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Sarah Stanton


Last Updated: 12/21/2009

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Gender: Female
Status: Single
Age: 18
Sign: Capricorn

City: Wonderland
State: London and South East
Country: UK
Signup Date: 8/21/2008
March 27, 2009 - Friday 

Current mood:  blah
Isn't strange how someone's simple words can have a huge impact on you.
I constantly get told by people, people that I don't even know, that I'm fat, have a 'jew' nose, weird teeth and other nasty remarks and after a certain amount of time, you can easily start to believe what they're saying is true. However, they don't even know me as a person, therefore they can only speak of what they see on youtube, youtube isn't completely 'me', it's just one 2D side they see, not 'the other side of me' - (no don't start singing Hannah Montana')
I've learnt to ignore the haters, they just want attention. If you answer back to them, then you're giving them what they want. Ignoring is the best option.
I know that I'm not fat. I'm not skinny either, but i have a 'normal' or 'average' BMI reading so I'm most certainly not overweight. at that's a doctors opinion, so people calling me fat, just makes them look uneducated and unaware of what they're actually saying.
Okay, i'll admit i don't have the nicest nose in the world, but giving me and insult like 'jew nose' is an insult to jews, let alone to me. Just because someone isn't perfect, doesn't mean you have to pick up on and magnify their flaws. It's pointless. just because they have lower self esteem, doesn't mean they should bring others down with them.
The reason I bring this up is because someone i know 'laura' < you know who you are (if you're reading this) Not an 'IRL' person....haha, anyway, someone told her she ate too much....WHAT BUSINESS IS ITOF THEIRS ?!? She can eat what she wants to. No one can tell her otherwise. People say I eat a lot and I just think...you don't even know me?!? I mean really, truly, you don't. So what, I show stuff to the camera 'sweets from heaven' 'chocolate' 'waffles' it doesn't mean I eat all of it or any of it for that matter. you don't know what i eat, you can't judge me, you don't even know me. Anyway, back to laura.....
Laura, carrying on eating what you want to. Okay, so maybe lower the junk food if you eat loads but, you're a dancer right? You're getting exercise, I've met you and you seem the perfect weight for your height and all. Ignore them, they know nothing. if we listened to what everyone had to say, we would never get any where in life.
Okay?
some people can be complete idiots.
>.<

Sarah
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grαce.

 
sarah!


wow.



this.is.so.true.

 
Posted by grαce. on March 27, 2009 - Friday - 4:31 PM
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charlotte.

 
Agreed!

I get a lot of hater comments. I've learned to not take them as much to heart as I used to, but sometimes it does make me wonder if YouTube is even worth all the hassle & hurt it causes.


I get told I'm ''way too skinny'' and should stuff a burger in my face. I can't help that I'm skinny.


I'm naturally athletic and I'm a street dancer, I dance everyday for at least four hours, thats without the breakdancing classes I take, so I just naturally burn off all the fat. No big deal. I get told I need braces..that sometimes my make up is too heavy..that my hairstyle is 'out of date'. Makes me sick to think people get a kick out of hurting other people by those kind of remarks.


Sarah, I know it and you know it, you're definitely not fat. You're NO where near! You're healthy and as long as you're happy then [sorry] fuck everybody else!! You are you, and if they can't except that, then they're not even worth mentioning. As for Laura, HECK I eat 24/7. No joke, I'm -always- eating.
Nothing wrong with liking your food - and I'm a dancer too, we both like our foods yet we get a decent amount of exercise, so it just burns away anyway! To heck with all these people, I never used to believe it when my parents told me but now I think I do - They're Just Jealous!!

xxx
 
Posted by charlotte. on March 27, 2009 - Friday - 4:32 PM
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Dave Wright
Dave Wright

 
We live in a world full of people that are competing against each other to be the best. It really doesn't matter what they are best at, as long as they are recognized as being the best, or perhaps the fist.

Why such a competitive spirit?

Oh, hard to say... probably they didn't get enough attention when they were younger... perhaps they are overcompensating for some other deficiency in their life. The bottom line is that in their effort to bring attention to themselves they put down others. By doing this they attempt to diminish others in the hopes that all the negative attention will be heaped upon them so that they can be associated with the positive attention. As you and I both know however, often this works in reverse, and makes them feel worse, more deficient and repeats the cycle.

It is childish and immature, but I think to some degree we all do it from time to time. The trick is to not let it get to you too much when somone does it to you, and to stop yourself when you think you are doing it to someone else. Only then can the cycle be broken and we can all realize that we are truly equal.

Keep your chin up and don't let the cruelty of others get you down. After all, you are just fine the way you are... even that nose you seem to despise so much even though it looks so absolutely cute on you. To hell with anyone who says otherwise. :)

Keep up the vlogging... it is fun to see what randomness you will come up with next.
 
 
Posted by Dave Wright on May 7, 2009 - Thursday - 4:56 PM
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