Who Gives Kudos: (2) Aaaaaaron (2) TOXIC shock (2) (2) VaJason (2) (2) -Dallas- (2) Desi (2) honeybear (2) Seb (2) Mighty Rex (2) Einar (2)

		I'd say honesty is generally the better road to good policy.   Posted by on Thursday, January 11, 2007 - 5:55 PM [Reply to this]

	Inga	Yeah.. I should be harsh about the burgers, huh?   Posted by Inga on Friday, January 12, 2007 - 12:24 AM [Reply to this]

	Aaaaaaron Aaron Dietz	I don't know....  You pretend to like the burger once and then they keep making it that way and then you're 85 and you don't even know what a good burger tastes like anymore.   Posted by Aaaaaaron on Thursday, January 11, 2007 - 6:03 PM [Reply to this]

	Inga	But what if he's really proud of his burgers?   Posted by Inga on Friday, January 12, 2007 - 12:50 AM [Reply to this]

	Aaaaaaron Aaron Dietz	Then you get to become a bulemic!   Posted by Aaaaaaron on Friday, January 12, 2007 - 5:07 AM [Reply to this]

	Inga	I was going for part-time anorexic!   Posted by Inga on Friday, January 12, 2007 - 1:41 PM [Reply to this]

	Adam	Part time vegetarian?   Posted by Adam on Friday, January 12, 2007 - 3:57 PM [Reply to this]

	Inga	Mothing beats eating a dead cow... so:no   Posted by Inga on Friday, January 12, 2007 - 4:07 PM [Reply to this]

	Adam	Part time, as in: any time he cooks those burgers. And I don't understand what can be so bad about them - burgers are about the very easiest thing to make, if you get good mince from the butchers. If I can make great burgers - which I apparently do - then anyone can.   Posted by Adam on Friday, January 12, 2007 - 5:58 PM [Reply to this]

	TOXIC shock CErtIfIed Junkie Lush	Are things going ok with the new guy? This sounds like some good rules to live by!! Keep us posted!   Posted by TOXIC shock on Thursday, January 11, 2007 - 7:18 PM [Reply to this]

	Inga	Yes, everything is going great! The distance suck... but I think I'll live.   Posted by Inga on Friday, January 12, 2007 - 1:42 PM [Reply to this]

	VaJason	so wait-- you'll pretend to like his burger, but you WON'T pretend to like his sausage? this seems... i dunno... backwards somehow.   Posted by VaJason on Thursday, January 11, 2007 - 9:06 PM [Reply to this]

	Inga	hahaha! Yeah... You gotta be honest about the important stuff, right?   Posted by Inga on Friday, January 12, 2007 - 1:43 PM [Reply to this]

	Inga	I am the queen of crying. When my dad followed me to kindergarden the first day. he told the people working there that "If Inga cries, don't believe her. 75% of the time she is just being a dramaqueen".   The truth is it was 95% of the time. I was spoiled.   Posted by Inga on Friday, January 12, 2007 - 1:44 PM [Reply to this]

	-Dallas-	Sweet....lessons learned can be hard to practice but I'm glad to see that you are willing to submit yourself to the process of change. -Dallas-   Posted by -Dallas- on Thursday, January 11, 2007 - 10:33 PM [Reply to this]

	Inga	Nils actually lookedat this list yesterday and said "Haven you broken all of these already"... bastard   Posted by Inga on Friday, January 12, 2007 - 1:45 PM [Reply to this]

	Desi	i dunno, Inga... sounds like you'd have to deny your own feelings too much. the first two are keepers though. never force a guy to dance if he doesn't want to, and NEVER make fun of him in front of his friends. the rest is negotiable -- as long as you are communicating respectfully, you should be allowed to have your own feelings.   Posted by Desi on Thursday, January 11, 2007 - 11:12 PM [Reply to this]

	Inga	Yeah... teh dancing this especially. I know a lot of guys that hate that... I always say what I mean, even in settings I shouldn't. I should start vbeing more toughtfull.. or was it think before i talk?   Posted by Inga on Friday, January 12, 2007 - 1:46 PM [Reply to this]

	honeybear	oooh i love this list. i hope you have a good try at it. but...sometimes, you know when you have to fake it. girls... yes, you know what i mean. and the rest, honesty is the way to go.   Posted by honeybear on Friday, January 12, 2007 - 4:00 AM [Reply to this]

	Inga	But if you fake, they'll just keep doing it wrong? Right... I'll just b0oss around instead   hehe   Posted by Inga on Friday, January 12, 2007 - 1:47 PM [Reply to this]

	Adam	Perhaps not mention in a blog that you have to fake orgasms? And it's counterproductive anyways - if he doesn't care, then why fake an orgasm, and if he does care, then he'll want to know what he should be doing right.   Posted by Adam on Friday, January 12, 2007 - 3:59 PM [Reply to this]

	Inga	damn! You're right. Because I don't have humor.   Posted by Inga on Friday, January 12, 2007 - 4:06 PM [Reply to this]

	Seb	sweet!   Posted by Seb on Friday, January 12, 2007 - 11:50 PM [Reply to this]

	Inga	sweet!   Posted by Inga on Saturday, January 13, 2007 - 3:00 PM [Reply to this]

	Inga	Or maybe I should get a dog? Hm... in every movie the kids give the food they don't like to the dog. Yeah! I could be a kid in a movie.   Posted by Inga on Saturday, January 13, 2007 - 3:01 PM [Reply to this]

	Mighty Rex	This time I will leave a comment, and also jump around doing a special voodoo dance for Invocation of Inga Happiness and Well-Being. PS: never fake an orgasm.   Posted by Mighty Rex on Saturday, January 13, 2007 - 9:25 PM [Reply to this]

	Inga	I think it worked, cause I feel great!   Posted by Inga on Sunday, January 14, 2007 - 2:53 PM [Reply to this]

	Einar Einar Myklebust	All in all a very good list. And I agree fully on the orgasm thingie :-) Comunication on sex what works what is a turn off is very impeortant. I forget who stated it fyrst but it happends to be true. Whan things are going good and you are both happy the importance of sex in a relationship (as a glue that keeps you going) is about 10% when shit hits the fan and you disagree on big issues and argue a lot it becomes 90% :-) Ooo and dont lie on the burgers tell him how you like them done (just like sex)   Posted by Einar on Tuesday, January 16, 2007 - 5:35 PM [Reply to this]