Why do we do it?

Does having a status make you better, more stable…I don't see how it can.

So many are under the impression that it's what they need to have; like a new pair of shoes that only you know are new.

We spend more time rationalizing the reasons why being with someone is better than being alone which can only end up badly.  I figure that things have their time and place…yeah you can probably miss out in one or two things here and there waiting but at least when it does come around then you really work on it.

You can have a life filled with different people all with their own good and bad things that you will used as a set of comparison for later dates and relationships but is it better to have those comparisons or is it better to not know.  Its all rather relative don't you think?

I guess at the end there is no right or wrong way to be in a relationship.  You still get the good and the bad that comes with it.  But it comes to a point when you have to question what you want…wait for the right one or settle for the right now.  Either way the choices are made everyday by different people and what others see and what really is are so far from the truth it's scary. Victims of "LIFE"….the right education….the right job…the right car…right house…right clothing….the right friends….etc. 

There is no right….like there is no spoon….its all relative and optional.  You want it…go get it…u don't like it…then change it…and on and on.  Everyone can be in a relationship…that's the easy part.  Choosing to be in a relationship with your heart, body and mind it's an entirely different story.  That can take a lifetime. 

So next time when you are standing at the edge just think and decide…..get on or wait for the next one that comes in 15 minutes.  Either way you look at it you are still there by the edge ready for the ride.