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Gender: Female
Status: Single
Age: 34
Sign: Aries

City: LA
State: California
Country: US
Signup Date: 11/5/2005

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Thursday, April 02, 2009 

Current mood:  bullied
I really thought the days of my personal relationship being played in the public eye were over. just so there is no confusion or "source" to attack my character, I am saying my side.

Travis and I were very much together in September when the horrific crashed happened, not only did I fly to Georgia I stayed by his side the entire stay and also for the bus ride home to LA, I think any human being with a heart and for the love of any good friend , never mind father of their children and lover would do the same, After arriving in LA and getting settled in the new hospital, I came across numerous romantic emails with MANY other woman, some famous , some I personally knew, all heart breaking. and the woman involved you know who you are and should be ashamed of yourself. I also came across emails where employees of my ex were writing comments on gossip networks like TMZ and Perez Hilton, attacking me as a woman and a mother. I Think those were more painful then the infidelities. As anyone can imagine, I was devastated, this is when I stopped going to the LA hospital, I knew and made sure even after what I learned he had a strong support system in place with friends and family, and I made it clear to them why I would be dismissing myself, at that point with the new information revealed to me I considered myself SINGLE and thou In my heart hoped we would remain friends and good parents had no intentions of getting back together. It was a painful time that no one unless they had lived it has the right to judge. Any actions I may or may have not done after this time, mean nothing.

I have been attacked by my Ex and his friends in the press for years at this point, my ability as a mother ( which to me is the cruelest thing you can do to any mother) my character and my integrity. I have never verbally bashed him as a father. I didn't even bash him after the infamous blogs years ago, I have never went on different social networks and made campaigns of hate and slander, In fact MANY times I have had to bite my tongue and try to be the bigger person. I have tried to always put the lives and thoughts and feelings of my children first. I am by no means an angel, and I have made many mistakes, but a woman can only turn her cheek so many times.

"No Comment" just wasn't sufficent this time when people continue to lie and distort the truth. the sad part is, the truth really isn't that juicy or news worthy, it's sad and I wish it had been left behind closed doors. I am a human being and the bashing has taken it's toll.

hope your all happy.
s.

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The Kaluzas
ashley kaluza

 
I applaud you for being the bigger person. It will pay in the long run. You know the old saying " kill them with kindness". You are a mother, therefore, you shall lead and act with example for your children to follow. You are a good person! Keep smiling, Shanna.

 
Posted by The Kaluzas on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 5:55 AM
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Lola
Kristin Kelly

 
Don't worry, you'll be alright. Just keep your head up and move on. It will be best for everyone involved.
:o)
 
Posted by Lola on Monday, April 06, 2009 - 9:09 AM
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≈CHERI≈
Cheri Stone-Wethington

 
WoW, I have always wanted to be known for something but all the notoriety in the world is not worth the price you as a woman and mother are paying.




Just because you are a celeb doesn't mean you don't have issues like every other human being and someone having a life altering/scarring accident doesn't redeem them from past behavior nor excuse them from their piece of shit behavior in the future.




I am sure you love him, but accident or not, if his past behavior presents in the future maybe it is time to move on.
You deserve better and he does not deserve the pity vote!!



Keep on keepin' on WOMAN!! Live your life for you(and your kids) and do your best to ignore the ugliness! F**c the press!
 
Posted by ≈CHERI≈ on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 5:56 AM
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Ty Chic
Cassandra Mosley

 
I could not have said it better myself!!!! Good Call Cheri!
 
Posted by Ty Chic on Monday, April 06, 2009 - 9:39 AM
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moved to myspace.com/space4gen

 
WOW...you are very courageous in your writing. Unfortunately, there are those in our lives or just in the vicinity of ours that make life challenging emotionally. I have watched from a distance your story unfold just in what is in the media. The truth always lay between the two telling the story but as a person in the spot light of the media...now you have a third outlook, typically giving a false perception for it's own benefit. I feel for you and pray. I can't agree more the devastation one feels when others attact a parent's abilities, unless of course they are truly deserving. For me, you are viewed as a very strong woman. More so than not I doubt what is blogged or in the media regarding you and yours. May God bless you and your loved ones. Keep being you.

 
Posted by moved to myspace.com/space4gen on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 5:56 AM
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*Dawn*

 
Shanna. I can't imagine how you must fell. You seem two really LOVE with all your heart, only to get burned. I truly believe that you have to put your kids first. I am divorced and don't get along with my ex...but my kids are out of the BS always. For him and his friends to make all the bs in the press and on twitter, it's so shameful. Does he not see that his actions have a negitive affect on the kids? They not only have to deal with their parents going back and forth, but the older they get, they get to see it in writing....Shame on Travis. and his cronies! You keep your head up high and know that you know the person you are, your kids and your family and friends know as well. Doesn't matter what others think. None of us know, we don't live your life! I say pack up your kids, move back home and get the heck out of Hollywood...It's full of spoiled brats that think of no one but themselves! And the sad thing is that we have kids looking up to people like Paris, Lindsey, and others....who are famous for what?????? I applaud you for standing up for yourself, but leave it at this and move on. Hopefully Travis will realize his kids should come before his feelings of wanting revenge and not taking ownership of his actions as well.




I hope you find your happiness again!



Stay Beautiful



Dawn






 
Posted by *Dawn* on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 5:57 AM
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~Patricia Nikole~

 
As a matter of fact... I remember the pain and sadness you expressed, and the heartbreak I felt for you as a friend when you confided this information to me after the accident.. and YES, you turned the other check and carried the burden while people judged you and critizied you.. I felt so protective of you and wanted the whole world to know the truth so the aweful attacks on your character in the press would stop... but with any true friend anything you say to me stay's confidential.. I just want you to know that regardless of our own up's and downs I still very much love you, and still feel very much protective of you.. no matter what I will always have your back.. I know the real you and I have had the pleasure of you having you in my life as my friend.. You are a wonderful mother to the cutest kids I have ever had the pleasure of meeting, even more, U R an amazing person.. I am sorry this shit even had to happen to you..
 
Posted by ~Patricia Nikole~ on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 5:57 AM
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The Heatherette

 
You're in my thoughts and prayers.

 
Posted by The Heatherette on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 5:57 AM
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LoVe, ReNeE ♥ ♥
Renee Bermea

 
good luck shanna!!!!!! you're a strong woman!
 
Posted by LoVe, ReNeE ♥ ♥ on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 5:57 AM
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~Kristi~
Kristi Shepherd

 
I CANT EVEN IMAGINE WHAT CELEBRITIES GO THROUGH ON A DAILY BASIS ESPECIALLY WHEN THERE IS A CRISIS GOING ON IN THEIR LIVES. IF I WAS FAMOUS AND MY LIFE WAS BEING TRACKED I COULD HONESTLY SAY I WOULD LOOK LIKE THE BIGGEST B@T%^ EVER BECAUSE WHEN I AM STRESSED OUT OR GOING THROUGH ROUGH TIMES I AM UNABLE TO KEEP MY COOL. SO PROPS TO YOU FOR MAINTAINING YOUR COMPOSURE AND KEEP YOUR HEAD UP.
;)
 
Posted by ~Kristi~ on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 5:58 AM
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Nan! ilmoHK!

 
Im soo sorry wow ppl are assholes
 
Posted by Nan! ilmoHK! on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 5:58 AM
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the ORIGINAL Eurasian Goddess
Eurasian Goddess

 
oh jesus, honey. I am so sorry for you. I saw what happened and it sickens me. You're a great mom, a really sensitive girl, and you don't deserve this- PERIOD.

 
Posted by the ORIGINAL Eurasian Goddess on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 5:58 AM
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krystal

 
Im so sorry you have to go through this . You are a VERY STRONG WOMEN AND WONDERFULL WOMEN, And MOTHER.



Im so Sorry for everything you have been through, people get there high on TRYEN to make other peoples lives misrible. You are the stronger person, and You ONLY DESERVE THE BEST! Your kids have a wonderfull strong mother. I hope your heart heals and you can one day start a new begining . You mean so much to the people around you, and people that have never met you.
I pray things get better and you can heal, You deserve so much better!


We all wish you the BEST!


Krystal
 
Posted by krystal on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 5:58 AM
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shanna, as long as your heart is true and you continue being a good mother, nothing else matters. love your kids and love yourself and everything else will fall into place....i promise :)
 
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Baby Gaga Formerly Rev.Rhondizzle
Rhonda Pahel

 
Shanna your a real person and anyone who can't see that is dumb! I read all the gossip sites to. But honestly all I ever hear is the bad mouthing of you so it brings me to wonder why the blame is only just put on one person. It makes me look at the other person and think well what are they hiding?? I think it's childish and through the years of stuff that I have read I think you have handled it the best you can. If it was me personally I wou;dn't have been the bigger person I will stoop...lol.....so rock on girl! You know you fuckin rock! And fuck whatever whore is getting between you guys...I honestly do you a love between you guys..it sounds lame...but I do...all these games wouldn't be played if there wasn't love.....immature love but none the less love.
I love you girlie keep your head up and stay strong for you beautiful children cause that is all that matters in life are those precious children!~ Lots of love0
 
Posted by Baby Gaga Formerly Rev.Rhondizzle on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 5:58 AM
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*mizz dmc* [me+you]

 
girl obviously it proves you're that damn good of a woman that your ex has to spread rumors about you... true story, my ex told his friends i tried to kill myself & how i was sweatin him etc etc... little boys are pathetic... stay you & that's all you have to do
 
Posted by *mizz dmc* [me+you] on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 5:59 AM
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Sophisticated Lady

 
There are no words to express the disappointment you must be going through at this point. Hold your head up mama! No one can judge you but God! Don't let ignorance/hollywood, change you from being the sweet spirit that you are. As long as you have the support of your family, friends, and God, there will be no obstacle you can't overcome. Your fans/ friends are behind you 100% S.
xoxo
 
Posted by Sophisticated Lady on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 5:59 AM
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**~Jenny~**

 
I personally think you are more than amazing!! You set an awesome example to all of your fans..me being one of those..You go girl...Keep on doing what you do
 
Posted by **~Jenny~** on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 5:59 AM
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Jennifer
Jennifer Goliash

 
I'm really sad it didn't work out for you two this time. People do things to each other that make no sense cause all it does is cause the other person pain & unfortunately it's human nature. I love you & Travis together. I hope you do remain friends & I hope may one day be able to reunite & be one of the great love stories of our time. If not, just focus on being there for each other as co parents to your children. Take the high road or hell even take the low road - just remember & I hope he does too that your children will one day see & read all of this! I hope you both find your peace & happiness.

 
Posted by Jennifer on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 5:59 AM
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Kaylan

 
Hugs to you girl - I know this comment may mean crap to you, and I admit I initially added you as a friend on myspace due to your celebrity back in your "Meet the Barkers" days, but immediately once I started reading your blogs, saw you as nothing but a true and down to earth person. And it hurts me to hear your pain. I'm so sorry for that and wish that I, as a single person could do something, anything to help you feel better.

 
Posted by Kaylan on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 5:59 AM
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Jennifer
Jennifer Mauceri

 
Shanna, its so hard as a mother to know what you must be going through. Its hard enough to be going through a seperation privately, no one should have to do it under the microscope of the press and tabloids. I hope you have a strong support system. Stay strong.
So many people love and adore you!!
 
Posted by Jennifer on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:00 AM
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♥ Viridiana
Viridiana Diaz

 
Shanna stay strong...you and travis are the only ons who know the truth.

 
Posted by ♥ Viridiana on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:00 AM
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Christina
Christina C

 
I'm sad you have to go through this in the public eye. No matter what people say, you are a good person. People have to slam other people to get attention and hits on their web site such as Perez, he's a loser anyways.

 
Posted by Christina on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:00 AM
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RUDE RUDE RUDE!!!
Fine whatever- It's Lisa.

 
I didn't know about any of that! But I love you =) Be happy ok? Screw the haters!
 
Posted by RUDE RUDE RUDE!!! on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:00 AM
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Becky

 
It's ok Shanna......I'm in the same situation and it sucks. Keep your head up.
I support you 100%!
 
Posted by Becky on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:00 AM
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☠ Ⓑ@яⒷ!ə☠☻/
Why so Serious

 
dont wory girl be happy .... am sorry ur going through all this crap and it really sucks that you have ur kids right in the middle of this ...but you will be ok , just put all ur troubles away .

 
Posted by ☠ Ⓑ@яⒷ!ə☠☻/ on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:00 AM
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CeLiNa
TeAm CrUz

 
im sorry shanna. like yourself i have been in and out of relationships with my kids dad. it just doesnt get any easier, u are the bigger person and just being there for your kids is all u need to do, children are a gift from god and if u take care of his gift then he will reward u. u have many rewards coming to u.
stay sweet
 
Posted by CeLiNa on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:00 AM
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AURARISMA

 
You are so beautiful .. and I so love the way you put it out there those nasty-ites with class girl xoxoxoo Rock On xoxoxxoxoxo


Love Love Love ya!


Tina
 
Posted by AURARISMA on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:01 AM
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☮ love, happiness.
Jennifer M

 
damn!
 
Posted by ☮ love, happiness. on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:01 AM
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*dAwNy*

 
I dont know how you do it, being in the public eye. I couldnt do it. I give you major props!! Hold your head up eye, fuck the haters and remain true to who you are!! Everyone knows you are a beautiful person inside and out.. whoever thinks other wise is just jealous!!
 
Posted by *dAwNy* on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:01 AM
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*~*Carly*~*
Carly Johnson

 
Hang in there you know the truth and nothings else matters, you have an amazing family just look at them and everything will work out!
 
Posted by *~*Carly*~* on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:01 AM
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ღHσℓℓϒ™

 
Aww Shanna, I am so sorry. While my life as a single mother is much more private, it still hurts like hell when the other parent and/or their friends/family (and in your case, the media), make the pathetic attempt to bash our abilities as a mother. I would never believe what the press has to say anyway, but I'm glad u were able to reveal your side. STAY strong...
 
Posted by ღHσℓℓϒ™ on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:01 AM
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Lace

 
So true Shanna! We support you 100% - lots of love!!! Lacey
 
Posted by Lace on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:01 AM
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Alexandreaaa
Alexx Alonzzo

 
People are so stupid.
Take care of yourself <3
 
Posted by Alexandreaaa on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:01 AM
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Miss Tiffany {R.I.P. Uncle David}

 
Speak up .... it's only fair.




People believe anything they read .... it's better to hear the truth : )
 
Posted by Miss Tiffany {R.I.P. Uncle David} on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:01 AM
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Jersey Girl

 
Today has been that kind of day, you are in my thoughts. This too will pass, you have so many people who love yo, never forget that.

 
Posted by Jersey Girl on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:01 AM
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HOT JEN

 
Stay Up Mama. I Totally Feel U Dude....& It's Just Words. People Like To Talk...I Dunno Why...Especially About Other Peoples Drama....It Makes Them Feel Better About Themselves.


Fuck 'em.




<3
 
Posted by HOT JEN on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:01 AM
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kaylee♥

 
good luck shanna, i hope everything works out for you! you're an amazing woman and i applaud you for being strong through these hard times =].

 
Posted by kaylee♥ on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:06 AM
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♥sHaNnA♥

 
AMEN, WHEN YOU HAVE KIDS THAT DOOR IS SLAM SHUT!!!
 
Posted by ♥sHaNnA♥ on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:06 AM
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☆★M.s. H.e.i.d.i.W.☮.☮.d.☆★

 
Being in the hollywood eye doesn't keep one from problems in life...It just sucks that when you are dealt the cards of life, its harder to cope because you have the press at your door and twisting everything around! We are all human, and only God can judge us on that day! No one else can!! Keep your head up! I can't even imagine how much harder things are to deal with, with assholes wanting to bank off you life and twist it around at that!
 
Posted by ☆★M.s. H.e.i.d.i.W.☮.☮.d.☆★ on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:06 AM
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Lisakins

 
Fuck him. He's just like my ex. Manipulative, destructive, selfish. Deviant. Why don't guys just man up and end it rather than cheating, lying, and setting themselves up for a big blowout fight when they get caught? As far as all the trashy homewreckers, I've had my fair share of those in my own life and it all boils down to this: you have something they want. Bottom line. And with some women, nothing will stand in their way when they want something be it a designer bag, a great job, or your man. These women are usually competetive, spoiled, and have minimal self esteem. They, like your man, enjoy the thrill of the chase. The risk factors. The adrenaline rush. Losers.

 
Posted by Lisakins on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:06 AM
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Tara
Tara Stang

 
Its really no one bussiness about what happened!
 
Posted by Tara on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:06 AM
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Dale the Primetime Hitman
Dale Jones

 
You are the bigger person in all this drama. Do not let all the pathetic haters stopping you from being Shanna and going where you want to go in life. You are a beautiful woman and a great mother. No one can take that away from you.

 
Posted by Dale the Primetime Hitman on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:14 AM
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M♥NICA~"BoSs LaDy"~

 
For some odd reason people find amusement in those that are in the spot light on a daily basis.I feel it is expected due to your celebrity status when appropriate,not in a situation like this.Why do people forget that you are human and life is happening along side your career???I can't ever understand how "that story" becomes more important than the lives of the ones behind it.
I respect you for being the bigger person and turning the other cheek.It must be very difficult at times when your parenting is being attacked.I also can't understand how you have become the bad person when in fact you had good reason to do what you did.
Are you supposed to act like everything is fine and move on because of your celebrity status???I can't imagine how anyone can actually believe that is what you should have done.We know anyone who knew you stayed would have something to say about that as well.Either way you can't win....I don't envy your position as I know it is heart breaking along with demeaning.I believe you are a strong woman and can handle this with pure class and dignity.I wish you well in your daily life and I hope you don't let them bring you down.Always keep your head up and stand behind what you believe and know is true.Don't ever let them know they have won in anyway.You know you are a good mom and you know you were a good wife and despite all your efforts it just didn't work.Have love and forgiveness in your heart and you will be happier in your daily life....let the talk be talk and if all else fails give them something to talk about...LOL...Keep your head up.I will pray for you and I truly hope you find some way to not let it affect you so much.
Remember those that matter most are the only ones that matter now and forever.It's what they think that makes or breaks you not the public and there clouded vision(by money)...Take Care and Peace Be With You Always <3
 
Posted by M♥NICA~"BoSs LaDy"~ on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:18 AM
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Michelle
Michelle Warner

 
Awww, honey, I am soooo sorry you have to go through all this BS. God, I think if I were in your shoes, with all the fame, I would just never read or watch ANYTHING that reported on my life!! God how miserable it must be to have to see and hear that crap day in and day out. Good lord. Shoot, I would probably buy myself a damn island somewhere, and build a house on it, away from all the Paranas of the world and it would come equip with a boat, a plane, a vehicle that is totally blacked out, and a celeb look-a-like, to get where my ass wherever it needed to go.
Anyway girl, I love you, keep your head up and know amongst all the shady ass people out there, there are a million more that love you like crazzzzzzzzzzy!!!!!!!!!! xoxoxoxoxooxoxoxoxooxoooooooo
 
Posted by Michelle on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:41 AM
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Lorsie

 
he's unbelievably pathetic. youre a beautiful, wonderful woman and he doesnt deserve to be a part of ur life in a romantic way ever again. he needs to grow the fuck up. its way past time for that. he's got to learn to treat women with some fucking respect or else sooner or later no one's gonna want him. he made a huge mistake by treating you like that. he's never going to find another woman as amazing as you and i sincerly mean that shanna. ive been through this type of situation before with infedelity and if you ever need someone to talk to im around.

 
Posted by Lorsie on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:41 AM
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Tiffiny

 
You are for sure a human being and I am sorry for all that you go through. I mean you know you are going to be in the public eye but if they are going to write about you then they need to get their facts straight first. That is why I love that you put it in your blog....these are your words and all the words that are needed. You and Travis are an awesome couple. I so miss your show and you have the cutest kids ever....aside of mine. :) Stay strong and only speak to strong people.

 
Posted by Tiffiny on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:42 AM
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{xo~erin~xo}
Erin Huerta

 
I know it bugs you, but you can't let the press & bullshit get to you. You & your kids no your a great mom so who cares what others think. I have been a big fan of yours no matter what anyone says about you! Stay up & don't let them get you down.

 
Posted by {xo~erin~xo} on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 6:42 AM
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*Kona Kissed*

 
I hope you find ALL the happiness you truly deserve Shanna.
~Stay Blessed :)
 
Posted by *Kona Kissed* on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 7:02 AM
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Travis Barkers Biggest Fan
Familia Reyes

 
I for one have always thought you have taken the more classier approach when you have been bashed by people and I truly admire you for that. A lot of people don't realize what its like to have a husband that's gone all the time, and that alone takes a toll on a marriage. Been there done that and I'm still doing it...Its a constant struggle and being in the public eye makes it no easier for you, especially when you've been thru as much as you have in the past year or so. You are strong...keep being strong because in the end only you two know the truth. You seem to be a wonderful, vibrant and loving person, so don't let whomever is doing this to you get you down mama...sending lots of love xoxoxo
 
Posted by Travis Barkers Biggest Fan on Thursday, April 02, 2009 - 7:02 AM
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