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Last Updated: 11/17/2009

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City: Nashville
State: Tennessee
Country: US
Signup Date: 10/30/2005

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Wednesday, August 05, 2009 
Just found out that Paula Abdul has decided not to return to American Idol.  As much as America will miss her, those I feel the most for are the future contestants of American Idol.  Ms. Paula was a constant source of encouragement.  She was the one voice on the judge panel that understood what it was like to pour your very soul into a performance, only to have it scrutinized before millions of people.  She judged with a tender heart, and I for one really appreciated that!  She saw star potential in everyone.  Future contestants will certainly miss out.

As busy of a schedule as she had, Ms. Paula took time every week to visit with us, bringing gifts from her jewelry line with messages imprinted on them that were meant to encourage us on during that crazy time.  If there were children visiting the American Idol studio, she wanted to meet them, take pictures with them, and give them each a gift of their own.  She's a very special kind of person.

Thanks for 8 great seasons, Ms. Paula.  We will miss you.
Only Idol

 
That's a very nice post Phil. Thank you so much.
 
Posted by Only Idol on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 1:38 PM
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Paulette
Paulette Willemsen

 
I completely agree with you Phil. She does have a tender heart and I have always appreciated her encouraging words for the contestants. AI will not be the same without her as a judge.
 
Posted by Paulette on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 1:38 PM
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Syesha

 
Thanks for supporting Paula Phil. I wrote a blog about her as well. :)
 
Posted by Syesha on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 1:39 PM
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E

 
It will definitely take away the "bubbly" factor from the show. 
 
Posted by E on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 1:41 PM
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Amanda
Amanda Thomas

 
I agree Phil, American Idol will not be the same without her.  She was the breath of fresh air for so long and I am heart broken that she is leaving Idol.

While I love Randy and Simon and now Kara it just doesn't feel right that Paula won't be part of the show anymore. 

Just an opinion but I think that the whole reason Fox put Kara on that show was to replace Paula and I'm still sticking to my guns, so as the show goes on without Paula I don't think that anyone can hold a candle compared to her. 

I will be devestated if Simon leaves the show that just wont be right however, if he does I want Piers Morgan to replace him.  Or you but I know America looks for that sharp tongue and you don't strike me as a "mean" person :)

Which is not such a bad thing.  While Paula had a lot of fans she also had a lot of people against her and I don't know her personally but from what I've seen she doesn't deserve to be treated bad. 

I will miss her and Simon bickering that's for sure.

OK anyway thanks for posting something :)

 
Posted by Amanda on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 1:42 PM
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Jess
Jess Daugherty

 
AMEN.... well written.... I am hoping she is just trying to get 19 to cave... IDOL from a viewers prospective wont be the same....
 
Posted by Jess on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 1:43 PM
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Jon

 
You are exactly right!

What a loss!

I hope you are well - want to see more of you - thank God for you!

 
Posted by Jon on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 10:10 PM
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lil momma

 
she will be missed she made American idol fun to watch because she wasnt scared to give it back to simon when he was being mean to someone,it wont be the same without her.As fas as simon goes i cant say honestly that id miss him he hurts peoples feelings like he has no heart and its wrong.If you dont like them a simple NO is all they need to hear.
 
Posted by lil momma on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 10:10 PM
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~Country Girl~
Kasey Hughes

 
well thanks for letting everyone know that
 
Posted by ~Country Girl~ on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 10:10 PM
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Scotland Love

 
Encouragers are always missed...there are far too few of them in this world...so their absence is keenly felt.

Thanks for sharing your perspective.  I'm glad that she was able to help so many along their journey...

~~Shirley
 
Posted by Scotland Love on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 10:10 PM
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skilletsher.
Sherry Hovey

 
i agree with this totally. she was a really nice judge, and was always lifting heavy spirits.

 
Posted by skilletsher. on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 10:10 PM
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Charlotte
Charlotte Pankey Sillyman

 
Very well said Phil. I agree totally. This will most likely be the first season I won't watch.
 
Posted by Charlotte on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 10:10 PM
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Angel Lindbergh

 
Phil,
Sounds like you and Paula are "kindred" spirits.  Especially nice of you to take the time to comment.  I enjoyed reading your thoughts. 
BTW COG PK's RULE!!!!   :)
-Angel

 
Posted by Angel Lindbergh on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 10:10 PM
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Joy
Joy Elise

 
I really thought that also, how she judged with her heart. I will miss her too!!
 
Posted by Joy on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 10:10 PM
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The Nic & Nan Morning Show

 
Couldn't agree with you more, Phil..being on the outside looking in we always knew Paula was the compassionate one with a heart of gold.  We really can't imagine the show without her, Kara is no replacement.  Hope this finds you and your family and career going well, we always enjoyed your performances!  All the best, Nic & Nan.
 
Posted by The Nic & Nan Morning Show on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 10:11 PM
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ali(:ia☮

 
aw phil youre soo nice
 
Posted by ali(:ia☮ on Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 2:45 AM
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Becky

 
Phil, I couldn't agree with you more.  She was a delight.  Can't say the same for the other lady.
I think they made a mistake when they brought on a fourth judge.  Had they not, maybe Paula
would still be on there.  I wish her good luck in the future.

 
Posted by Becky on Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 2:45 AM
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TORI
VICTORIA POLAND

 
You are right Phil, It is too bad that Paula is leaving because she is very encouraging to all contestants. Even those that may not make it to the end.
 
Posted by TORI on Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 5:57 PM
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*MINA NINA*

 
Anyone and everyone lucky enough to have met ms. paula are so so lucky i agree she has such an enery about her that gives people the good vibes needed to get thru idol and its obstacles.
 
Posted by *MINA NINA* on Monday, August 10, 2009 - 5:36 AM
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:)Taraa ♥
Tara Browning

 
aww how nice i will miss her too!
 
Posted by :)Taraa ♥ on Monday, August 10, 2009 - 5:37 AM
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Simply Me ~jan~

 
I will miss her...It won't be the same for sure! I had heard that she did things like that Phil and you could tell how much she cared about the contestants! I was hoping she would change her mind! Now who is Simon going to have to pick on?  Best Of Luck Paula:)  Thanks for writing this Phil!
~jan~
 
Posted by Simply Me ~jan~ on Thursday, August 13, 2009 - 4:54 AM
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*We Miss U Pammy, We Luv U*
Michelle Pickering

 
she shouldn't leave!!!!!
 
Posted by *We Miss U Pammy, We Luv U* on Friday, August 14, 2009 - 5:28 PM
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