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City: SANTA CLARA
State: California
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Signup Date: 12/21/2005

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Wednesday, June 07, 2006 

I wonder, out of the amount of people who read this post, are going to be in the category that I'll be speaking about. And I really want each and everyone one of you, to ponder this. Seriously, think about what I'm about to tell you. I'm not asking you to, I'm TELLING you to take it to heart.

So, the category I'm talking about is the average person. Average person? Now what could I mean by that? Cause, that could mean anything. Here's my definition of the average person. Eat, drink, sleep, go to school, graduate, college-graduate, get a job, have a family, have kids, die. This is the average person's mentality. If I can AT LEAST do these things, I'll be fine. Interesting thing is, if you talk to anyone who has had some life experience, the life they envisioned never turned out the way they had imagined. Why is that? People tell me, it's because life is unpredictable. Want to know my response? The best way to predict the future, is to invent it. That right there is the difference between the average person and the champion. Because your belief level will determine your outcome, and if you're sitting back in your chair believing that the average person's life that I just described is for you, then that's where you'll be.

Or, maybe you're the kind of person that envisions a better future for himself, but never acts on it. Something seems to be holding you back from dreaming to doing. I'm going to tell you, the only thing that's holding you back, is you. Bottom line, it's you. And something else you need to consider because if you're waiting for "the right moment," it'll never come. Because honestly, do you think if life is rough now, is it going to be easier or more difficult in the future? Do you think that time is endless? The intelligent person would tell me, no, I can't say that I'd believe those things to be true. And if that's the case, how come you aren't doing anything about it?

Another thing that you need to think about. What are you putting in your mind? Because the things you read, watch on tv, or hear from your associations is going to affect your outcome. Look at your current situation right now, and I gaurantee you, unless you do something about it, your life won't be much different in the future. The way you speak, the way you think, and the types of associations you have probably won't change. And I always emphasize associations because they're your primary influence, and what more people need to be thinking about is this. Are their influences serving me. Is what I'm listening to, serving me. Is what I'm watching, serving me. And I want you to really think about these things because every single decision you make in this life is an investment in your future outcome. Think about that. Everything you choose to let influence you, determines the kind of person you'll be 5, 10, 20, 30 years from now. Is that the kind of person you envisioned?

So, if you're the kind of person that doesn't want to settle for the minimum in life. If you're the kind of person that is living and not dying, what are you going to do about it?

--Clayton

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katie jane. ♥
Katelyn Studebaker

 

i'll be honest. i only read half. but you told me all of this last night anyway. interesting.

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Posted by katie jane. ♥ on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 7:59 AM
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Isaiah

 
you're a j.p. sartre jr. ~~ man is not determined by outside forces, but defines himself through his own actions.

if by "minimum in life" we mean those things you say the "average man" lives for -- eating, drinking, sleeping, getting a degree, getting a job, having a family, and dying -- then i don't know what to call what i live for.  i live only for sensual fulfilment -- seeing, hearing, touching, tasting, and smelling those things that please me.  all other ingredients of the "average man's life" -- education, job, family -- are only means to pleasure.  only a few people will realize or admit that learning, working, and loving are only indirectly valuable, and only the most determined will change their life so that they most efficiently arrive at what i believe is the highest goal (sensual pleasure).  the most efficient life, then, is one where we work our own gardens, and look at, listen to, touch, taste, and smell those things that please us, whether they be plants, animals, or each other.

 
Posted by Isaiah on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 7:20 PM
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Clayton Morales

 

The average person's life I described, though for you may be what you'd like to achieve, for many it's depressing. They wonder if there's anything else for them, because that life is what everyone else does. So, they don't feel special or significant in anyway when they think about it. Now, having a family is something I'm striving for. I believe having a family is one of the important decisions a person can make. So, by all means, I'm not trying to say that having a family is a minimum lifestyle. What I'm trying to point out, is that most people don't feel they can do anything more than the average person's lifestyle. So, they settle. But do you want to be the average joe parent? Or would you like your kids to look at you as their hero? Would you like to create a legacy for your family, so generations to come, your name is remembered cause you made some kind of significant difference.

And you're right about having learning is only indirectly valuable. I've heard all my life that Knowledge is power, but that is INCREDIBLY WRONG. Knowledge is only power ONCE IT IS APPLIED. College for many, unfortuntely, is a WASTE of time and money because you're often times learning useless information, and whatever field you're studying for, you don't even end up working in. I am baffled by this statistic. Only 13% of people who graduate from college, actually work in the field and study for. And the majority of those people are engineers, lawyers, and people in medicine.

And what is so depressing is that people who go to college for a specific job don't even go and ask people who are working in that field, and find out if they actually like it? I believe most people can agree that college is no longer just about "education," but now it's intended for people who want a decent job. And it's that job mentality that kills people because their dreams and passions die along the way because most people only choose a field to fit society's demands for survival.

Anyone who reads this reply, I recommend to read 177 Mental Toughness Secrets.


 
Posted by Clayton Morales on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 10:04 PM
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