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Status: Single
City: LONG BEACH
State: California
Country: US
Signup Date: 3/4/2008

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Thursday, May 28, 2009 

Current mood:  bummed
FACT #1: Gay marraige was legalized by the CA supreme court  May 15, 2008
FACT# 2:  Prop8 passed on November 15th 2008 making gay marriage illegal
FACT#3:  The prop was challenged and on May 26th 2009 but failed to change
FACT#4: Though gay marriage is now illegal, the 18,000+ couples that did marry while it was legal are protected and still recognized as married in CA

CA MARRIAGE  FUN FACT #1
A UCLA study estimates the impact of extending marriage to same-sex couples on state and local government revenues in California will result in a net gain of approximately $63.8 million in revenue over the next three years However, as marriage rights for same sex couples have been eliminated by Proposition 8, these gains will not be realized.

And now a note from Annie of Ask Alice

Dear Homos, Str8s, Fags, Queens, Queers and everyone in between....

Yesterday was fucking depressing. I cried. I wanted nothing more than for this stupid battle to be over. I hate fighting cause frankly, Im lazy and I want instant gratification on everything- including love. This last year has taught me alot about love and most importantly about fighting for what you love and believe in. Watching Prop8 grow in support and then pass was heartbreaking and the news of yesterday was another kick to the crotch. Ouch. (maybe we should all buy nutcups?) But it wasnt all bad news. 18,000+ gay couples remain married and protected by the law. High Five!

Whats important to remember here kids is that Fact #4 is yes, a contradiction to the law, and is the foot in the door for our next round of legal battles. The married couples of 2008 and the rest of us gays who cannot marry make the perfect case of discrimination under the state constitution. You can bet your bottom dollar this will be exactly what the fight will continue with...how can these 18,000+ people be protected under the marriage laws of CA and not these gay couples who didnt get a chance to tie the knot yet?

The truth is....most people are stupid. PERIOD. Prop 8 was misleading and had loads of $$$$ behind it. They made outrageous claims and lied to scare people into believing that the queers down the street getting married would make your babies gay and god would hate you. Riiiiiiigggght...

The good news is, the CA supreme court is not stupid and neither are our lawyers that are representing those in favor of equal rights. Be a good gay and pay attention! If you're not gay and you're reading this....its YOU who we need help from the most. Straight allies are our most important soldiers in the battle for equal rights for all. Thanks for your love and support- we need it!!

Even if you dont believe in love. Even if you dont give a crap about marriage. This fight is about equality and standing up for whats right. Exercise your love muscle and open your heart to a good cause. Support equal rights in marriage!!

<3 Annie
of Ask Alice



Désirée
Désirée Aubry

 
Prop 8 was definitely one of the most painful things. Yesterday, I wasn't actually surprised. I'd had hope, but I wasn't holding out for it to be overturned. I went to a rally here in San Francisco, and that is what really gave me hope.

It's going back to the ballot in 2010 and I think that we can really win this. I have faith in us and in the world. I know there are a lot of people opposing us, but just like with any movement that history has seen, we'll overcome. Love will win out.

And I love how same-sex marriage really would be a benefit to our really fucked up economy. People are so dumb sometimes.

 
Posted by Désirée on Thursday, May 28, 2009 - 3:43 AM
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Raphael

 
Fact #4 is totally wrong.

Fact #4: The court MANDATED that the state recognize 18,000 gay marriages. Therefore, gay marriage is LEGAL. If any politician or bigot tells you that same-sex marriage is illegal in California, they are in violation of this court's decision.

They were unambiguous: Gay marriage is legal in CA.

 
Posted by Raphael on Thursday, May 28, 2009 - 3:43 AM
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IntheStillLife Photography
jamie Butler-su'a

 
It makes no sense to me... Can you just imagine the legal battles to come. Say a married couple from another state moves to California, how can a state that has 18,000 legally recognized gay marriages not acknowledge their marriage? Will it only count if the wedding took place before November 4th?

 

 
Posted by IntheStillLife Photography on Sunday, May 31, 2009 - 4:01 AM
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Ask Alice

 
I appreciate that Rafi- but if it was so legal...why cant I get married tonight? I get what you're saying tho.  <3 I love my smart friends!!
 
Posted by Ask Alice on Thursday, May 28, 2009 - 3:44 AM
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