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Status: Married
State: MICHIGAN
Country: US
Signup Date: 11/21/2005
Tuesday, December 19, 2006 
it is a rocky road. 
not always roller coaster.
more of a rocking back and forth
between calm and upheaval.
but it is just as unpleasant as
the roller coaster.
it is not fun,
but it is getting better.
i think.
 
i have to RETHINK things
that have been locked up
and sealed inside my head.
now i have to take them out,
look at them,
and decide if i want them or not,
if they hurt me instead of help me.
decide if they are what lay
dormant and rot
and make my life a living hell.
 
and then decide what
i want to believe
and instill it in my mind
just as strong and fast
as the lies i want to throw away.
and hold on to them
and never let them go.

and just as my little rocking chair
i hold dear
sitting at the end of the lane
waiting
i wait in my rocking chair of life,
waiting
to come home.


 
Hazel...eyes

 

I can totally relate to this... although.. my "rocking chair" was the one that I thought I would be setting in along side my husband... never did I think that he would be the one to put me there...,meaning that some days I hurt so badly,... that I have to remain seated.

I lived and was married to a verbally and physically abusive man for 16 years.. actally, I am still marrried.. not quite divorced yet.   Not the obvious abuser.,. the one that cuts you with words and then when you turn to walk away.. he makes sure that you can't.. I didnt have the obvious bruises.. at least not out on the open bruises.. they were on my soul.,. I have been apart from him for 14 months now and it is still hard... there are times that I just can't shake the feelings I have for him (still).. I did not get married ... to get divorced.... so I stayed for long toooo long..

Anyway.. I liked this.. so I thought I would let you know!  Merry Christmas and Happy New Year


 
Posted by Hazel...eyes on Saturday, December 23, 2006 - 1:44 PM
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