Caring... True caring is much harder to put in action than it is to think on. There is not one of my friends that I do not think about and wish well. Yet how often do I come over to ease the sufferings they may be facing. Perhaps its selfishness, " Do I really want to bother?" but more often I think it some ingrained sense of Independence that america has told us we must all have.
"I'll take care of myself thankyou very much." and so we dont think others would want any but the same. In other lands there is a true sense of community and belonging. There is a sense of "WE" instead of "I". We just dont get it. But you know what, to hell with that. Its not a weakness to want a hug and to be told " Hey its ok...you are not a chump and we all got your back."
So I say...Yes...I want hugs.