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Carrie Ware


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Gender: Female
Status: Single
Age: 16
Sign: Pisces

City: Road to
Country: MA
Signup Date: 12/1/2005
Wednesday, November 07, 2007 

Current mood:  aggravated
Category: Religion and Philosophy

testimonies, convictions, purity, holiness, godliness...ect.  those words brings back the worst memories imaginable.  and it shouldnt be that way.  it reminds me of peru.  i went on a six week mission trip to peru this summer, by myself.  it reminds me of having to fake my way through those 6 weeks grudginly.  testimony is another word for "look how great i am i was lost before christ, but now, look how near perfect...god has made me!" cause you know they have to through in those words to sound more holy.  i had to pretend i was a "super christian" for six weeks.  those were the most complicated weeks of my life.  and im a girl, ive had a lot of complicated weeks.  lol.  it didnt start out with me faking it.at first, i told everybody what i really thought when they said something i disagreed with. but that changed in a hurry when they practically told me i was evil and was going to hell for thinking like that.  so what if im not the missionary type.  so what if i dont spend every single minute of every single day praying. thats just obsesive.  god gave us our life to have fun and do our own thing AND worship him.  i mean how boring whould life be!  and you know what, thats not evil.  why would god have made so many other things if worshiping him is what he wanted us to fill up every single minute of our day with!  one of the kids in peru would hardly ever sleep cause he was reading the bible all night.  it was a "conviction" sent from god.  see, now i dont beleive that.  each one of them sat and told their tale about how god had changed their life and made them the amazing person they are today.  it made me sick.  and i love how i HAD to tell mine too.  or they would lecture me about how i had to share it to be a strong christian.  but just being with the orphans and seeing them smile.  showing them gods love with a smile and a hug, not speaching about it was what made the trip worth while.  the words i mentioned earlier remind me of lake arrowhead christian school too.  the staff practically thinks im the anti-christ.  man, they did everything in their power to crush me.  to mold me into something more or what they thought was a "godly" image. and it didnt work.  i won.  thank god i dont have to go back.  congradulations on showing the love of christ.  im still me and im always gonna be me.  most christians give you advice or correct you not out of love, but out of pride.  the christian school staff were THE most hurtfull people i have ever come in contact with.  (of coarse theyre are always some that you just gotta love though)  i would never want to take my life as seriously as them!  i NEVER will!  you know what i think?  i think thats a bunch of bologne.  im so dang dead set agaist "christians"which means "little christ"and yet, i love jesus with all my heart.  but everyone gets so caught up in the image of being a christian.i think "christians" as a generalization are a bunch of hypocrites.  the only reason most people worship christ is so theyre sure they can get into heavan.the christians ive run into have made my life a living hell.  if thats how a christian is.  i say fuck it.  seriously, fuck it.  yep, and i know you might think thatim going to hell for saying it.  im never gonna be like them, even if i wanted to. im not a christian.  cause i dont want to be identified with that.  but i know that god has made this world.i know hes made me.  i know that everything and everyone i come in comtact with is sent from him.  everyday is a gift.  and i know that.  and i love him for it.  so so much.  why cant some people understand that.  am i the only one in this world that thinks that?!

(remember, not every christian that ive ever come in comtact with is like that.  man, some if you guys i love to death. some people love god for all the right reasons, and do all the right things in showing that.  lifehouse, for the most part, has been the greatest experience of my life.  it is possible to have a healthy balance.  and some of you succeed quit nicely. =p)

"I like your Christ. I do not like your Christains. They are so unlike your Christ." -Gahndi 

The Eyes of a Dreamer

 
I once heard a Christian Speaker who said he was going to write a book called "I love God, it's Christians I can't stand".
 
Posted by The Eyes of a Dreamer on Wednesday, November 07, 2007 - 2:58 PM
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Idiot Savant

 
They may not be your friends but they sure as hell arn't your enemies. Remeber that.
 
Posted by Idiot Savant on Wednesday, November 07, 2007 - 3:40 PM
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Sparkling with Joy!
Sam Fox

 
Carrie I completely understand where your coming from. There are people who Talk the Talk but don't walk the walk. I know it is aggravating to come into contact with those people because you know without a doubt who Jesus Christ is and that your living for him and you experience the Love of him everyday, but those people who say they are Christians and don't live it, they are truly missing out on the Joy that those only who follow Christ Know. I am sorry that you have had to come into contact with so many of them, and that why God made you the way you are! So you show them that being a Christian isn't about having a religion it is a RELATIONSHIP with Jesus Christ. It is not about Good deeds, and what you do here on earth it is about Knowing God like Your best friend, Closer than a best friend. In the end those people have to face God, alone. You can be an example of having a relationship with God even though you broken and make mistakes. Because your human like all of us. That is the Beauty of Christ, he loves us no matter our flaws and he is the person we can completely honest with and not Have him spread a rumor, or tell everybody. He will Keep it forever because you are his Gorgeous Beloved Daughter!! And he knows your heart inside out! So Carrie please don't completely shut down Christianity because it is not about the other people and how they act, you set the example of a real, authentic Jesus Freak!! I understand because when I talk about my faith to friends they automatically think I'm like them all. The Hypocrites of the church body that Give the authentic ones a bad name. But it is our job to show the truth, and the real Christians who come to God being broken and who are willing to serve him with their hearts all the way. You do not have to be "super Christian" to share a testimony. You Just be the Beautiful Carrie God made you!! It turns people off when you try seem perfect, when people can tell. You just show the grace and the love (like you did for the orphans) that attracted you to Christ! Carrie I am just so prod of the Marvelous person you are!! Your heart for God just radiates through that smile of yours! Keep Living the way your living and don't let anyone Compromise you!! Continue to seek God's best in your life! You don't have to read the bible 24/7 but you do need to read it often. If you don't have a bible like a study bible that you cannot understand. Please give me a call and I hook you up with a great bible just for you. I hope you doing well sweety and Continue to Stay on the narrow path. I love you!!
<3Sam
 
Posted by Sparkling with Joy! on Wednesday, November 07, 2007 - 4:44 PM
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♪♫Troy♪♫

 
Amen sister! I feel the exact same way, Ive just never really thought about it so much. But that is so true, why cant we just be regular who love Christ and not have to dedicate our entire to reading the Bible and praying. I belive that we should live our lives for Him but that doesnt mean we have to sit in a corner 24/7 praying and reading the Bible. I give you kudos Carrie! Kudos, kudos for Carrie!
 
Posted by ♪♫Troy♪♫ on Wednesday, November 07, 2007 - 6:29 PM
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GIDGET
Kristine Turner

 
You pritty much said it all.....amen
 
Posted by GIDGET on Wednesday, November 07, 2007 - 8:05 PM
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☮Jackie

 
I think its ausome that you have stepped out and just flat out said it!!!not most christians who feel that way say it and make it clear cause they would think that they would be rejected by the "fake" christians...i feel that way, and i feel that if i said it to the people that i go to school with all the time that i would be the ''none christian" loner cause at the christian school they judge you so much!!!you are pressured every day to be perfect, and i am sick of it!!!!most christian people i really do hate because they are like that on a daily basis...that is what happens to children who grow up in L.A.C.S!!!practically all the people who go there are like that
 
Posted by ☮Jackie on Wednesday, November 07, 2007 - 11:52 PM
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☮ Freakin Steen

 
wow u head the nail on the head. i pretty much have always felt the way you do. i yes alot of "uh huh"'s and "yeps" while reading this. you are sooo right..or we are. and lotsa other ppls
 
Posted by ☮ Freakin Steen on Thursday, November 08, 2007 - 12:28 AM
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Me and little e

 
Carrie, I am 55 years old and wish I thought things out like you. You are wise beyond your years, I wonder some of the same things myself. My beliefs are precious to me, but they are also private as I am a private person. I try to show with my deeds but feel uncomfortable calling myself a Christian also. I mess up every day and don't want to drag Jesus's name in the mud. It is like the people I see driving with the bumper stickers that proclaim their faith and cut people off in traffic etc. I encourage you not to lose heart, but keep on asking questions. You and a lot of the young people at Lifehouse are heroes to me.
 
Posted by Me and little e on Thursday, November 08, 2007 - 12:50 AM
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Dolly

 
You hit the nail on the head, my dear. I feel exactly the same! In fact, I was just having a conversation about this subject yesterday with my mom, haha. She's kind of gotten all "Soul Sista" (lol) and I told her I couldnt call myself a Christian because I dont want people to associate me with the general population of "Christians" because I find them hypocritical. I reassured her that I still love and praise God with the same zeal I always have, but I disagree with many aspects of "Christian" behavior, just like you. You're one wise lady, and I'm glad you've found such clarity spiritually.
Love and Peace,
Lo
 
Posted by Dolly on Monday, November 12, 2007 - 12:19 AM
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nina♫nina♫ballerina
Katrina Cavarno

 
i love you girlie. and i love how you write. its so true; i totally understand what you mean and can appreciate every word because im at a stupid christian school. its not real. its not life. god is so much bigger than they realize because they are so fixated on being perfect. i love you so much. if you ever need anyone to talk to, i am always here for you babe.
 
Posted by nina♫nina♫ballerina on Thursday, November 15, 2007 - 3:50 AM
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angie
Angie Marcacci

 
i know u didnt have the greatest time in the world in peru...but i hope that u werent fake with me...i hope u felt like u could be yourself with me...not everyone there was hypocrits...i know i wasnt...i thought i was ur best friend there...
 
Posted by angie on Friday, November 30, 2007 - 10:54 PM
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Aaron
Aaron Rabenstein

 
i agree that most people in our world our hypocrites, and christians can be the worst type.

god probably hates them for being so judgemental and convicting.
he never told his disiples to shove him down their throat.
 
Posted by Aaron on Wednesday, January 02, 2008 - 8:59 AM
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Carlene

 
Carrie you know the meaning to each of those words...GOD'S MEANING not ours. There is no such thing as a "super Christian" they don't exist. We make mistakes daily but we are trying to be like Christ. It is a hard thing to ask but God asks it of us, WITH HIS HELP. We can't do it on our own. and when we make mistakes we learn from them and even use them to help others through their mistakes, mentor them in a way. Just because you don't agree with someone doesn't mean that you are evil. That means you have an oppinion. You may be called to be a missionary to your own friends, not africa. When God says "pray" he doesn't mean that he wants you on your knees every 5 minutes. He just wants you to talk to him...In your mine, out loud, whatever he just wants to hear you and know that he still matters to you. (remember he is a jealous God) When you say have fun, what do you mean? if you mean enjoy your life within God's will the most definitely YES!!! he wants you to be happy but his is a more meaningful and deeper happy than what the world offers. The world tells you that worshiping God is boring and no fun and living a Christian life is being sheltered...I dont' think so. You can worship God in many ways but its what is in your HEART that matters and shows through to him. and believe me he is looking right into your heart. even the dark corners that no one else knows (that is always a freaky feeling to me). You're right there are many people that CLAIM to be Christians (ALOT) but they really aren't. I don't want to be that way at all. I'm so scared that I will mess up and end up like that. So I'm trying work on making myself into what a Christian should be. Im sorry I'm writing alot :(. Ya know what though? even though the name "Christian" has a bad name. We can still change that. there is still time but its up to us. we don't have to conform to this world in order change it. :) I really hope I didn't come across as prideful carrie. If I did I'm really sorry, that isn't want God wants of me and I know I mess up EVERY SINGLE day but for some odd reason he still tries to work with me. :) Anyway I hope what I said made some sense and helped a little bit.
 
Posted by Carlene on Wednesday, March 05, 2008 - 6:19 AM
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MELODYX

 
Just be a woman of faith that believes the bible. Follow God because he is all you need.
:)
 
Posted by MELODYX on Wednesday, March 11, 2009 - 5:19 AM
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мaddie☼

 
I am glad I got out of that school when I did. They change peoples thinking and teach them to be facades of Christians when deep down inside i am sure they feel the same exact way as you. I agree completely.
 
 
Posted by мaddie☼ on Wednesday, May 06, 2009 - 4:28 AM
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