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Wednesday, June 03, 2009 

Characteristics of Sociopathic/Psychopathic Personality Disorder.


A psychopath is usually a charming, subtle manipulator. They do this by playing to the emotions of others. They typically have high verbal intelligence, but they lack what is commonly referred to as "emotional intelligence". They don't learn from these consequences and seem to react with feelings and regret when they are caught. But their regret is not so much for other people as it is for the consequences that their behaviour has had on them, their freedom, their resources and their so called "friends." Often sexually promiscuous with difficulty in engaging within long term emotional relationships. A psychopath engages in relationships for self-gain or self-gratification even when it seems like they are caring for and helping others.
More often than not, the typical psychopath will seem particularly agreeable and make a distinctly positive impression when he is first encountered. Alert and friendly in his attitude, he is easy to talk with and seems to have a good many genuine interests. There is nothing at all odd or queer about him, and in every respect he tends to embody the concept of a well-adjusted, happy person. Nor does he, on the other hand, seem to be artificially exerting himself like one who is covering up or who wants to sell you a bill of goods. He would seldom be confused with the professional backslapper or someone who is trying to ingratiate himself for a concealed purpose.He looks like the real thing.
Very often indications of good sense and sound reasoning will emerge, and one is likely to feel soon after meeting him that this normal and pleasant person is also one with -high abilities. Psychometric tests also very frequently show him of superior intelligence. More than the average person, he is likely to seem free from social or emotional impediments, from the minor distortions, peculiarities, and awkwardness...." Although they may tell stories that should be unbelievable, they have a knack for doing so in a way that causes intelligent people to believe them. However, some may peg them as overly slick or insincere, alerted by the psychopath’s use of excessive flattery to manipulate people.
Signs of psychopathic behaviour within a working environment
Babiak and Hare argue that psychopaths in a working environment follow a predictable script that involves pawns, patrons and patsies (people who can be manipulated easily). Psychopaths recruit pawns such as lower-ranking employees or peers, whom they can manipulate. The manipulation can involve doing the psychopath’s work or it can involve inducing a peer to engage in conflict with another employee. Much like Max von Sydow’s Leland Gaunt in the Stephen King film, Needful Things, psychopaths may tell one colleague one thing and a second colleague another, setting each against the other.
Patrons are higher-level managers whom the psychopath wins over, convincing them that he, the psychopath, is ethical, enthusiastic, creative and hardworking. The patsies are former pawns and patrons whom the psychopath may have betrayed before to test gullibility. Frequently, psychopaths are expert at grasping others’ psychological needs and weaknesses. This psychological competence enables the psychopath to engage in manipulation in which they take pleasure. Because the psychopath seems charming to higher ups and to many co-workers, he can undermine accusations that begin to develop.
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These class of individuals who have been around forever and who are found in every race, culture, society and walk of life. Everybody has met these people, been deceived and manipulated by them, and forced to live with or repair the damage they have wrought. Often charming—but always deadly—their hallmark is a stunning lack of conscience; their game is self-gratification at the other person's expense. Willing to use and abuse others to achieve their ends, and they are inclined to blame others, including their victims, for their problems and bad behaviour.





The Implicit Order

 
This is right on the point.  I sense people like this when I am around them... it's that "gut feeling" (instinct) that almost always alerts me because they are hard to spot due to their cunning.
To me it's as if they peer into your mind. It's always good to spot an intruder....

 
Posted by The Implicit Order on Thursday, June 04, 2009 - 1:05 PM
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Clock DVA( official )
Clock DVA

 
Unfortunately or more accurately stupidly my lack of instinct and forgiveness allowed two such personalities into my work along with the "patsies". Sadly then I had not met my very knowledgeable,instinctual wife and collaborator Jane who spots psychological traits very quickly and accurately, "glaringly obvious,you fool"  has been her words to me over the years and the consequences of my blind generosity too.

                                                                                                                                             Adi Newton.


 
Posted by Clock DVA( official ) on Thursday, June 04, 2009 - 1:31 PM
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Lyre

 
i despise the phsychopaths, but I loathe the pawns and patrons more. The worst are patsies who remain loyal pawns and patrons. They're like nasty hob goblins, trolls and orcs. Heaven is a cave away from them all, and awareness is a life raft with some comfort in it when the wisdom is in presence of mind for guidance.
 
Posted by Lyre on Friday, August 21, 2009 - 8:45 PM
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TymexPyres

 
Psychopaths will drain their chaotic energy faster than the influx. It is,unfortunately, a bad wake that lays behind them as their life flickers violently out.
 
Posted by TymexPyres on Tuesday, September 22, 2009 - 9:57 AM
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