U kw what pisses me off more than anything is to hear that a guy put someone love though shit, that he broke there hearts in some way, why cant u plp just admit ur wrong and suck u ur pride. I had my heart broken on more than one time, by the same girl and end the it was just better to part ways, would i say i made her mad yea, and i such up my pride and said i was sry. She never told me she was sry, but i suck it up any way. plp say  put here through crap cuz i never held a job, bullshit i have play music for 12 years, if that not holding a job the F$%^ it, plp say im a looser for wanting to play music for the rest of my life oh well , that my choice, but i never hurt her, i never told her she was a bitch or  worthless trash, u just dont do that! I never told her she couldnt do something she wanted to do, or stop her from doing it. We a guy want to go viz his frds. they dont say anthing, but a girl wants to go have a dink or two with frds at a bar , then they are cheating, bull shit. I mean yea it sometimes happens, and you get mad, but u ever sit down and think why it happen, i kw i have many nites, I have ever cheated ?NO!!! i havent , you dont cheat on someone u love. U suck it up and move on, he she leaves you for another guy, oh well, u suck it up and move on! It hard and i should kw cuz its happened to me and i found things out but i kept my mouth shut, cuz i did want to mess up a good thing, in the end i lost, BUT, I have moved on, yea i get lonely , but i dont press her personal life on my she a person that does what she want to do, with or with out me, Guys stop treating ur women  like crap, love them, TALK TO THEM!!! make sure your all on the same page, if not its time to let it go and move on....Trust is hard to gain back once u have made a mistake, I never gain complete trust back, so get over it and move on...!!!!!