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Mallory Henson


Last Updated: 3/17/2009

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Gender: Female
Status: In a Relationship
Age: 22
Sign: Pisces

City: Rochester
State: New York
Country: US
Signup Date: 9/22/2004

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Tuesday, July 25, 2006 

So often I find belief to be a difficult thing, so solemn and small, so elusive.  It's hard to remember a a reason to have faith when the beauty in your world subsides suddenly, and life slows down to the ticking of the clock in seconds, the unbearable passing of time.  (Alone.)  It's easy to speak, to imagine I know what I'm saying, that it all makes sense, and that I mean every line from the heart.  But it doesn't all fall quite that way from my mouth.  What it comes down to most often is confusion, regret, uncertainty.  The lesser stages of my life.  I've got to move on.  

What I would hope for is unattainable, irrational, a whisper instead of a scream.  What I dream of is love in full bloom, and awakening to find a garden full of withered thoughts is disheartening.  I haven't begun to truly look because my eyes keep catching on everything he was to me, everything so perfectly carved away to fit his words.  There was a comfort in them, and thinking that the beauty, the same looseness, could be found in another is nearly unimaginable. 

There is a future with someone else.  I tell myself that.  There is another love, something strong that will not shatter under the pressure, will not crumble inside the emotions.  Something to excite me, thrill me, leave me breathless and full of life.  What I have seen is lonely, but what hides just out of sight is surely sweet.  Something to taste after the pain, to wash down the bitterness of this situation. 

There are, of course, the small things that carry me along (push, really) like the way a certain man says my name, smiles at me, brushes my shoulder or hand accidentally when he walks by:  the nervousness of a new crush, something I'd forgotten.  A song that reminds me in the chorus that there is life after loss, smiles following tears.  Something so tiny keeps me going.  Each phrase, each new memory made, is a blessing.  This new life will make me wiser, more tolerant, and will help me build a deeper faith, a vast hope. 

Jared aka J BIG
Jared Bourland

 

Mallory, that was the most beautiful thing I have ever read. You took the words out of my heart and put them on paper. I don't know why I am commenting on this, but i felt so drawn to it that I just had to say something.

I wish I had the right words to assuage the pain you are so obviously feeling. But I do not. Nor will I sit here and fill this page up with empty words. I can only tell you that it is ok. If he couldn't keep you, then he didn't deserve you. Spend time finding out what you like about you. You are defining yourself by what you think other people would like. Believe me, i know what i am talking about. For the better part of my life, i have been acting. I was so deathly afraid of being alone for my whole life, i would pretty much prostitute my emotions out. Then, invariably, some girl liked the show I was putting on , then I would finally get what i convinced myelf I needed. You see, I based everything about myself on what other people liked. During those times, when i was alone, I could not bear to look into a mirror. There might as well have not been a reflection, because I had not idea who I was. I never spent the time to realize, that no matter how hard i tried to make people like me, it really didn't matter. I finally realized that this person everyone is looking at, is a figment of my imagination. But realizing there is a problem is only the first step. I was so wrapped up in this altered state of my own reality, I didn't even go any farther than having an epiphany that I hated who i was. Then we come to the real problem between Sonya and I. Just listen, i have a point here. When I met her, it was during my time of self discovery. I still had no idea what I wantedin life, but I was busy finding out. I was not sure about being with her, but I thought, it beats being alone. But something, didn't feel right with her. Through no fault of her own, mind you. I know you guys think I am an ass, but I can sum all of this in to one phrase. She met me at the wrong time in my life, and vice versa. I can talk till i am blue in the face about it, but I do believe I love her in some sense, but then again maybe I don't But the funny things is, I had to break someones heart before i finally realized what I want and who i want.

My point to all of this babeling is this. Mallory, you are a beautiful person, in and out. I am so sorry you are hurting right now. But no one said the path to a beautiful life is easy. Please, don't lose faith in that. The right guy will come along and see how beautiful you are, and realize that you are a beautiful person. Im sorry if this message is extremely retarded, but I felt some urge to write it. Kepp your chin up and your eyes open, he's out there.

Jared


 


 
Posted by Jared aka J BIG on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 8:15 AM
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