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Gender: Female
Status: Divorced
Age: 29
Sign: Capricorn

City: London
State: London and South East
Country: UK
Signup Date: 12/6/2005
Monday, November 19, 2007 

Current mood:  blank
Category: Romance and Relationships

This is a quick short blog based on a conversation I just had with a friend.

My friend (Theresa) lives with her guy friend (Tommy). She rents a room from him. They live together in a two bedroom house in Manchester.

Tommy has a girlfriend that he has been going out with for the past 8 months, lets call her Melinda. Melinda has an 8 year old little girl and they come up to Manchester every other weekend to visit.

Melinda and Tommy are kinda serious. So serious that Melinda suggested to Tommy that they move in together. Somehow a misunderstanding occured and Melinda was under the impression that Tommy wanted her to move in with him.

Melinda told Tommy that she wanted to move out of London and up to Manchester and Tommy had been all for it, not realising that she wanted to move in with him.

Fastforward to the point where Melinda has packed up her stuff and moved her kid out of school. It was only just before the big move that the misunderstanding came to light. Melinda was furious but accepted Tommy's offer to rent out another flat that he owns which has two bedrooms.

Due to the fact that she wasn't going to be moving in with Tommy, Melinda brought with her a female friend to Manchester to live with her in the two bedroom flat. Both jobless on arrival my friend Theresa hooked Melinda's friend up with a job, however Melinda remains jobless to date.

Now Theresa and Tommy have a history together. Although they are just friends at the moment, at one point (a few years back) there was something more.

So Teresa and I were just talking and we both couldn't get why the chick would sleep over their place almost every day with her kid but still Tommy couldn't commit to moving in with her properly? What kind of sense does that make?

And for Melinda, how on earth does it make sense to move halfway across the country for your man and he is shacked up with another woman? Is it just me or does this not make sense AT ALL?

Why couldn't he move in with Melinda and rent the other place to Theresa?

Theresa told me that she feels uncomfortable being there as she knows that Melinda doesn't want her there, plus with the kid making noise for hours on end and the both of them taking over the whole house, the situation is doing her head in, however Tommy is as happy as Larry with the arrangement.

Melinda on the other hand wants to start planning a family as soon as possible and is putting the pressure on Tommy. Tommy claims he is not ready yet, but doesn't want to let her go because he is in his late 30's and she MIGHT be the one.What the frigg is that about? Melinda has requested that Tommy throw Theresa out to make room for the kid and he has refused, saying that he will never throw a friend out. However Theresa has told him she can move and he doesn't want her to.

I personally think that perhaps he still has the hots for Theresa. Only recently he made a drunken pass at her,after which they had a fumble and a snog. When I asked her if he still had the hots for her she claimed that it was "nothing" and that he was "just drunk."

Or perhaps he has just got himself in deeper than he wanted with this chick (what with her totally leaving behind her whole life for him) and is using Theresa as an excuse to not let the relationship progress. I guess some people don't like being alone and will stick with someone their heart is not really with until something better comes along.

If you were Melinda how would you feel? Would you have moved halfway across the country when you realised that you were not going to be living in the same place as your man?

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♥ ANGEL of the SUN aka Miss G ♥

 
NO, NO, NO, NO, NO AND NO!!!!!!!

Ok, I admit that I am a sucker for sweet talkers and men that give me the illusion of Love but no way would I move all that way just to live (or in the case, not to live) with him!

If she wanted to move to Manchester anyhow, then it's all good...But, moving your child out of school and her home just to be closer to your lover/boyfriend is a VERY bad move!!!

If I had been under the impression that he wanted to live as a family, I would have gone for it but I would have made sure that was the plan before making changes back at home!
 
Posted by ♥ ANGEL of the SUN aka Miss G ♥ on Saturday, November 17, 2007 - 23:25
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Ms Beautiful Soul

 
TO ADD EXTRA PERSEPCTIVE:

Theresa has been living with Tommy for 2 years.

Theresa is not lusting after Tommy. She really isn't into him like that TRUST ME!

the living arrangement works and is cheap, as she is now a student that is important, although if there is any drama she will move.
 
Posted by Ms Beautiful Soul on Monday, November 19, 2007 - 10:08
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Ms Beautiful Soul

 
He claims that she was saying she wants a change of scenery and then suggested moving up there. Somehow she thought they would be living together and that is what she was banking on. He had other plans.
 
Posted by Ms Beautiful Soul on Saturday, November 17, 2007 - 23:30
[Reply to this] 
THE Rex

 
How do I feel? Betrayed. Belittled. Bewildered. Beleaguered...
 
Posted by THE Rex on Saturday, November 17, 2007 - 23:55
[Reply to this] 
Ms Beautiful Soul

 
The four B's...
 
Posted by Ms Beautiful Soul on Saturday, November 17, 2007 - 23:56
[Reply to this] 
THE Rex

 
Of course, to answer the question I had to really reach down and channel my inner woman...
 
Posted by THE Rex on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 0:00
[Reply to this] 
Sheryl

 
I would not move half way around a country to live with a man that is sharing a home with another female. He seems like he is not sure about his relationship and that he is possibly taking her for a ride. She is his safety net. If he does not find someone else, she will be the one for him.

He made a drunken pass at your friend. Well, drinking just removes your inhibitions anyway, so he was able to say what he wanted to say and have an excuse at the same time.
 
Posted by Sheryl on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 0:02
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Ms Beautiful Soul

 
I think he still wants her so is hedging his bets on that maybe she wants the same thing to. However they never spoke about it after that night, so maybe it was just what it was.

With regards to MElinda I think he is strining her along but now he has got himself in deep because she has moved away from her family, taken her kid out of school so there will be no escaping for him now!
 
Posted by Ms Beautiful Soul on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 0:07
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ABORTION PARTY!

 
if I was Melinda, I would be hella pissed and DUMP THAT GUY!!!! I will NOT let my man live with his ex girlfriend or any woman for that matter, while I struggle to find a place somewhere else!! What a jerk and a dumb piece of shit !!! Melinda needs to dump that cunt !!
 
Posted by ABORTION PARTY! on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 0:15
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Ms Beautiful Soul

 
Theresa was never his girlfriend. They fooled around and became friends.
I do think its strange she should rent some other place out... Looks like they aren't meant for each other!
 
Posted by Ms Beautiful Soul on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 0:28
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hands off the cherry coke zero

 
Melinda should move on. I don't think Tommy will ever commit to her, and he seems to be juggling women, even if it's platonic and all.
 
Posted by hands off the cherry coke zero on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 0:16
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Ms Beautiful Soul

 
He doesn't have any other women he is seeing and he really was into Melinda until she got full on...
 
Posted by Ms Beautiful Soul on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 0:27
[Reply to this] 
.

 
living with any FEMALE you AINT known for years is DUMB period for any guy.

infact living with any female you aint involved with is also STUPID

the guy deserves what ever comes of it cos he aint got game enough to know he should NOT let the left hand know what the right hand is doing.

this is real life not home and away or neighbours or hollyoaks if a girl is in MY YARD she is droppin her draws

PERIOD
know the levels
 
Posted by . on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 0:29
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Ms Beautiful Soul

 
They are not living as sex partners so the dropping of drawers is unnecessary... He is renting the room out to her.
 
Posted by Ms Beautiful Soul on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 0:39
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Blade

 
Yeah Right? and Im the Space Cowboy!
Nobody knows what Theresa and Tommy are up to except Theresa and Tommy.
As for Melinda what does she think she's doing to her child for chrissake!
 
Posted by Blade on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 21:00
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La Magnifico

 
Lies, deceits and greed!

Melinda, Theresa and Tommy; the three of them are dishonest people!

What happened to a woman's intuition? Melinda must have known that Tommy was not keen on marrying her but she belongs to the crop of women who believe they can teleguide a man and make up his mind for him.

Melinda appears to be insincere and selfish. She has no love in her for nobody, she doesn't love her child and neither does she love Tommy. If she really truly loved Tommy, she would not have moved lock, stock and barrels to a place 3 hours away from home; to then have him shacking up with another woman.

She would also not have dislocated her daughter too for the sake of a half-arsed relationship that has no promise, with a man. I guess that 'cos she has not been in a job, even whilst in London, she sees Tommy as a meal ticket, after all the welfare benefit they pay out in London is no different from what they pay in Manchester!

Your friend, Theresa fancies Tommy but she is not being honest with you, secretly, she wants something to happen between Tommy and herself.

When the little thing happened herself and Tommy, she said Tommy was drunk, was she drunk too?

You will soon find out that they had been doing stuff together before Melinda relocated and her presence is now a hinderance to their regular escapade; that's what's doing her head in and not the noise of the child ... c'mmon, how much noise can a lil' kid on her own make? :-)

I also presume that Theresa hasn't got a boyfriend and neither has Tommy a regular girlfriend, or did you just choose not to bring them into the picture? :-)

She was not serious about wanting to move out of the address 'cos if she was, she wouldn't have needed Tommy's permission to move out. All she needed to do was find another accommodation and give her notice to quit to Tommy, period.

Tommy on the other hand is a cheap guy, he wants to eat his cake and have it without any commitment, he is also heartless 'cos any rational thinking guy would have been scared stiff of Melinda's psycho move and stopped have any sexual intercourse with her just to make his position crystal clear!

The three of them deserve each other, I only feel sorry for the little child. It will all end in tears, especially for your friend if she's secretly hoping that it will happen between herself and Tommy, I don't see him settling with any of these two, nope! :-)
 
Posted by La Magnifico on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 0:52
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Adeline

 
If i was Melinda, i would definitely be uncomfortable with my man shacking up with another woman. I'de feel horribly betrayed to find out that i wasn't the only one and him being indesisive. so i'de tell him how i feel by sharing my broken with him. then leave for it to heal. this whole thing sounds twisted. sounds like somebody's gonna get hurt if not all involved. may the whole situation be fixed some how if it can.

You know love can cause one to do some crazy things. like move ya child outta school and relocating to be a family with that special one. I don't see how he misunderstood her wanting to come to live with him. Him being 30 and holding on to her because she might be the one, you'd think he picked up on that.
 
Posted by Adeline on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 2:02
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Lorraine C. Ladish, Author

 
I´ll say this for whatever it´s worth: women frequently project on a guy whatever we want him to be ... and whatever we want him to want from us, to include ... the fairytale.
So ... Melinda (the one with the kid) has probably done that: projected Mr. Right on Tommy. And as is common, he is not Mr. Right for her ...
The rest is a soap opera that happens a lot in real life ....
But to each his own.
MUAH
 
Posted by Lorraine C. Ladish, Author on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 2:54
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The Very Mr. Benedict

 
From my experience of living with friends (of an kind - but in my case, just friends), DLHB-ism typically occurs and if this Theresa chick is not an obvious threat to Melinda, Melinda will make her a threat. This is already evident from how she's trying to get Tommy to turf her out.

Tommy, from the get-go, was unclear anyway. How did it get to the point that she got the kid out of school and moved to Manchester. Its not like he wasn't aware of her progress in the move. She must've said something and at which point, he should have told her "hold up, I aint ready for all that yet, what I meant was come over for a little minute, change of scenery, you know, just to chill out". WTF? he basically let it get too far/deep.

And as for the snogging, clearly he still has some feelings for Theresa. And if not active feelings, he aint really into Melinda as much as he thinks. Too many times people "settle" which is what he's doing.
 
Posted by The Very Mr. Benedict on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 7:19
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The Very Mr. Benedict

 
Oh and talking about the noise of the child, if you ain't ready for all that yet, it will do your head in, especially if it's someone else' kid. Tommy needs to polish up. Al Theresa wanted was a place to rent. As a tenant, she cant be subjected to that isht (spelling mistake, I know) cos she's paying her rent, right?

I dont really hold blame with Theresa regardless if they "snogged".

Melinda was presumptuous, probably forceful. I'm sure she could tell deep down that it wasn't a wise move. Wide eyed and idealistic is what she was. Engage your inner voice Melinda!

Tommy was just weak and didn't let his true feelings be known to Melinda regarding the move.

So all-in-all, Melinda should feel silly, after which, dry her tears, move back home, re-instate the back back into school and take it from there. As for leaving him, that's something she needs to see for herself that he's just "settling" for her.
 
Posted by The Very Mr. Benedict on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 7:31
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President of the United States of Anthony
Anthony Taurus

 
TOMMY IS FUCKING UP! Tommy should have cleared shit up from jump. Who the fuck moves across country with no plan in sight? Tommy knew what she wanted. He changed his mind at the last minute. Either that or he's a dumb ass and bein in his late 30s, he shouldn't admit to that cuz that's just fuckin sad.

Theresa is a fool if she continues to stay. She needs to figure out what she's putting ahead of her own peace and again figure out if it's worth the trouble now and in the future.

Melinda is over-fuckin-bearing. She is obviously pushing HER world onto this guy. These are the type of women that will never be able to keep a guy unless the guy is fuckin dumb ass which holds true in this case.

If I were Melinda, I'd wake the fuck up! Get a damn job. SMACK THE SHIT OUTTA TOMMY. Proceed to move on with my life. Like I said, Tommy either knows what he's doing or he's a dumb ass. In any case, nobody should mess with someone who's either manipulative or a dumb ass.
 
Posted by President of the United States of Anthony on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 8:31
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James-Emil
James-Emil Davis

 
Obviously the chick doesn't know about Tommy and Teresa having a History, bcos Im sure she would have given him an earfull of shit about that!
 
Posted by James-Emil on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 9:19
[Reply to this] 
.

 
ill say it again as you ladies clearly have un genuine male friends that REALLY only wanna fuck you

IF YOU LIVE IN A YARD WITH A GUY HE WILL BONE YOU OR TRY TO AND IT IS HEADACHE ON BOTH SIDES

making it official with renting etc etc means nothing

remember these words

STANDING COCK TAKES NO PRISONERS

mix up like this is why jerry springer and jeremy kyle have such big carears cos people dont know how to run their life without MIX UP like this
 
Posted by . on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 12:15
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Chris

 
This story is unreal.. but so is life!!! Melinda is too sad for words..no way should she be THINKING let alone palnning another baby. Her child is already in the mix of a big MESS.

Sexytron - what is it with guys who cannot be FREINDS only.. in this 21st century why must sex be on the table at all times. I agree it can come up as an issue but surely it is not possible to fancy/shag all the guys u meet on life's road.. therfore soem will end up as friends with no privileges..
 
Posted by Chris on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 12:36
[Reply to this] 
.

 
im not saying guys and girls cant be friends but you cant seriously tell me that this scenario dont come out of a bit of NAIVETTE.

your a man and got ya crib and got a girl living in ya crib dont blame me or men blame their dicks who knows but what i do know is this bare them things in mind when you wanna get serious cos aint no way a girl for example im WITH is staying in a next mans crib and saying IM her man unless she wants me to demote her to a LINK rather than a partner.

dont do shit like that unless the girl is BUTTERSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS and completely unattractive to the point that even the devil wont want her.

its harsh but its real talk.
 
Posted by . on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 18:26
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Diana
Diana Henning

 
That's crazy. Are you sure you didn't see this on a soap opera?

There's no way in Sam's Hell I would move across the country for a man and live in a different place. I would have made sure to make it very clear about that. But Love makes you do stupid and foolish things.
 
Posted by Diana on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 18:43
[Reply to this] 
.

 
ill also add this girl that has the kid is DESPERATE how you moving your child out of school for a relationship that is only been for 8 months, my son is eight so im talking from a realistic stand point and THAT is lame and pathetic and this girl must of DIVED in love rather than fell in love. imagine ME taking my son out of school to move to a next area in country just for ONE WOMAN not to mention i been with her for 8 months lmfao i shouldnt laugh but come on fam. If i even suggested that to my mother she would back hand me for slipping so bad this is girl has obviously been at the last chance saloon when it comes to men for years and she should learn to love herself and her child first before she jumps in some puppy love with some dude.
 
Posted by . on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 19:31
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Sacred Yoli
Sacred Yoli

 
Bottom line: He is just not that into her. (I know a cliche that we women, tend to ignore)

He probably isn't ready to play daddy to her child either. She needs to move on and if he is really into her, he will follow. Pressure does not work at all.

But that is just my humble opinion.
 
Posted by Sacred Yoli on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 20:59
[Reply to this] 
Adam

 
Why doesn't Theresa move out?
Surely thatwould be the best thing for them all?
No offence to your friend but really , unless she has more than friendship invested there are plenty of other places to rent.
 
Posted by Adam on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 21:20
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Empress Esk

 
this may have been one of your best stories to date..
everyone's comments had me howling .. ie she lost her damn mind!!
But SEXYTRON'S perspective hit home best to me..

She is deluded and desperate and isn't thinking of her and child best interests.. and no man in his "right mind" will allow what happened to happen ie allowing her to move clean across the country only to tell her there was some misunderstanding?!!! can anyone say DUH?!!! ... and they just been together 8 months, and he has feelings or prior dealing with his flatmate..and they just messed about the other day .. DA FUCK?!! All of them are crazy.
 
Posted by Empress Esk on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 22:34
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Osare*

 
One or both women should get out of town real quick. Though, I really couldn't say which? The boy-man doesn't want to decide, and he's getting it easy...
 
Posted by Osare* on Sunday, November 18, 2007 - 23:25
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Ms. Lendel

 
I have the same problem it sounds like Melinda has... LIVE IN REALITY. NOT A FANTASY. If it don't look like a duck... then don't name it a duck. Always let a man ASK YOU... cuz otherwise.. they either deny that was the direction they were headed in...or say that you forced it on him.

It looks like bottom line that he is not that into Melinda and that she is all into him.. she MUST change her ways.. move somewhere else and FIND A NEW LOVE.
that's it that's all.

:)

sorry to break it down.. but the dude is just not that into her.. even if he does say he is just not sure.. fuck that.. he has had time to be sure.. LEAVE MELINDA.. you want me to book the trip for you?

Don't sit there and wait.. if he wanted you... he would have let you in.. or moved to you.

I think I am alittle mad about this blog.. let me take a breather and a cup of tea.
 
Posted by Ms. Lendel on Monday, November 19, 2007 - 1:24
[Reply to this] 
~Dark Empress~

 
Preach!!!! I am with you sista!
 
Posted by ~Dark Empress~ on Monday, November 19, 2007 - 16:58
[Reply to this] 
.

 
i dont rate this guy either he can see this girl is going all out for him and he is just kicking back watching and not paying attention when your GIRL talks you should PAY ATTENTION or tell her shut up cos at the time it feels like waffle dont come with no UMMM's AND AHHH'S and OKAY HUN just for a peaceful life it will be your downfall TRUSS ME ON THAT. guys when you got a girl keep ANY potential fuck buddie or someone that likes you FAR FAR FAR AWAY girls do the same with your men if you mix your friends and partners like this its the same as mixing chemicals and it WILL blow up in ya face.
 
Posted by . on Monday, November 19, 2007 - 11:15
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GIGI JAMES

 
Move wha'?!? Is she blinking mad?! I'm not moving one rass until AFTER the Wedding night! What kind of example is that for her young impressionable daughter? Shacking up with a guy that just may not work out? Sorry - call me old fashioned, but I ain't trying to be anybody's arse either.

Tell Teresa go take the other flat and Tommy owes her a year's worth of free rent for the aggravation!

xoxoxo
 
Posted by GIGI JAMES on Monday, November 19, 2007 - 16:17
[Reply to this] 
Lord Of Kingz
Rajesh Dixon

 
She definitely didn't go about that one right ... but makes are made to be learned from
 
Posted by Lord Of Kingz on Monday, November 19, 2007 - 19:30
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Int'l Stells...Daaarlings

 
simple. HE WOULDNT BE MY MAN AND I"D BE MOVING BACK TO LONDON.
regardless..why do you move halfway across the country (w kid in tow..) when ure not getting married? just a quick one???
 
Posted by Int'l Stells...Daaarlings on Monday, November 19, 2007 - 20:45
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charlotte madeline

 
I would say no to those questions.
However, after living with my boyfriend of 2 years for the past 8 or 9 months, I would not recommend it. BUT on the other hand, this couple IS older and seems to be closer to actually being ready for the cohabiting thing. Especially since they have a child together.

The whole story sounds like a circus ring drama! I wish everyone the best of luck...
 
Posted by charlotte madeline on Monday, November 19, 2007 - 23:21
[Reply to this] 
Ms Beautiful Soul

 
No they don't have a child together. SHE has a child!
 
Posted by Ms Beautiful Soul on Tuesday, November 20, 2007 - 7:32
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◄Girly~Panama►
Girly Panama

 
NO way. Its crazy to move that far only to NOT live with your man but visit him and his female roommate daily. Makes ZERO sense. But luv makes us blind to the truth
 
Posted by ◄Girly~Panama► on Tuesday, November 20, 2007 - 14:22
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MumbiLaaLaa

 
WOW. the comments are more intriguing than the actual story. Everyone has similar opinions but different perspectives. I loved Justin's and Sexytron's comments because they are most grounded in reality.

As for me...All three of them should stay where they are and keep doing what they are doing. They obviously love drama, don't have much common sense, and are desperate for something or other. The only problem is Melinda's kid. Poor kid. Melinda is the type of woman who puts men before her child's best interest. Those type of women always make me sad and angry and pissed. She should send her kid to a stable sibling or the grandparents until she gets her priorities straight.

Theresa is definitely the smartest of the bunch as she gets the best of all worlds...the guy is the most manipulative as he 'conveniently' spins situations to go fit his liking. All three are drama queens!

Great story! is this a real situation???
 
Posted by MumbiLaaLaa on Tuesday, November 20, 2007 - 18:02
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Ms Beautiful Soul

 
Yes it is real. Theresa and I were talking about the situation because we couldn't understand why the chick would move to go live somewhere else after uprootingg her whole life. I thought it made no sense and she had a little more sympathy for the girl, so I thought I would put it in a blog.
 
Posted by Ms Beautiful Soul on Tuesday, November 20, 2007 - 18:22
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ChocolateIce

 
Oh hell to da naw! I would not uproot my child like that. It seems that Tommy has some committment issues and he using Theresa as a "blocker". She needs to move on.
 
Posted by ChocolateIce on Wednesday, November 21, 2007 - 0:24
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.

 
things like THIS make me really wonder what kind of girl my son will try and bring home cos ill tell you straight if the parents are anything to go by he aint bring NO GIRL HOME unless i have extensive background checks on her and her parents and if i see they were like this my son can say bye to the girl at the gate cos no one "weh stay so" is comin in my yard amoungst the midst of MY HOME. its just not proper.
 
Posted by . on Wednesday, November 21, 2007 - 0:31
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LALANII.COM

 
"I guess some people don't like being alone and will stick with someone their heart is not really with until something better comes along".


Sucks tail but so true. It's the most selfish thing you can do to a person, but it's hard to say something better will EVER come along and one might have the best thing they are ever going to get. So it's fear that makes us selfish which makes things complicated because when you think about it SELFLESSLY and think about it emotionally no one ever wants to be alone and most will stand for someone who makes them a 'mediocre-happy' over nothing at all.

the trooooof kinda hurts a little. good blog. i'm finally catching up.
 
Posted by LALANII.COM on Wednesday, November 21, 2007 - 2:46
[Reply to this] 
.

 
^^^^ THAT is why a lot of guys (me included) have ended up shaggin girls that have boyfriends cos its MEDIOCRE as you put it i find it pathetic if your scared of being alone and have ANY relationship because of it your insecure and DONT love yourself. I thought women embraced the concept of waiting (sorry maybe im thinking about sex now) lmfao
 
Posted by . on Wednesday, November 21, 2007 - 11:40
[Reply to this] 
Ms Beautiful Soul

 
yes its well grim up NOoooooooorf! LOL
 
Posted by Ms Beautiful Soul on Wednesday, November 21, 2007 - 23:25
[Reply to this] 
My goodies are not on your menu.

 
I don't think he's ready to make a serious commitment to her and I hope she sees things for what they really are. I think you're right about still having some feelings for the other lady (Theresa).
 
Posted by My goodies are not on your menu. on Saturday, November 24, 2007 - 11:20
[Reply to this] 
Consultant

 
These are important questions...but they are loaded questions.....
They are questions based on morality and communication and life<myspace>style</myspace>
How would I feel if I was her........I don't know
How do I see the situation?

Complicated, dramatic, and emotional

It depends on what your asking us......... but it also depends on one's personal values and ethics

And WE all have different ways we look at love and friendship and life
 
Posted by Consultant on Sunday, November 25, 2007 - 19:23
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Mrs. Herbie

 
Your blog is very interesting, you should hold more discussions! I saw your comment on TCOO's conversational blog and thought yours was of interest, too.
 
Posted by Mrs. Herbie on Monday, November 26, 2007 - 23:13
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