You talk to your sweetie everyday – about politics, life, the weather – but do you speak their language of love?

According to Dr. Gary Chapman, author and marriage counselor for more than 30 years, there are five love languages: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service and Physical Touch.

In his book “The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate” Chapman explains the languages of love in a friendly and humorous style, illustrating each “language” with real-life anecdotes from his counseling practice.

The book includes short questionnaires for you and your spouse to discover what really fills up your love tank. According to Chapman, “love is a choice and either partner can start the process today.”