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Gender: Male
Status: Divorced
Age: 36
Sign: Gemini

City: Goblin City
Country: US
Signup Date: 10/23/2004

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Thursday, August 24, 2006 

Current mood:  calm
Category: Life

THE STORY OF THE FIRST BOOK ON MYSPACE

 

Once upon a time (a few years ago) there was this little networking site called MySpace that kinda sucked and crashed all of the time and seemed like it was run out of some guys garage and the guy who ran it was kind of a dick. It wasnt anything new. It was not even much fun. But believe it or not MySpace used to be smaller and more intimate than Friendster, more innocent than Tribe.net, and wayyyyyy easier for everyone to use than sites like Blogspot or Facebook or whatever you USED to use when you wanted to rant and rave at the world or promote your band before you finally gave in and made your own MySpace page. Cmon youre reading this for a reason. 

 

Oh shit, now Im the old guy at the club!

 

Back in 2004, when Why I Committed Suicide first came out, I was posting my book anywhere I thought people might just stop and take a look. I was begging for readers. I was begging for reviews, I was begging bookstores to let me ship them free copies to stock on the shelf. Back then I was always frustrated because I had spent night and day and years pouring my heart and soul into a piece of presentable literature (WICS) and then when it got published I couldnt even GIVE away free copies to people to read. Then someone pointed me in this direction and I thought why not? And thats the amazingly boring story of how I got to be THE FIRST BOOK ON MYSPACE.

 

Like most innovations, me being the FIRST is just the pure dumb luck of being in the right place at the right time. Lemme tell ya, the sheer thrill of catching the crest of a cultural phenomenon before it happens is amazing. It makes you feel smart. Some days I feel like I bought stock in Microsoft back in the 1970s. Or built the first airplane. Bad analogies but something along those lines anyway. The age-old alchemic magical formula does work: Right Time + Reaching the Right Demographic + A lot of fucking Hard Work = Success.

See, in the old days you couldnt pick your top 8 friends. You couldnt even change fonts on your page. The person who was on MySpace the longest was listed in everyones top 8. Because of that, I was listed in a lot of peoples top 8. Friends found me listed on their friends top 8 and found out about my book and on and on. Because I found MySpace, Ive achieved more book-related goals than I ever knew I had. I created a published book that sells because people like it. I got e-mail from Anne Rice saying I am a real author, and an attaboy from Noam Chomsky. Even the drummer from Janess Addiction wrote to say hey. People who are MY heroes are writing to ME saying how much they respect what Im doing.

 

My book is just my story. It talks openly and bluntly about being in love and having sex and doing drugs and going to jail and living life, which also means Why I Committed Suicide isnt likely to win any awards or be adapted into a sub-plot on Gilmore Grrls. (I know you got the copy I sent Ms. Bledel!) My original goal was to reach out to 2,000 people but I just flew past the 8000+ friend mark and now I see theres been over 20,000 hits on www.whyicommittedsuicide.com and I can feel the fruits of my labor. My phone rings about the book every few days and positive interest in the sequel that Im working on feels really great. Now people write to me instead of the other way around and its amazing to know how youve touched people so deeply. People know my joy and pain and want to share theirs. Reading their letters inspires me to keep writing when I get in that deep, dark funk.

 

For every 1000 friends I make, I like writing a reflection blog about what its taken to get here. If I can reach a thousand people, that means Ive talked or commented or listened to at least 800 folks from around the world. I love seeing MySpace on the news, involved in another new controversy. I love seeing the new films section and I still enjoy listening to new (and old) bands. But more than anything I love the sudden rash of new and old authors posting their books on MySpace. Authors from sites all over are making themselves open to their potential fans and exposing themselves to the world. I especially love that EVERY publishing house that rejected my novel is now using MY marketing strategy as their big new way to reach the teen audience. The sincerest form of flattery is imitation. Still a nice fat check that says, Write for a living, would be damn fine.

 

I am the first book to ever be on MySpace. Suddenly I am validated, trendy and cool... oh shit!

g

 
congratulations!
 
Posted by g on Monday, July 24, 2006 - 9:49 PM
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Cariñosa

 
Oh Sam, I knew this all over a year ago when I first finished your book. I knew it was gonna be a smash hit. Number 1 because I myself couldn't shut the fuck up about it. I told everyone I knew whether I thought it was their "type" of book or not. I told my mom, coworkers, friends, everyone. There has never been a book that I didn't forget was in my bag on the subway on the way to work. I'd read it walking to the train. I'd read it standing on the crowded fucking E train at 9:00am. I'd almost miss my stop because my nose was constantly buried in your fucking book. I'd be crying, literally one minute and laughing out loud the next. There had seriously never been one single piece of literature which has touched me so profoundly. I was only pissed I hadn't bought a signed copy! :(

I found your book through my dear friend Hell Bound Alleee thanks to myspace.com. If it wasn't for myspace I would have never heard of The Hell Bound Alleee show or Free Thought Radio. It's how I promote my own art/photography website venessanina.com. I really can't imagine what it would be without myspace. It's how I find out about cool friends. I even told my own boyfriend who had never heard of myspace to put his book, The Losers' Club on here. It's only because I saw yours on here. It's amazing how many connections can be made. I'm so glad to be able to see Quintin Tarantino personally answering blog comments on his own myspace page, this shits incredible. I remember the not being able to change your top 8 and also only being able to have a top 8, or 12 pics etc. I've been here since nearly the beginning and it's all about making art/film/book connections. Clicking with people you'd never get to meet otherwise. Ahh... I'm going on but. I totally agree and am glad to also be sharing in this phenomena.
 
Posted by Cariñosa on Monday, August 28, 2006 - 11:43 PM
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*REGGIE LOVES EMILY* RIP MY BABY

 

I am honored to be your friend.  Reggie 


 
Posted by *REGGIE LOVES EMILY* RIP MY BABY on Monday, July 24, 2006 - 10:03 PM
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Spaztica

 

If it wasn't for myspace I would have never got a chance to read your book and have random conversations w/ you!


 
Posted by Spaztica on Tuesday, July 25, 2006 - 2:27 AM
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Just Your Average Kimber

 
She just moved in. I loved the trip to Mexico. I have been to that Denny's many times and I live close to San Diego. Great book so far. Much Love and many kudos my friend!!
 
Posted by Just Your Average Kimber on Tuesday, July 25, 2006 - 2:27 AM
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Theodora

 
let me just say there are no coincidences.
good job.
 
Posted by Theodora on Monday, July 31, 2006 - 3:29 AM
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driftersonline
Réal L

 
Inspiring post.
Thank You

~drift~ 
 
Posted by driftersonline on Thursday, August 03, 2006 - 1:50 AM
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marylouise

 
I admire your ingenuity and your persistence....good for you and a great blog. Thank you for puting yourself out here....ML
 
Posted by marylouise on Saturday, August 19, 2006 - 12:32 PM
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Angel

 
Everyman reaches for a star and succeeds; always a good story, especially when true.
 
Posted by Angel on Monday, August 21, 2006 - 12:11 AM
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Number 1..Quiet Scares me cuz it screams the truth

 
Wow...that's awesome and ur book sounds REALLY good...I will definitely have to get my copy. I have so many books on my to-do list but um...I think I'll bump urs up to the top! Keep up the good work and I look forward to reading your novel!
 
Posted by Number 1..Quiet Scares me cuz it screams the truth on Thursday, September 21, 2006 - 4:32 AM
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Pinar
Pinar Dag

 

you great!

happy to be your friend

pdx


 
Posted by Pinar on Monday, October 16, 2006 - 4:57 PM
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Discombobulated

 
i wanna be like u when i grow up!! lol, congrats..and thanks for paving the way!!

lvg in cali

 
Posted by Discombobulated on Sunday, December 03, 2006 - 3:14 PM
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DrBenway Productions
Doctor Benway

 
Funny I was on Myspace back in 2004 too (not as an author) and I felt like one of the first people to be using it. I should have kept that account because I would be an oldtimer. How neat to be among the early pioneers of this exploding forum. 
 
Posted by DrBenway Productions on Monday, January 01, 2007 - 1:49 AM
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"Your Genuine Smile"
Danny Marlulis

 
Thats awsome, im looking forward to read the novel.
-danny
 
Posted by "Your Genuine Smile" on Wednesday, January 03, 2007 - 1:50 AM
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I remember when myspace was new, too; in fact, your book was what really got me going on myspace. I remember getting your email and then my copy of Why I Committed Suicide in the mail... it seems like so long ago, but in that time I've probably read it about 80 times and I've lent it to at least twenty people who all loved it. Props to you for making your story heard and loved by so many people!
 
Posted by on Wednesday, January 17, 2007 - 9:39 PM
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Mandy Warhol.
Amanda Trei

 

and i was one of the first fans!.. haha.. jk..

 


 
Posted by Mandy Warhol. on Thursday, March 22, 2007 - 3:39 AM
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TAME MAGAZINE

 
I am so excited to come across this story! Thanks for writing it.... Now I'm going out to get the book.
 
Posted by TAME MAGAZINE on Tuesday, April 24, 2007 - 3:14 AM
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Zachary Jean

 
bravo!
 
Posted by Zachary Jean on Thursday, July 12, 2007 - 9:59 PM
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Klark

 
Got to be honest, when I saw you had commented on my blog, I thought the Plagiarism Patrol had come to get me. I appreciate your approach and for recognizing my intent; I'm a person that relates to your passages. And I've never had an author of any book I've read thank me personally for reading their book. I pray you achieve more success as your 'strategy' to give back to your readers deserves at the least a praise chorus.

Thank you,

Klark Q.
 
Posted by Klark on Friday, July 20, 2007 - 6:45 AM
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