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Gender: Female
Status: Single
Age: 40
Sign: Sagittarius

City: BATON ROUGE
State: Louisiana
Country: US
Signup Date: 11/12/2008

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Tuesday, October 13, 2009 

Category: News and Politics
I need to write about this, as I am appalled by what they call an "educational institution" in this corrupt state.

My story begins when I moved here from California with my son. He was eight years old at the time and had never attended a public school, I opted to either homeschool him or he attended only private schools. I found a wonderful private school here in Baton Rouge for him to begin third grade. After a while, he came to me and asked if he could go to public school. "Absolutely not" was my response. But he kept on me, as children do. He wanted to know what "a real school" was like. I gave in, kind of. I told him if he made honor roll two years in a row, he could attend a public school for one year. To my amazement, he held his end of the bargain, he studied before school, did extra credit, everything he could to achieve this dream of his.

August of his sixth grade year rolled around and it was time to enroll him at Woodlawn Middle School. I couldn't do it. He cried and reminded me of how hard he had worked and that "a deal is a deal". He was right. I had to keep my word. I told him I still expected him to make honor roll, or he was out of there. And he did, out of 1,000 children, he was one of 87! That statistic alone was disturbing enough for me.

One of the benefits of him attending this school, was that he could grow his hair long. He loved this and it grew long and very curly. He stuck out in school and everywhere we went due to his long, curly hair. Most adults hated it, including the staff at his school. they made horrible comments as they passed him in the halls, he sometimes came home in tears! I called the principal with my not so quiet complaints and she assured me she would speak with the staff and fix this. But the bullying from the staff did not stop and my son was tormented. In an effort to "tame" his blonde afro, he asked me if he could get dreadlocks. Two hundred dollars later, he went to school with dreaded hair. The abuse that he received from the staff was wretched! Remarks ranging from, "White people have no business wearing dreads" to "They didn't even do it right" to "You look ridiculous."

Once again, he came home in tears and we spent the entire night removing the two hundred dollar dreadlocks, not an easy task! My son was heartbroken, and I felt helpless.

Needless to say, I marched down to the principals office and told her how disgusted I was by these grown adults that "bullied" my child, when it is part of their job to protect him from things of this nature. I explained that if disciplinary action was not taken immediately, I would call every form of media in the area and explain that my son was the victim of racial discrimination at her school. The tone of her voice instantly softened and she assured she would take care of it. Chris came home that day with eight hand written apologies from the teachers that had a part in hurting my child.

In March of this year, the school office phoned me and said my son was having a breakdown and I needed to pick him up. I rushed to the school and removed him permanently. Too much had happened during his time there...kids getting arrested, fights in the cafeteria, drugs such as marijuana and Lortabs being dealt, and the constant teasing about his hair. Finally, he had had enough!

I opted to homeschool him for the rest of the year, but the Board of Education was not happy with this decision, you see, they needed him, as he was one of the very few good students in the system, a system that ranks one of the lowest in the country. They threatend to send social services after me. The day I returned form California after my grandmother's funeral, they did just that.

I was livid, as I have the right under both federal and state law to homeschool my child. This was harassment and I threatened to have the representative from social services arrested if they ever came on my property again. They never returned.

I would have let all this go, had I not had one of the worst experiences with any government agency as I did today. You see, my son came to me and told me he wanted to start working. He has a girlfriend now and they like to do things like go to the movies, eat out, etc. At fourteen years old, he has learned the value of a dollar and understands that we need to work for our money. A concept most people in this state can't seem to grasp, as a large part of the population in Louisiana and many other parts of the country are taught to take from the government, not pay into it. Handouts. Foodstamps. Welfare. It makes me sick, as a single mother I am eligible for all these things, but would rather work my ass off and pray that the money I am paying into the government is there if I ever truly need it, God forbid I ever needed disability or needed to collect social security one day.

My son went on his first interview last week and was set to start his new job yesterday. He showed up, excited to work only to be told he could come back only when he obtained a work permit. We filled out the necessary paperwork, went first thing this morning to the Board of Education, only to be told by the women at the from desk, "That ain't my job."

I began the necessary phone calls, beginning with the Superintendent. I will leave out several details as I do not want to offend people of any ethnic background. But I explained that there was not a single Caucasion working in the office, nor anyone that could speak proper English, not to mention the way we were treated. I explained that I felt I was being discriminated against in my own country and I wanted answers. The Superintendents secretary listened with great patience as I cursed and not so calmly explained my experience with this disgrace of a school system. I was referred to Human Resources and Social Services. I have a meeting tomorrow with these people.

Obviously, I am more than anxious to see how this all turns out. More than that, I am ashamed and embarrassed this is even happening and that I am verbalizing it. I have always prided myself on keeping any and all political views or views that some may find offensive, to myself as not to hurt others, we all have the right to our own opinions....this is mine. And I feel something in this state, in this country needs to change, beginning with the educational system and hey...how about demanding a decent work ethic in our governmental offices...just for starters...

"Plough deep while sluggards sleep."- Benjamin Franklin
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Bo Cowens
Bo Cowens

 
Wow! You are about to enter into the world of graft. Just remember, that as with everything in life; if you understand the system you can understand the vulnerabilities. The main function of such a system in not to educate or provide for your child, but rather to remain in existance. It exists to keep it's self in existance. The workers that are involved in the system function collectively to maintain the current state. They seldom care about those that will follow and seek only to contribute to that system for the duration of their time there. There are turf battles by various sectors and at times it is unclear as to who has oversight over certain areas. You will be misdirected in an attempt to have you exhaust your time and energy, thus leaving the system unchanged or disrupted. Distractions, using emotions are a good way to make you lose focus of your original goal. It is not imposible to make such a system carry out it's intended function but you will need to remain focused and understand that they win when you stop seeking the services you need. Most people do not have the time to take on hundreds of individuals to change a system. They have nothing but time on their hands, so work only on getting the permit at this point. Remember, they are masters of mass ditraction. Good luck!
 
Posted by Bo Cowens on Wednesday, October 14, 2009 - 1:45 AM
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denise
denise taylor

 
I won't stop until this is made right. Hell, I could quit my job, collect welfare and food stamps and become one of "them", one of the very people that my 14-year old son has the good sense to not aspire to be, while a mass majority of the adults that surround him list "working for their money" as the least of their priorities. It's in the "systems" hands now, if they want a fight, they will pay me to stop working and I will make "this fight" a priority, on "their" dime! Thanks again for your friendship, I can always count on you for wisdom!

 
Posted by denise on Wednesday, October 14, 2009 - 1:53 AM
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wretched
wretched one

 
That school sounds terrible. Eight teachers and a principle should be fired. I think you did the right thing by taking him out of that school. I pray everything works out for you and your son gets his work permit.

Take care my friend,

-byron
 
Posted by wretched on Wednesday, October 14, 2009 - 1:15 PM
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denise
denise taylor

 
Thanks, sadly, I think most public schools are like that these days. Going to get his permit today, wish me luck!

 
Posted by denise on Wednesday, October 14, 2009 - 2:20 PM
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Bo Cowens
Bo Cowens

 
Did you get the permit?
 
Posted by Bo Cowens on Thursday, October 15, 2009 - 1:46 AM
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denise
denise taylor

 
Not only did we get the permit, we got alot of support from government employees that are sick and tired of dealing with, on a daily basis, what I went through. I contacted Jindal, still no response, also contacted the local papers in Baton Rouge and New Orleans...I have no intention of stopping until some sort of changes takes place in this state! Thanks for asking, soon my son will be a 14-year old tax paying citizen!

 
Posted by denise on Thursday, October 15, 2009 - 2:27 AM
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David
David Fitzgerald

 
Way to kick their ass, Denise!!!! Too many lazy ignorants milking their job, not wanting to do their job while others can't find or get a job or, like me , don't have the necessary skills to get a decent job. And as I have found in the past, when you do have a decent job and work your ass off, somebody's always trying to suck ass and screw you out of your job. Tell him to hang in there and don't listen to anybody putting him down, especially over something as trivial as the length of your hair. The world's a whole lot bigger then a few small-minded people!!
 
Posted by David on Thursday, October 15, 2009 - 8:53 AM
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denise
denise taylor

 
Well said, David, he starts tomorrow morning!

 
Posted by denise on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 12:33 AM
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David
David Fitzgerald

 
Yeah, I get a little carried away, but society frustrates me to no end, too. I still think I'm a 14 year old revolutionary sometimes. It's good to learn when you're young, but things are different now than when I was young. Everything you've done and everything you are giving your boy is the best anybody could do, so have no regrets. When it comes down to it, you are the anchor in his life and when it comes down to it, you will always be there, no matter what. Not everybody has somebody that open-minded in their life.  keep up the good work and hang in there.
 
Posted by David on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 4:51 AM
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denise
denise taylor

 
Thank you, David, I will never stop telling him to ALWAYS question authority, one can only learn, whether to be persuaded or run away...

 
Posted by denise on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 5:20 AM
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David
David Fitzgerald

 
Yes, always for self-preservation. If you don't know,it might be the devil, but you will KNOW when it's the LORD!!!!! And the only church is yourself, so never believe other people's bullshit. You WILL know the TRUTH. Hey, I'm out there , what can I say. Nobody listen's to me anyways. Love your blogs, Denise!!!!!!
 
Posted by David on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 5:38 AM
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denise
denise taylor

 
Thank you, David, don't ever mean to push my views, just sharing my life experiences...  

 
Posted by denise on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 5:50 AM
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Van! Μολών Λaβέ!

 
Get involved in politics, join a conservative campaign and vote all Democrats out of office and maybe we can get ACORN to die, the socialist school system to die and a few lazy a**holes in government fired.  When Sarah Palin is president in 2012, things will change.  She sent members of her own party to jail for corruption and will do the same thing to Washington D.C....  Clean it out and up....
 
Posted by Van! Μολών Λaβέ! on Saturday, October 17, 2009 - 1:05 AM
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denise
denise taylor

 
Well said, can't happen soon enough!!!

 
Posted by denise on Sunday, October 18, 2009 - 1:17 AM
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SIMPLEPARADOX (C-HI) ONLY 10 MORE MONTHS !!!

 
Go to HSLDA.COM NOW !!! Not later, now.  You will find the answers there. Find the local homeschool association and contact them. There are solutions, you are trying to do this on your own and you do not have to.

 
Posted by SIMPLEPARADOX (C-HI) ONLY 10 MORE MONTHS !!! on Saturday, October 17, 2009 - 3:32 AM
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denise
denise taylor

 
Going to check it out, now. Thank you!

 
Posted by denise on Sunday, October 18, 2009 - 1:18 AM
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SIMPLEPARADOX (C-HI) ONLY 10 MORE MONTHS !!!

 
Your welcome. Spread the word if you find them helpful.

We parents have to stick together. :)

 
Posted by SIMPLEPARADOX (C-HI) ONLY 10 MORE MONTHS !!! on Sunday, October 18, 2009 - 2:23 AM
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denise
denise taylor

 
Great site! VERY helpful, thanks again!

 
Posted by denise on Sunday, October 18, 2009 - 2:28 AM
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Tristan.™
Tristan Catron

 
I absolutely love your writing, and not one word of this is false.
The Educational System of the EBR parish is losing control of their students, and not keeping their priorities straight. They are worried more about what the children look like, or are wearing, or how much money they are making than doing what they are supposed to do. Give them an education.
The majority of them are simply power hungry, lazy, and could give a fuck less about if their students are learning, as long as they get paid. As for the small minority of teachers in the public school system who give a shit about education in general only focus on the students who are already excelling, and don't help the ones who want to learn, but struggle. Very rarely will you find a public school teacher who is willing to teach the ones who learn successfully, and at the same time, attempt to help the children who fall behind, and/or struggle with keeping up. Then again, as a public school teacher, they also realize half of the children are forced to be there, and have no intent on even trying to take any information in, but that in no way means that they should just assume every student thinks that way, and not try to teach at all, as I've seen many of my own teachers do. They just give up. It's sad.

 
Posted by Tristan.™ on Thursday, October 22, 2009 - 4:25 AM
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denise
denise taylor

 
Unbelievable that this insight comes from a 14 year old, not meant to be an insult! If they would stop focusing on uniforms, saying sir and ma'am, than, you are correct, the focus may be brought back to educating the children once again! So sorry you are one of the victims!

 
Posted by denise on Thursday, October 22, 2009 - 4:35 AM
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Penny
Penny Neiman

 
Oh my God, the way that you write is so fucking profound!!! I am pissed off all over again!!!I wrote a blog a few days ago called, " If you think color matters then you are a dumb ass idiot!!! " and my blood was boiling as I wrote it. My blog seems so trivial and simple compared to yours! I am pissed all over again. Out of all your blogs that I have read so far, this one has moved me the most!!!
FUCKING LAZY DUMB ASS IDIOTS!!!
 
Posted by Penny on Monday, February 08, 2010 - 11:56 PM
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denise
denise taylor

 
Well, my dear, didn't mean to piss you off! Glad you could relate . . .

 
Posted by denise on Tuesday, February 09, 2010 - 2:34 AM
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Penny
Penny Neiman

 
You didn't piss me off De, the stupid people pissed me off! They have a right to be stupid, but don't do it with our sons!!!
I would have said ignorant instead of stupid, but ignorance means they are capable of learning!
 
Posted by Penny on Tuesday, February 09, 2010 - 10:19 AM
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