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kristy Schwade


Last Updated: 11/27/2009

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Gender: Female
Status: Married
Age: 23
Sign: Aries

City: TAMPA
State: Florida
Country: US
Signup Date: 10/21/2005

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Tuesday, September 29, 2009 

For the last two weeks I have been eager for October 5. Saturday morning I saw that a motion was filed by the defense for a continuance. Josh and I were extremely irritated and didn’t understand what had caused this because the last time we were in court both the state and defense were ready for trial. So this morning we got up and headed down to the court house for what should’ve been the pre-trial… but wasn’t.

 

Basically all I can say is because of a family member of the defendant; the trial is now going to be on November 30. What a great way to start the holidays off, right? Who knows if it will even happen then? Obliviously you can tell by the tone of this blog, I am not happy. We have been mentally preparing ourselves for this for the last couple months and here we are a week away and… now it’s not going to happen. We just want this to be over so we can move on and try to, once again, gain some sort of closure… if that is even possible. Everyone has had plenty of time to prepare for this trial. It has been almost two and a half years. We were warned when she waived her right to a speedy trial that it could be a long road to trial, but over two years?...

 

I am sorry it has been so long since my last blog. I am juggling a lot right now and barely have a moment to myself. I like to be busy though…

 

Kaleb is status quo. We have been battling a cold for the last couple weeks. We have all had it. The doctors say that he is fine and that it will just have to run its course. We also had a brief stay in the hospital in the beginning of September for what ended up being C-Dif. That causes you to have very bad and stinky diarrhea. He got through that okay. But because of the C-Dif and cold we haven’t been able to go to swimming. He is still growing like a weed and is so heavy to carry. When Kaeson goes down for a nap, Kaleb and I take a nap together in my bed. I love that time of the day when I get to snuggle with him.

 

Kaeson is almost walking. The other day he walked all the way across the living room but hasn’t done it again since. His new thing is trying to turn door knobs so we have all of those baby proof door knobs. Josh hates them and cannot open the door with them on. Kaeson loves to take pictures and is such a ham.

 

Josh and I are doing well. Like I said before, we have a cold. I think it is the worst one that I have ever had. I just finished a class and am getting ready to start another one next week. Josh loves being a fire fighter. He always says he enjoys getting up and going to work.

 

Thank you for all of you who continue to keep Kaleb and my family in your prayers. I pray that this break before trial will affect the case against her in a positive way. I just need to remember that it is God’s timing and everything will work out. Please continue to pray for us. Thanks.  

I just saw a question about Oliver. He is doing well, he is home now. His mom has a page where she post updates on him. It is Myspace.com/oliverdeanwhite.

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~*Mrs*~*Fauske~*

 
You guys are always in my prayers.. God bless you. And I hope you all heal fast!
 
Posted by ~*Mrs*~*Fauske~* on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:01 PM
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ƸӜƷ Pumpkin ƸӜƷ
Hayley Graham

 
gah i know its gotta be frustrating..but that sounds like the justice system...but let something SMALL happen and they are all over it! its crazy...but god has a reason for everything as u know! soon it will be over with and justice will be served!!!!

yall are always in my prayers girly as u know!

love yal
 
Posted by ƸӜƷ Pumpkin ƸӜƷ on Friday, October 02, 2009 - 10:59 PM
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ღ Mary ღ
Mary Lee

 
OMG! How frustrating. Your family is ALWAYS in my prayers!!

 
Posted by ღ Mary ღ on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:01 PM
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♥ Loving Life ♥
Sarah Kern

 
You guys are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray all goes well for you and your family.
 
Posted by ♥ Loving Life ♥ on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:01 PM
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mandi
Mandi Burleson

 
Still praying

 
Posted by mandi on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:02 PM
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Abby

 
You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I did have a question and that is what ever happened to Oliver? Take care and keep us posted.

 
Posted by Abby on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:02 PM
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†~Stephen~† still called Oh God~Μολών Λaβέ!

 
Many prayers continue.
Thanks for the update.

 
Posted by †~Stephen~† still called Oh God~Μολών Λaβέ! on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:02 PM
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Cherish
Cherish Hollcroft

 
we will keep the prayers going and keep your faith strong and know she will get everything that is coming to her
 
Posted by Cherish on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:03 PM
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ImMa Do Me!!!

 
Wow! i cant believe its been that long and I cant believed they continued it. your family is always in my prayers. your boys are both very adorable.
 
Posted by ImMa Do Me!!! on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:03 PM
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Jenny
Jennifer DeBoer

 
Continuing to pray for  you and your family. I can't believe how long it has been since his attack and nothing has been done yet. God work is a mystery and only he knows when is best!

 
Posted by Jenny on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:03 PM
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TreyversMom
Cyndi White

 
sorry to hear about the delay...AGAIN. I can only imagine the pain this causes, U all deserve closure. I hope when everything does take place the evil person who did this to Kaleb finally gets what she deserves. My thoughts and prayer will always be with you and tour family. Take Care.
Love from Michigan,
Cyndi

Ohh hope everyone gets feeling better soon
 
Posted by TreyversMom on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:03 PM
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☮Jadəd☮

 
you are still very much in our prayers
 
Posted by ☮Jadəd☮ on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:03 PM
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This is the life
Amanda Moore

 
You are always in my prayers!! Good luck with everything! And Hope you guys get over the colds!

 
Posted by This is the life on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:04 PM
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SHEREE
Sheree Rashi Mueller

 
Keep your head up you are doing a great job. God bless
 
Posted by SHEREE on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:05 PM
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JAMES' BABY GIRL
JAIME DALE PARKER

 
JUST HANG IN THERE GIRL IT WILL ALL WORK OUT, REMEMBER IT'S IN GOD'S HANDS... HOPE YOU & YOUR FAMILY START TO FEEL BETTER SOON.
 
Posted by JAMES' BABY GIRL on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:05 PM
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~Mrs. Diaz~

 
Everything is Gods work!! I continually have your family in our prayers!!

 
Posted by ~Mrs. Diaz~ on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:05 PM
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~Retta~

 
I will continue to pray for all of you. Thanks for the updates!!!
 
Posted by ~Retta~ on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:06 PM
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my family is my life!!!!!

 
thats horrible that they are making you guys wait for so long..but my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.. and in gods timing things will work out and things will be ok...
 
Posted by my family is my life!!!!! on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:06 PM
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Riley's Mommy
stephanie reents

 
i too am very disappointed of how long you guys have had to wait to get the closure your family well deserves. you both are great parents and i hope everything goes well and is over soon
 
Posted by Riley's Mommy on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:07 PM
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Oo*~*LiL JaYs Mamma*~*Oo
Jen Keith

 
I am glad that everyone is doing ok other than the trial I will keep you in my prays for the trial to go well and the health of all of you.

 
Posted by Oo*~*LiL JaYs Mamma*~*Oo on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:07 PM
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☮ Groovy Squirrel ☮
Deborah Evers

 
I can't believe it's been 2.5 years.....I HOPE everything really does get going on Nov.30th...it's been a long, hard ordeal for you and your family....I wish for peace for you all! Love you guys! and praying for you always!

Deb in Indiana :)
 
Posted by ☮ Groovy Squirrel ☮ on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:10 PM
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I Created The Sound of Maddness
Cynthia Johnson

 
the one thing i hate about the us is how people who do things lke in your case pretty much get to live there life as is!! this continuance crap is getting out of hand and if it continues i just hope someone in some power can get it to an end for you and your family!! its not fair to you guys nor kaleb!!!

also make sure you dont have swine!!! its a horrible horrible virus and starts off as a cold!!

god bless you and your family and im so glad to hear oliver is ok!

 
Posted by I Created The Sound of Maddness on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:10 PM
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**Jessica Leann**

 
Aww Poor Kaleb..C-Diff isn't fun :( Im sorry that the trial is taking longer than you anticipated. I think everyone that is your friend on here and reads your blog want the same thing...Kaleb to be healthy and Justice for him! Thank you for continuing to be an inspiration to me and I'm sure a lot of other moms out there!! God Bless!!!

 
Posted by **Jessica Leann** on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:11 PM
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TEX~HONEY
Charlotte Carter

 
my question is why does a family member of hers have to do with her not being able to go to court?? this is just crazy!!! keep your head up!! it will all come out soon...she will get hers i promise....
 
Posted by TEX~HONEY on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:11 PM
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KRIS
kristian wanner

 
YOU GUYS ARE IN MY PRAYERS. THEY ALWAYS SAY TIME HEALS, BUT NOT QUICK ENOUGH! GOD DOES HAVE A TIME AND REASON FOR EVERYTHING, I LEARNED THAT THIS WEEK IN THE PASSING OF MY FATHER-IN-LAW. GOOD LUCK ON THE TRIAL (WHENEVER IT MAY BE).

GOD BLESS,
THE WANNER FAMILY

 
Posted by KRIS on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:11 PM
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Brooke,"Never a failure, always a lesson"
Brooke Cole

 
God Bless you, your stronger then I could ever be.
 
Posted by Brooke,"Never a failure, always a lesson" on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:12 PM
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~*~One Spoiled Bitch And Proud Of It~*~

 
I am soooo sorry to hear about the set back in the trial that is just crazy that lil man and your whole family needs closure that you all soooooo deserve. I know what you are going threw with the cold my 7 year old son and 2 year old daughter are fighting the bad cold now i hope it passes soon for you and them. That is sooo awesome that Kaeson is trying to walk he is getting to be a big boy. I will contiue to keep all of you in my prayers. <3 The Hernandez Family

 
Posted by ~*~One Spoiled Bitch And Proud Of It~*~ on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:12 PM
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DJ creations
In memory Dinah Jo

 
for all of our court dates it took my ex about 21/2 yrs to pay for what he did to my little angel...so give it time i know it is easier said then done but it is worth it to see them pay for what they do!!
im glad you and the boys are doing well i think that awful cold is going around everywhere!! glad to see an update from you the boys i can tell are getting so big and they just smile adn love the camera!!
yes the cuddle time with the little ones is an awsome feeling!! my son is 3 and he doesnt really wanna be cuddled anymore except wehn hes being shy or is sick...they grow up so fast!!
my thoughts and prayers are always with you and your family!!
your friend,
latonya

 
Posted by DJ creations on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:13 PM
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~*Back 2 bein me*~
Leaanne Mcclain

 
wow i really wish they would just get done with this trial it must be so hard on u guys to have to deal with this....u r always in my prayers and i pray that this trail is done and over with soon...with all my love and give those babies a kiss from me lol
 
Posted by ~*Back 2 bein me*~ on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:19 PM
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Ieesha
Ieesha Colson

 
Over two years is just stupid. I am so sorry for you. Take care. You guys are in my prayers.

 
Posted by Ieesha on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:20 PM
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Praying for Tommy!!!!

 
Hopefully they will stop putting this off so ya'll can get on with you lives!! You are in my prayers!!!!
 
Posted by Praying for Tommy!!!! on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:20 PM
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The Future Mrs. Redman
Colleen O'Brien

 
Everything will work out for the best and she will get what's coming to her, as I've said before if not in this life then the next. Justice will be served one way or another. Continuing to pray for Kaleb and your family always!
 
Posted by The Future Mrs. Redman on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:21 PM
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♥ LISA ♥

 
You guys are in my prayers all the time. Stay strong.

 
Posted by ♥ LISA ♥ on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:21 PM
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~CARA~

 
Hope you all are better soon. Keeping you in our prayers always.
 
Posted by ~CARA~ on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:22 PM
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His One And Only Baby Doll!!

 
you all have been through so much My opinnion is they should lock that woman up and throw away the key since she took away the life that Kaleb was supposed to have.......and yes please try to remember all in gods time I have to tell myself that alot...you all are in my prayers always

 
Posted by His One And Only Baby Doll!! on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:22 PM
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Happily Imperfect!! RIP JMG you were truelly loved
Mellanie Herard

 
I am glad to here everyone is doing ok and i will continue to pray for your family!! i think that he is blessed to have such awesome parents! You guys are doing great!!

 
Posted by Happily Imperfect!! RIP JMG you were truelly loved on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:26 PM
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Jamie

 
I guarantee you there will be good to come out of this. Yes two years is a long time but God remembers every detail. Where one door closes another one opens. God is still in control and your whole family are God's children and God loves his children.
 
Posted by Jamie on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:26 PM
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*AMBER*

 
SORRY TO HEAR ABT THE DELAY IN TRIAL. HOW FRUSTRATING....HANG IN THERE. I HOPE ALL OF YALL START FEELING BETTER SOON
 
Posted by *AMBER* on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:28 PM
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Jåmïê
Jamie White

 
You will always be in our prayers Schwade family!
 
Posted by Jåmïê on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:28 PM
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Athena
Athena Yates

 
still praying for you guys and wishing for the best for you guys)

 
Posted by Athena on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:28 PM
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Mommy DEARest
Zsera Dear

 
Praying for your family. Hope you all feel better soon.
 
Posted by Mommy DEARest on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:29 PM
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*LDR*

 
I am so sorry to hear this and was hoping it would be done before the holidays..Like you said let God handle it in his time..Prayers for your family always!!
 
Posted by *LDR* on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:29 PM
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♥WALSH♥
melissa walsh

 
You all are in my prayers always. I hope everything goes fast and the trial ends up on the day they say so all of you can gain some sort of closure. I also hope all of you get to feelin better...we were all sick over here in my house and there's five of us. Take care!
 
Posted by ♥WALSH♥ on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:32 PM
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Comicazi Cowgirl
Leann Elliott-Cassady

 
Hey u guys JUST KEEP SHPWING YOUR STRENGTH AND GOD WILL KEEP PULLING YOU ALL UP. Thinking of you and Prayers always. Keep fightin' and pushin forward Girl. Its Hard I Know.
Love to All,
Leann
 
Posted by Comicazi Cowgirl on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:33 PM
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Audra

 
I am praying all this gets over soon and you guys can move forward. Its ridiculous how long they can drag something out. You are in my thoughts everyday since this has happened. Keep you head held high. I hope you all get better soon! We would all love to see new pictures of you handsome sons.... 

 
Posted by Audra on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:34 PM
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♥ Loving My Life & Family ♥
Crystal Wend

 
You are all in my prayer's.. Hope the hearing goes in your favor..
 
Posted by ♥ Loving My Life & Family ♥ on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:36 PM
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Eileen
Eileen Hopkins

 
Keep your head up...we are all praying for you guys! Get well soon to all of you who have the cold.
 
Posted by Eileen on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:37 PM
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nancy
Nancy Mills

 
i am sorry that this is happening to you. you have been through so much as a family and result of this. i am glad you and josh are doing well. i know its hard but at least you have each other. i will continue to pray for you and your family and hope all goes well.
 
Posted by nancy on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:37 PM
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Choose your next words wisely they maybe your last

 
So sorry to hear the news. If anyone had any idea what it is like preparing yourself for something so monumental they would NEVER postpone things like these. Here's to hoping that NOV 30 is the day. Praying for you.
 
Posted by Choose your next words wisely they maybe your last on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:39 PM
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Anne (Jones) Hollis
Anne Hollis

 
I'm sorry that you all have to wait.  I understand that frustration!  We adopted our oldest from foster care and had similar delays and hang ups with the adoption.  Having your court date moved multiple times is SO discouraging.  However, eventually you WILL have your day and you will see justice done.  I know it's hard to believe, but it will happen.  Praying for your family always!

 
Posted by Anne (Jones) Hollis on Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 4:40 PM
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