My thoughts and hopes are with you.
You know you are strong.
Did you hear from Fareed about the URL?
 

Yes, and it's taken care of. Will follow what I can from here. Is always wonderful to hear from you!
 

Beloved, you are in my prayers; that you may be protected and blessed, that you will be healed, that no one should suffer abuse, violence, aggression, that G will heal our cultures and this world and bring us the peace that we all truly want.

May you be blessed and may your children learn the ultimate lessons and be forever the purest love.

Ana behebbek



1 AMor
 

My children will be leaving me for 2 and 1/2 months this summer to go with their father to Jordan. I am terrified at the thought of them being away that long.. and know that it is only a tatse of what's to come in the future.. I try not to let them see how much it upsets me.. I want to travel to Palestine to be with them for at least part of that time but can't afford the ticket as my income stops with the end of the school year.. I read your blog and felt a connection from over the sea.. May Allah give us both strength to endure what was, is now, and what is to come.. and may there be ease along our paths and our children's paths..
 

I want you to know that I feel for you and what you're going through, and you have my prayer and my hope that you have not only good luck, but that things work out for the best for you and your children. I can't imagine my child's fate being dictated by a law, that may or may not be in the best interest of the children. But perhaps, no matter what happens, you can make the best of the situation, and remain close to them and a positive influence in their lives. I suffered greatly in my divorce. Not just from the loss of love, but the tearing apart of the family and having to divide the time with my daughter when I wanted to be with her always. So I made sure that things were of the best circumstances possible between me and my daughter, me and my ex wife, and so on. That way the transition was always as smooth as humanly possible, and I was welcome to visit, eat with, etc, whenever I wanted to. And of course when I had my daughter with me, I extended the same invitation to my ex. After the dust of the divorce settled and cleared, the sacrifice paid off, and my daughter is outstanding and is shared equally, without any spite or game playing, between me and my ex. I know that every situation can't be so easily obtained, but perhaps if you are faced with this painful separation, you can convey to the grandparents that you respect Islamic law, and you appreciate and respect them taking part in raising your children, but that it is terribly difficult for you. And that the pain that you are feeling is not towards them, but just the fact that you will tremendously miss your kids. And that you are hoping that they will respect and honor you and your feelings. Maybe they can do their best to make the transition for you and the kids as easy as possible and more importantly have the best interest of the needs of the children. Either way, if you need anything, or just to talk, please don't hesitate to ask. I wish you and your children the best, and I pray that things will turn out fine for all of you. Take good care of yourself. No matter what happens, your children want and need a healthy mother. A hug and lots of love and warm wishes to you.
Your Friend Always,
Joe
 

You are in my prayers.
 

Allah is with the Patient. In troubled times hold on to patience inshallah.

Not sure where you are living now however a muslim is subject to the law of the land, thus if your children are in the USA maybe you can find help through the courst syste. As far as I was aware its a dads responsibilityto maintain the children. And when they are mature ( of age) then they should ideally be with the father. There are no hard n fast rules except that you will be subject to the law of the country in which you married.

Ma salams
 

My sister, welcome to our Ministry. You and what you are going through with your children, you are not alone!!!

The wisdom you are meant to endure. One day He will return them. I waited 10 years to have a few months with my son and continued to wait and still do. It is the ultimate sacrafice. I bleed for them with cervical cancer. I feel your pain. I understand your struggle and I/we are always here for you. The greatest gift you can give in your struggle is to be a blessing where ever you are at in your life. Your beauty, and education, and intelligence is a gift. There are so many moms who are in your struggle abroad and in U.S. This issue is real and needs women like you and like I... please visit www.brokenmoms.com ... and know that we are here for you. To help, or be a soft shoulder for you, to work with you... and to stand with you.

Be well, with love Founder, Liana Preble Broken Moms Healing Ministry
Numbers 6:24-26
الاعداد 6:24-26

24 The LORD bless you, and keep you;
24 الرب ان يبارك لكم ، وتبقى أنت ؛

25 The LORD make His face shine on you, And be gracious to you;
25 الرب جعل وجهة يلمع عليك ، وتكون الكريمه لكم ؛


26 The LORD lift up His countenance on you, And give you peace.
26 الرب انتشال على انك صاحب الطلعه ، واعطيكم السلام
 

After every hardship comes ease.

Ma salams.
 

I Know You Have Prayed For Things To Change. Do Not Be Dismayed. RAMAN Is The MOST MERCIFUL...HIS Mercy Extends Beyond All Bounds Of Mercy, Beyond Any Mercy Any Man (Male Or Female).

As I Know You Have Already Decided, For It Is Easy To See That You Love To Write, Be Sure To Write Your Children. Be Sure To Do Things! The Best Cure For The Aching Heart Is Adventure. Do Not Sit In Your Misery, Do Not Bind Yourself To The World Based On Your Immediate Surroundings! Travel...Do What You Can To See The World Our LORD Has Made. This Will Give You Many Things To Write To Your Children About.

Keep Them Posted And Interested On Who You Are! Inspire Them With Your Endevors. See That A Time Will Come When Your Children Will Grow And Have Their Own Test Of Faith (Burdens) To Deal With. Our LORD Is Preparing You For Something! Now You Grieve, But In The Future You Will Be Greatful Of The Lessons Learned From Your Grief.

As It Is When Learning The Divine Messages Of Our LORD (HIS SCRIPTURE) The Best Of Knowledge Is Learned Through Actually Living. Our LORD Is The CREATOR Of Life; It Is Through Life That HE Teaches Us.

As HE Has Made HIS Creation From The Earth, HE Plants In Us The Seed Of Knowledge, It Is By Faith That We Water This Seed. From This Seed HE Brings Forth The Fruits Of HIS Wisdom. With The Fruits Of HIS Wisdom We Are Then Able To Feed Others. See That Sometimes Tilling The Soil Is Rough! In Other Words, Sometimes We Must Face Hard Times.

To Get Nothing Is Easy, To Gain Everything That Is Truly Valuable Is Always Hard! (No Woman Gives Birth Without Going Through Labor...Right?)

Hold To Your Faith. With The Appreciation Of Our LORD Face The World. Travel As Far As You Can Go.

Our LORD Is GREATNESS UNBOUND! HE Has No Beginning And No End!

May Our LORD Bestow Upon You HIS Guiding Light, So That You May See Clear HIS Signs.

A-Salaam.