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Gender: Female
Status: Single
Age: 29
Sign: Taurus

City: London
State: London and South East
Country: UK
Signup Date: 12/7/2005

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speedfreak (2)
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Saturday, November 11, 2006 

Current mood:  sad
Category: Life
Hey people,
Another installment just to keep this page interesting...
I just wanted to write this so i can let you know what's been going on in & around me...
Alot of you guys out there have been messaging me asking why i weren't at the electric proms with the Jaxx at the end of Oct?
You have been keeping in touch & just hollaing at me,showing me love but you've noticed i ain't been here for a while...
My Cousin Henrietta Lindiwe Ndebele passed away just over a month ago.
She was my BEST friend & more than a sister to me,the closest person in my family to me...
She died of an asthma attack & it was such a shock to the whole family as she was only 28 yrs.
I'm still hurting inside & not really sure what i'm doing in life at the mo...
The family always were proud of the both of us as we are the so called "famous ones" in the fam,she was a journalist & TV personality in her home country Zimbabwe.
She was loved by a nation saddened & shocked by her death yet she represented the country to the fullest in an ever changing so called 3rd world.
We used to joke about how one day she will have the exclusive first ever interview of me "The Singer Succes Story in Africa!" (her words not mine!) & how we wouldn't say we were related...
She would joke about how there was ALWAYS room for improvement with my voice! (the cheekyness runs high in the fam!)...
She was the sister i'll never have again & tears will always be flowing for her not being in my life anymore...
I've offen wondered what it's like on the other side & it's a shame i can't email my cousin now to ask & found out.
I know she's watching my every step & i pray that she helps me fulfill my dream & that i represent even more in the family cause it's only me left!
I wake up not knowing my one day to the next & it's killing me the thought that i'll NEVER see her again...
Only time can tell & will reveal my strengh,if i have any left.
You guys out there keep me going from day to day & knowing people like what i do is humbling.
I know we all know that some day we'll have to deal with the loss of someone dear to us but when it happens nothing prepares you for the pain.
Trying to carry on & hope i can live life to the fullest before it's my time.

If you are reading this,thank you for taking the time & i hope you guys live life to the fullest cause you just don't know what's around the corner...
Big up to the whole myspace crew for your paitance with me & i hope to see you guys in the Basement Jaxx tour coming end of Nov/begining Dec...
All of the Jaxx fam can't wait to see ya!
Much love....
V xx
2:41 AM
 
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speedfreak

 
sorry to hear about your bad news Vula, Hope you feel better as time passes darling...

speedfreak - www.forcefm.net

 
Posted by speedfreak on Saturday, November 11, 2006 - 4:15 AM
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Dan

 
Hi Vula, so sorry to hear your news. Hope you can stay strong and get through this difficult time. All your fans will be thinking of you.
 
Posted by Dan on Saturday, November 11, 2006 - 8:34 AM
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~*{ Katie }* ~

 

I have no words to say that would make this pain go away.

I lost my dad last year rather suddenly and i was a propa daddys girl! and i feel like that every day!

But as time goes by the pain goes away and you remember the funny things that happened instead of the anger and pain that you feel now!

Sendin ya love xXx


 
Posted by ~*{ Katie }* ~ on Saturday, November 11, 2006 - 4:08 PM
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Danny .S.™

 

Hi Vula,

Best way to start this is to answer your question - yes time is a healer. I know just how you are feeling, and i know that theres not a lot I, or any of your friends can do but be there if you need us, eventually you will feel yourself again, even if that seems hard to imagine now. I hope you've taken as much time out as you need to recoup - and when you're ready, I know you'll reach your ultimate dreams and make everyone proud.

As I said - if you need to talk, at any time - you know where i am.

Thinking of you...

 


 
Posted by Danny .S.™ on Saturday, November 11, 2006 - 8:25 PM
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4FLAVA

 

Hi V.... sorry to hear of your great loss...time is healer in truth..but she hasn't left you....she is with you whenever and wherever you need her..she csn see you pain and feel your tears..talk to her it will help ease the pain..x


 
Posted by 4FLAVA on Sunday, November 12, 2006 - 11:16 AM
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Clare evers

 
hi Vula.. I just want to send u huge love& strength. One thing is for sure, your cousin is soooo proud of u & with u every step of the way...take care hunny. hugelove, time will heal xxx
 
Posted by Clare evers on Tuesday, November 14, 2006 - 1:02 AM
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Simone Kaye

 

Hi Vula

Im so sorry to hear you sad news - Im sure you cuz will always be watching you and looking out for you in every thing that you do.  Stay strong and always stay positive in the way that you are.  Hope you are not feeling too low right now

Hugs

xxxx


 
Posted by Simone Kaye on Tuesday, November 14, 2006 - 5:38 PM
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♥ ANGEL of the SUN aka Miss G ♥

 
Hey Vula, came across your blog today...so sorry to hear about your cousin...

Time is a great healer...There are different ways of handling ascension...it's always a shock and takes time to deal with but try live life to the full now, not just for yourself but for your sista (cuz) too...

U will see her again and, like u said, she is watching u and also she is with U...I'm sure she is proud...

Stay strong! x.x.x

 
Posted by ♥ ANGEL of the SUN aka Miss G ♥ on Friday, November 17, 2006 - 1:10 PM
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BREAKBEAT UKSP ARTIST/NDUBZ DRUMMER/PRODUCER

 
Vu all i can say is keep your head up. Life is a journey that makes or breaks us. I know what its like to loose some1 close. Know that your in my prayers and that iron sharpneth iron xxxxxxx check my blog xxxx
 
Posted by BREAKBEAT UKSP ARTIST/NDUBZ DRUMMER/PRODUCER on Sunday, November 19, 2006 - 2:31 PM
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J-FREE

 

I'm sorry to here about your loss. Yes it is true that time is a healer. I hope that you will regain your strength and that you know in your heart that your cousin will always be there for you in spirit and that you have a purpose in life. You now know that through your dream, you too can fulfill hers as well. Your voice is her testament as well. Sing through your heart and you will give her a voice.

Be well my sister, praise God. I hope to here from you as well.

Yours truly Jeff


 
Posted by J-FREE on Friday, December 15, 2006 - 2:09 PM
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Oggie

 

Hey... i'm really sorry about your cousin.. your a lovely person, i'm sure she is by your side, watching you climb the ladder of success and feeling a BIG amount of pride for everything your accomplashing personally and professionally.

 

Much L

Oggie

 

Stay Safe x


 
Posted by Oggie on Saturday, December 16, 2006 - 2:10 PM
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Black Magic Records

 

Sorry for your loss homie....I too lost someone very special in October.

Keep your spirit up and let me take the opportunity to wish you a HAPPY NEW YEAR

Love

 

Mataya..x


 
Posted by Black Magic Records on Thursday, December 28, 2006 - 1:51 PM
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COOL MAMA
Cool Mama

 
Dear Vula, I can feel some of your pain. I've been in your situation and it's hard, but know that in time, this pain will be less painful. You must continue on in the way in which your cousin Henrietta is expecting you too! As you've said, she's watching you and she's most definitely smiling and will be there in spirit always, to help you through to the goals that you two have discussed and planned, she's counting on you to carry it forth into fruition.

We never understand why sometimes the ones we never want to leave us, have to go, but they do and we have to find it in our hearts and strength to accept what we don't know and understand sometimes. You speak of her in a way that let's me know, that she was a beautiful and spirited soul and she still is, only instead of it being in person, physically, she's truly in your heart spiritually. So, if you can, and I'm sure you can, continue on and make her proud. Remember to let your higher power guide you when you don't know what to do next, because it will see you through.

Peace & Love,

Robin

P.S. I've heard your song by way of DJ Driis, and I love your sound. So keep doing what it do, it definitely works. Hoping to hear more of Vula !!
 
Posted by COOL MAMA on Thursday, May 24, 2007 - 5:23 PM
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T Rex and Slademan

 
hey vula, was a pleasure to meet and jam alongside you
for the tahmac show at gibson guitar rooms...just read this thread and wanted to share my experience...last year we lost one of our greatest friends J Denzel who died suddenly at 28 years of age...it was a shock that was incomprehendible for a long time...it's been over a year now and still every day J goes through my mind but just as somebody else said, the pain slowly goes away and you manage to remember the fun and good times shared with these people...Although it's very sad, im eternally gratefull for having the chance to know J so well and share the experiences we had together....Clearly it's difficult but the transition will happen in due time....You should know that your cousin henrietta is watching everything you do and therfore its important that you stay strong and push forward on the path that you so naturally travel on..

When you were singing, it was making the hair on my neck stand up, you have the voice of an angel vula......keep doin the do and i look forward to crossing paths with you sometime in the future......Stay positive....

Dj Slademan
 
Posted by T Rex and Slademan on Wednesday, February 18, 2009 - 1:57 PM
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