Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a
guy to call and make plans. Grown women make their own
plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits
in.

Girls want to control the man in their life. Grown
women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need
controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them. Grown women are
too busy to realize you hadn't.

Girls try to put a man 'on lock' by using sex. Grown
women know that it's the sex of the mental kind that
makes a man want to 'lock' you down.

Girls fake-moan, lay there and take the stabbing.
Grown women say, "Just stop", get up, get dressed and
walk it out.

Girls are afraid to be alone. Grown women revel in
it-- using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys. Grown women ignore the bad
guys.

Girls make you come. Grown women make you come home.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough
for their man. Grown women know that they are pretty
and/or good enough for any man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e,
don't want him hanging with his friends). Grown women
realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together
time' even more special -- and goes to kick it with
her own friends!

Girls think a guy crying is weak. Grown women offer
their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough
to reciprocate w/o fear of losing his 'manhood'.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that that was just one man.

Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object
of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'. Grown women
know that sometimes the one you love, don't always
love you back -- and move on, without bitterness.