I Feel ya' , I come from a simular situation...( My Mom did it ALL !! ) ....Every one has pain inside , just keep do'n what u'r do'n ...find a positive way to cope with it Cuz' it will always be there ( inside u )...Move 4ward and keep smile'n Babe , Ur a Beautiful WO mAN...!!!!!!....;)
 

i feel you! u ra very strong,beautiful,black queen! i thank u very much 4 inspiring me 2 be strong! u r amazing!xoxo,karma
 

this is a beutyiful tribute to your mom she must be proud of you that no matter what you been through you always leaned on her as your backbone..... they say when a woman is not told she is beautiful by her father, they believe they are ugly
 

I WROTE THIS LAST YEAR 3/31/08.......ING I LOVE YOU.... PEACE........DEAR INGA....I SEND THIS LETTER TO YOU....OH FOXY BROWN ....YOU WERE ON MY MIND ....I WAS THINKING ABOUT YOU....DEAR INGA....HERE’S A HUG FROM ME....HERE’S A BIG HUG TO YOU....YOU COULD CRY ....YOU COULD CRY ....YOU COULD CRY ON ME!............LET ME TAKE YOU BACK TO 88....HIGH TOP NO DREAD LOCKS....NIKEY AIR TOPS....BOOM BOX TURN IT UP A NOTCH....BIG BROTHER RICH SMOKING RIFA ON THE BLOCK....NEIGHBORS OUTSIDE SO THEY CALLED THE COPS ........FROM THE WINDOW PHYLLIS ANNE USE TO SIT AND WATCH....THAT’S THE SAME YEAR I MET THIS GIRL NAME FOX ....THAT’S THE REASON I KEEP HER ON MY TOP....I AINT STRESSING NOBODY BUT I SURELY....UNDERSTAND THIS HALF TRINI, HALF YANKEE,....SHORTY JUST LIKE ME....LITTLE GIRL NO FATHER , ....SINGLE MOTHER WITH BROTHERS....MAN, YOU DON’T KNOW THE HALF ........2 MS. MARCHAND YES I UNDERSTAND....FOXY ALWAYS HAD AN ISSUE AS A LITTLE GIRL....NONE OF THE OTHER LITTLE GIRLS LIKED HER....B4 THE ILL NANA ....B4 THE BENZ THE GUCCI AND THE PRADA ....SHE HAD SMOOTH SKIN LONG BLACK HAIR....GREW UP IN A WORLD FILLED WITH REJECTION........NOW DON’T GET ME WRONG, WE’RE ALL GROWN UPS....AND I’M NOT HERE TO DEFEND OR JUSTIFY ANYBODY ACTIONS....JUST LIKE MICHAEL AND CURTIS JACKSON....EVERYBODY GOT “ISSUES” INCLUDING OPRAH ....DON’T LET people fool ya ....TO THE WORLD HERE’S A KLENNEX TISSUE....NOW THE REAL QUESTION ....HOW WE SOLVE THIS ISSUE....LETS TAKE TIME OUT....EACH ONE OF US AND EVALUATE SELF, ....YOU THE JUDGE,....JUDGE YOURSELF....KILL THE DEMONS IN YOUR HEAD....LET THEM KNOW THEY GOTTA GO.... HERE’S A LITTLE MESSAGE....THE KEY TO LIFE IS FORGIVENESS ....MATTER A FACT JUST LET IT GO....OH YEAH........DEAR INGA....I SEND THIS LETTER TO YOU....OH FOXY BROWN ....YOU WERE ON MY MIND ....I WAS THINKING ABOUT YOU....DEAR INGA....HERE’S A HUG FROM ME....HERE’S A BIG HUG TO YOU....YOU COULD CRY ....YOU COULD CRY ....YOU COULD CRY ON ME!........DEAR INGA....I SEND THIS LETTER TO YOU....OH FOXY BROWN ....YOU WERE ON MY MIND ....I WAS THINKING ABOUT YOU....DEAR INGA....HERE’S A HUG FROM ME....HERE’S A HUG TO YOU....YOU COULD CRY ....YOU COULD CRY ....YOU COULD CRY ON ME!........
 

that is some real shit. too many black woman can tell a similar story...including myself. even as an adult i grapple with the effects of growing up in a fatherless home. but we just gotta keep it movin and help the little black girls around us so that they can be wiser than we once were. thanx for posting this.

 

That was deep, reeeealy deep. Touched me in ways I don't care to share with strangers on here but thank you so much for sharing those insightful words.