It is good to have friends who are of use to you. Yeah this sounds selfish but its true. I've realized tonight that everyone I feel concern for can benefit me as well, in many different ways. Yeah, this might sound sleazy, but that is why we have friends, so they can better our lives, enhance our minds. At least this is why I've made  friends during life. When a bunch of guys hang out and and do nothing, at least they are hanging out and doing nothing together. I don't really like doing nothing, myself, but people that do nothing need others that enjoy this activity too. Something just might happen in their case, who knows.  And yes, maybe what I do is nothing, but to me it is very important. Maybe nothing is important. It is not really about what is important, because who can honestly judge that, it's all is irelevant.. Your mental health will improve if you think you're doing something, when maybe your not. This delusion gives you a drive to work harder. And it is also cool to have friends around to contribute "nothing" to the cause as well.