walk her down the aisle b/c he did not like her fiance'! That's a hurting thing. Ki and her dad were always close from what I remember back in school and when he got remarried their relationship was horrible.

My father and I was close once too but now we are still close but not like we used to be. I feel so sorry for Ki-Ki. She told me how her dad would do all sorts of things for her siblings but did none of that stuff for her. They take pictures together and she is the only one not there.

I use to feel the same way but I gave it to God and I think I have a new family of my own to make memories with. She has no kids but she will be getting a new family with her fiance' and his fam. God will see her through this difficult time in her life and I of course will be praying for her b/c I have been there done that like DR. DRE.

Do anybody have any suggestions of how Ki-Ki should feel in this situations?

DA DIVA MIKA