I would describe myself as a simple person, humbly confident yet timid.  Very friendly, honest and always willing to listen and be open minded to different opinions and perspectives. I am extremely patient but yet can get easily distracted from bullsh*t.  If something grabs my attention, its worth being attentive to.  I've met many great men and women in my life who have shaped me and encouraged spiritual growth from within.  Those who continue to be in my life I am loyal to, and respectful to and deeply love.  I think many of us try to hold on to unhealthy relationships, whether it be friends, love interests, family, or associates. 
We hope that the person we once knew or thought we knew can change.  It's the unhealthy relationships, that handicap our ability to establish healthy ones.  At my age, I've grown, learned, and lived.  I've come to the conclusion that true friends are not to be segregated by race, age, social or political background, or sexuality, but should be separated by character.  I've heard a great man who changed the civil rights movement mention "one should be judged by their character, & not by the color of their skin".
The new year is coming up and this year is coming to an end.  I've already made my decision who is worth keeping near and close to my heart and in my life.  The beautiful men and women I call friends that are a part of my life, I would gladly do anything for.  I love them that much and they would return the favor.  Just knowing that there are people out there who exists that love you with such sincerity, makes trying to succeed and be the best person you can, that much more inspiring. 
Its when you're at the lowest point in your life, and you find that many of the people who claimed they cared about you disappear...
is when those left remaining in your presence, are those worth having in your life.  I believe this is my determining factor of who I should be surrounded by...
 
Cheers for 2008 into 2009 and beyond
Melange Lavonne