as long as you dont share chicken wings and grits with anyone else....i'm good! :)
 

A TRUE friend/acquaintance would KNOW that you are staying true to you and doing YOUR thing. Your music has always been the priority, and doing it YOUR way, "Changing the world one ear at a time"....You go ahead Beanman and do your thing....You WILL be TRULY "BIG & FAMOUS" one day, yo ALL the world....and you will remember us 'little' folks, you REAL friends now AND then....if you didn't, you wouldn't have written this.....Luv ya B...((HUGS)) ~T~
 

Smiles!



Hmm, 4 once I'm on here when ya on here! Sweet "B" my heart still beats 4 ya! Don't agree with dem others at all. You are and have "always" been "big" in my eyes, in a good way. "Big" in how dedicated you are to your music! "Big" in how humble you are in your way! "Big" in how appreciative you are for the gifts God has bestowed on you! "Big" in your love for your family and fans! Stay "big" sweetie! I am truly humbled to have made your aquaintance via this information highway.
You are truly loved and adored from afar and that will only enhance when faith allows me to meet ya in person! (smiles) One only needs to peer into your eyes to see the true u! (super smile)



A "Seasoned" Lady! (lol)

Doc (Sharon)
 

Brian, just do you! Do you, be proud, and grow spiritually. God blessed you with a gift. If these "old friends" and "acquaintances" cannot understand that your "taking off" and growing and becoming the person you strive to be, then PHUEY!!! Love them anyone, cherish who they are and eventually their true colors will show themselves, good or bad! Like I said, do you and when you have the time to acknowledge ALL of your fans, friends, family, and acquaintances, Im sure you will do so.
God bless!
 

If they didn't understand before they will now. As long as you are staying true to your heart your real family and friends will understand because they know the "real" Brian. Keep making beautiful music.

 

Hello professor! This is a good topic discussion! You've out done yourself! (smile) I hope that I and others can help you shed a light on this. I'm sorry to hear that you are stressed over this. But it just goes to show you that you are humble, human and have a "Big Caring Heart!" and that's a plus in my opinion!! (smile) I don't know if I am considered an old friend/aquaintance to you. I know there are far many others who are and they were there with you from day one. They watched you struggle and grow in to what you are now. You probably got together more and talked more and did things more! Struggle can be good! Friendships grow and become stronger! But as life is, as with growing up and going from one school to another you lose contact with old friends and you pick up other friends along the way! It isn't that bad to have new friends/acquaintances. The older ones may seem to think you don't need them any more and you've gotten the BIG HEAD and some may even think you think you are better than them! I consider us friends and I know that you have developed more friends since I became a friend. I know we don't communicate that and I accept that. You are blessed and you are in more demand with the public because of your music! Your music is sssooo good that you are in more demand and you meet people who are higher up in the field of music and they want to help you by connecting and networking. I believe you haven't forgotten your old friends/acquaintances you are just in more demand in the public with getting your music out there! So if I don't hear from you I know that you are just doing what you are destined to do to make it and "Change The World One Ear At A Time"! Now people can miss the old familirarity (is that a word) of great days gone by but then you have memories and you have to have patience!! And I know that is hard to do at times. I say to the old friends/acquaintances to Stay Prayerful! Be Happy for Brian! Stay connected if possible. Bean with your business their are new opportunities enstowed! I am sure you carry each one of your old friends/acquaintances with you. You can't please everybody! Sometimes you have to let people go. I believe that we come full circle and we sometimes meet people like in seasons. You're cool with me! In my book you are BIG and FAMOUS!! I pray that you have peace of mind! I hope I haven't rambled on and that I made some sense! God Bless You! LL P.S.
Did I at least get a "B" on this? LOL
 

i can see you. i know you're having a great time. you enjoy what you do. very important. we never go that close so i'm not missing you~s*.
just keep loving as you love, writing as you write, and drinking milk, i stopped the coffee!





di*





ps. you need a pic driving..i never see you driving anywhere..*laf*
 

!Hello Brian,well we read your blog and it's interesting and we do understand what you are talking about.!What's interesting also is that there are alot of myspace people that are not respnding either.!At least we did get a comment from you and that is a blessing.!Two times we sent a commment to everybody on our page and we got 1,460 people on our profile..Only one-eight to one forurth of the 1,460 people responded back,maybe less than that.What I don't understand and this.....has...nothing to do with you...you are not one of them....some people will complain because certain people don't write them,or send e-mails and then when those people do start sending comments, then...they don't respond.!!The best way to handle all of that is just do what makes you happy.!..There is alot of people that has gone on pass myspace to some where else,that's why they afre hardly on myyspace,we already got hipped to that.Excuse that word.!There is nothing wrong with going somewhere else and we might do the same...ONE DAY,but for now, it's all cool on myspace....Hey to end this,let us say this.....it's no difference wherever a person goes...later the same boredom will set in and people are the same wherever you go.That's just our opinion.!maybe for some folks,it'll be different,who knows.!!We have been on myspace since 2007 and going somewhere else.you got to learn new friends and build up your friends on your page and then after so long,it'll be boring again......But that's just our opinion.We are not refering to you,but we just know some peole this has happen too,don't want to call out their names.!We will miss you,Brian,God bless you.
!
 

Already! Q.

 

What a great blog Brian!!!! Thanks for taking your time to explain. I think you have showed your true colors and friendship from day one. You are who you are and you are doing what makes YOU happy. You cannot please and satisfy every friend and fan. As in life, well known or not, people get busy, people miss each other, and some people just move along. Some people may not see it that way or understand. I give you alot of credit for reaching out to your fans the way you do, thats a special part of you.
Thanks for being you!!!!
 

Dear Brian, when a person has always believed strongly in what he does is natural that people recognize that your success,

is not just born, you lived a life of studying and composing your own music, you are born a creative, idea of how you do your music, your nu jazz is beautiful, nice pace, if we add your great professionalism is this success, not only thousands of people you know but I wish that were millions of people and one day get to play here in Brazil, all flour is your effort and be a truly great artist, you have the humility you fa be a successful and beautiful not only outside but inside your soul! congratulations for everything you are my friend, a thousand blessings for you and many kisses Mató
 

If you were all "Big and Famous" you would not have felt the need to address this issue. You clearly care about those that knew you "when". Those that don't understand the new pressures on your time, etc. probably didn't know YOU as well as they should and/or want to ride your coat-tails. You've always seemed to approach this success in such a down-to-earth way; authentic and in-touch. Some folks can be envious of that and want special acknowledgement I guess. Your true friends will always be true, the others will make themselves known. It never fails.

 

i dont know where the line "big and famous" was derived from........i may be a new "friend/aquaintence" but if you spent all your time answering peoples emails etc....when and where would you find the time to use the wonderful gift God has given you to make us all smile inside?


your true friends have to know you hold them in your heart....thats what is seen in your eyes. and for us new friends, i just feel blessed to be able to hear your beautiful music and be a part of your audience.
peace and happiness
 

True friends are hard to come by and harder to keep. Keep doing what you love to do...., music.



Your true friends will appreciate your determination and effort to spread your music to one ear at a time. Well the "little people", should understand that as exposure occurs and the demand (interviews, tours, etc) exceeds the supply(your free time); You & your music, are on a set course for greatness, it's just that simple. Make no apologies for your success.



To whom much is given much is required.



God Bless
 

To those of us who love your gift of music, you are in our eyes "Big and Famous". Your real friends will support you, without expecting anything in return. Don't let anyone stress you out! many times people come into our lives just for a season. Always surround yourself with friends who sincerely care for you and respect your work! please know that everyone whether in the past or future doesnt always have good intentions.....You are a very brilliant musician, FOCUS on the friends who love and enjoy your music Bean, we want you to keep a smile on your face and know that you are loved!!!!.

 

Hey Brian! Knowing you for a couples of years now and I can honestly say that you are "Blessed" by God and have God's "Favor"...so turn this "Big n Famous" to "Blessed n Favored"...It will probably sit better with your humble spirit. Continue to press forward with your God-given gifts to share with the world. This is the true essence of what your purpose is in this journey. By the way, on a side note, "opinion" is spelled with one "p" :-) You know I got your back and always have to put a smile on your face...lol! Much love, respect and blessings! ~Lola~
 

Real friends wouldn't say this to you. Those kind of statements comes from their own insecurities that has nothing really to do with you. Do not feel guilty or "bad" about being successful. This is your time. Live it. Own it. Those who love you, care for you, and who are actually a part of your life will rejoice with you. As for the others, do not let them steal one moment of joy that has blessed upon you. You are not meant to be everything to everyone. Understand where they are coming from but move on. And move on swiftly, for more success is wating.






"...Succeed Anyway.
" - Mother Theresa
 

My pops taught me a long time ago... He said "jennen you can please some of the people some of the time, but you can never please all of the people all of the time" Brian I am amazed that you even take the time... and blessed that you even care. You are a special guy and don't let anyone take that from you... There are other famous people on my space that have never taken the time to say Hi...yet we are all in the same space. I have found that blogs are a great way to communicate... All you can ever do is try... do your best and be your best... and leave the rest to God... it is not that you are Big and Famous. The problem is you are successful... you made it to the top and in order to do that somebody had to get left behind.... and that is not your fault. I bet some of those that are complaining never thought you were going to make it... That green eyed monster always shows up right before a blessing... Hold your head up and do you. And a real friend will understand...
 

JUST PLAIN OLE AWESOME!..B-E-C-A-U-S-E!..MY MUSIC MANNNNNNNNNNNNN!..(I'M SOOOOOOO SMILING!)..UMMMMMMMMMM..HMMMMMMMMMMMMM.."ENOUGH SAID!"..GOD IS LOVE..RN! ;-)))))))!
 

Sad that your "friends" have completely forgotten WHY you are here...why they know you. If they step back and think about the true reason...B-U-S-I-N-E-S-S...perhaps they will realize how their silly their words are.
How many times do they need to be reminded? *sigh*





I'd much rather get new music...than a comment on my page...but that is simply MY opinion!





SW
 

I do not think that I am the right person to comment, but what I am sure of is that it goes back to knowing what we know, does not believe the change makes feelings known, was born with them or not, to my you're a great person with a good heart in the center, your wonderful music, and I see how much you strive to answer every message, only to realize that you're a man with a lot of work ... a big kiss Brian , is beautiful to me you have known, sooner or later ...


 

Hey Brian! Knowing you for about a couple of years now, so I can honestly say that you are "Blessed" by God and have God's "Favor"...So turn this "Big n Famous" to "Blessed n Favored". Keep on pressing forward with your God-given gifts and continue to share with the world...That's the true essence of what your purpose is in this journey. By the way, on a side note, "opinion" is spelled with one "p" :-) You know I had to put a smile on your face as always...lol! Much love, respect and blessings ~Lola
 

Hey Brian. I think the very fact that your are concerned about your friends feelings show a lot of character. Your music is what is important; Daisy would be so proud of you. I agree with Nona; you do make everyone feel so special. And there is only one of you and so many of us; those who support you and wish you the very best. Keep doing what you do; and stay true to you...
 

Love ya, Brian. All the time.
Big and famous or not, you still make GREAT music and I love it!
 

Greetings Brian :) This blog is quite interesting. Just want to say...expressing your feelings by keeping an open line of communication with all your fans, and "those who are close to you" with blogs such as this, is a great way of keeping us all close and informed :) Most, will understand that it takes hard work..along with a very "time consuming" schedule, to be successful; and I'm sure...ALL, who know you or enjoy your music, will wish you well and understand. Best wishes to you... and in ALL your future career endeavors. ~peace & love..Shirl~
 

OMG! Ms Nona took the words right outta my mouth. Let me try to add my 2 cents... there comes a point in your life when YOU ARE IN THE PUBLIC EYE (or ear) that you have to realize that (as much as you'd like to) you can't do everything for everyone. The owness can't and should not be placed solely on you... YOU HAVE THE GIFT! and everyone else simply has the option to either embrace it or let it be. I, myself, ALWAYS say options are good! And as far as I'm concerned... I opt to listen and embrace all the magic you can throw out to the cosmic masses. And yea... you're still kewl in my book too! **HUGGS**
 

Gee us...I must be really out of the loop. Brian when did you become big and famous? These folks must not know your mom. (LOL) You will always be who you are because of her. So do not let these friends get to you.




Anyway, this will cheer you up..this is going to be the headliner on this years cruise. Craig Robinson.
Look at his appearance on HBO's Def Comedy Jam http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kpxyn65QUfA&feature=related
 

One thing that I love about you and that makes me very proud of you is that you have learned how to discover your gifts and talents and how best to use them to be blessed in your own life and to be a blessing to others. You are empowered by having your own identity so always remember that honestly being yourself is what allows you to be.






People have a perception of what “big and famous” is (there are big and famous people that are rich and there are big and famous people that are not rich but are doing extraordinary things with what life has afforded them), but people place more value on the 1st and they forget that either way at the end of the day “the big and famous” are just people. They don’t think about the fact that many have families, that many have children and people also forget that the children of “the big and famous” get less time because the persons time is demanded by so many others or in other places. People forget that the “big and famous” still have other life responsibilities that demand their time; and on top of all that, as they continually grow in what makes them well-known (i.e. famous), they also acquire more friends, fans and followers that in some way, shape or form also want/need their attention/time. With that being said, no matter where YOU are, no matter what YOU may be doing or may have going on, YOU ALWAYS extend yourself to whoever, wherever or in whatever way you can in order to help and/or help uplift someone else. (that paragraph is 1st hand knowledge from watching and dealing with some of the “big and famous” issues within our family).






It reminds me of this quote by Marianne Williamson (one of my favorites):





• "Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.' We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? ACTUALLY, WHO ARE YOU NOT TO BE? You are a child of God. YOUR PLAYING SMALL DOES NOT SERVE THE WORLD. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we're liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.
"





That doesn’t mean that you are bigger than anyone else in this world just because you are well known (i.e. famous), but it does mean that you cannot please everyone, you can only be true to yourself and who God made you to be (honor Him in that). People will either lift/build you up or they will complain which eats at them more than it will do anything to you. For those that don’t get that there is nothing that you can do about it, there may always be that one or a few that act like you’ve become “big and famous” and changed; and to a degree you have changed, not as a person just on what you can or cannot do (it’s been adjusted/shifted and that happens to everyone at some point in their lives, especially if they are growing). They definitely do not define you and cannot knock you off your path. The more you grow the more you will probably hear the big and famous comments from near and far, people will probably even attempt to place more demands on you based on how they perceive your life to be; you cannot please everyone or live the way they think you should.
Those that truly know you, know and understand the essence of who you are; they care about your happiness and they will be understanding when there are times of less communication and/or contact and they will encourage and support you as you soar forward!
 

B, I don't think that you are big enough or famous enough....yet. Some of your old friends understand that your train is "big" enough for everyone to ride. I'm just glad that I am a part of the "ray" and the "magic" that you share to your "friends". Don't have much time to brood over whether you comment me back or not (life's way too busy). But, as I said I am glad to be on the "B-Train". Keep blessing the WORLD with your gift and remember...."To him who much is given, much is required." Just stay humble and true to yourself...you wings will allow you to soar.



(All of this said, while she's "soaring" to "Room to Breathe". Love you always my friend.

 

I'm with the ONE guy that responded to this blog so far....When did you become big and famous? I know you and I had an extensive conversation about this when you were here last week, so I can't help but wonder if this was triggered partially by the rib shot you took from me or the tongue lashing you got from your Mom? As mentioned in our conversation, I don't tag you up often at all, so yes I expect a tag back even if it's a silly photo where "No Words Necessary" would be alright. One writer said that you make everyone feel special...maybe sometimes a little too special if you know what I mean......We had a long talk about a few things and I hope you "heard" me.... not with one ear at a time, but with both ears! I'm not even going to bother repeating any of it because "you know" exactly what I'm referring to. I am not your friend nor your acquaintance,(which is spelled with an i). I am one of many cousins (the West Coast favorite no doubt) but all in all.....maybe you need to spend less time on Myspace and concentrate on some music! As they have all written, they'll understand. If you wanted to be a columnist, you should have gotten a job at the Detroit News! LOL! Always present, honest and true.....Love, Cousin T-Rex Now get back in your studio and get to work!
 

Sometimes "Big and Famous" can translate into self- centered obnoxiousness, a few years ago I performed at a Club in Long Beach called System M, it was up the street from Birdland West,a well known Sax Player was appearing there,whom I was really into musically at the time,so I walked up


the street before starting my performance to check out his set, as I approached the door this cat


arrived Sax in hand, I opened the door and attempted to converse with him after speaking,he


looked straight through me, did not speak nor acknowledge my graciousness, it changed my impression of him completely.
I've met a lot of other cats who are very well known,yet retain their humbleness,Bassist John Patitucci, Guitarist John Scoffield, Herbie Hancock,George Duke I have been fortunate enough to meet and hang out with, all these cats are very down to earth,as a young player it's very important to a lot of us,that folks take the time to speak and share with us


the knowledge that you all have gained,especially if we come and spend our money to see and hear you play. Nobody "owes anybody anything" but if we all have that attitude, what growth can become of it? Jazz is the language of time...sound is the language of truth..change is the only constant...Truth is the All in All. We need each other, this must never escape us.

 

"B" Honestly we should all question the motives behind some of the people we call "friends".
I bet if I became "famous" next week, relatives, friends and people who knew me when would come out of the wood work, but I've been here all along pretty much unnoticed! Look at your "friends" and do a little banking ask yourself are they making more deposits or withdrawals into your life and you either need to close some accounts or open some new ones!


I'm Visa D Klline and I approved this message (lol)
 

God is blessing you so continue to walk toward the blessings. Everyone can not go with you this is just a fact of life. If people get angry or remove themselves from your life because of your success just know that they were not meant to be in your life long term. Do not allow guilt or worry to damper the accomplishments you have made. Real friends will understand that you can't do the same things you did last year or spend the same amount of time with them. Flow with the Spirit and move toward your destiny.
GOD IS GOOD!
 

You have always taken time for so many folks not at all like some famous people.
Keep on keeping on
 

"I don't know what the key to success is, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody"--Bill Cosby
 

Do you sweetheart!!! Some of the old friends probably wouldn't contact you if you weren't "big and famous". As time goes on, we lose some people and acquire new ones. That's life. No ill intentions on anyone's part. The difference is many will want to be "down" with you now. Don't sweat it. Keep people in your life that understand what you're going through and have your best interests at heart. If anyone is fussing at you for not being "whatever" it is they want you to be, then you can let that person go.




It'll get better as you adjust to your new life.




Peace, Love and Harmony!
 

My response to this: Whether past or present, old and current...(friends, past and current as well as listeners past and current) we are a part of your passion and share your love in music. This is what makes life special. We have amongst us a tree, watered, and flourished, showing us to live your dream and make it your reality. I am thankful for the work of artists such as you, Brian O'Neal. With the ever-growing number of audiences, you share with your previous pals that they have known a special friend and they should truly, truly be blessed to have shared past moments with you because that also shows that they, too, are uniquely special in their own gifts. You are very much not the 'big n famous' type who allows adulations to reflect big n fame. I see a light in you that refuses to become that kind of notable. You are happy with being you. And you please as many as possible sending beautiful messages thru your heart in music to each person: '...an ear at a time".
We love ya'!!!
 

I've made some of those comments myself...but only because you told me to... My only piece of advice is to not confuse "fan" with "friend". Fans like your music. Friends like you. When the music fades, the fans go away. Friends do not. Just keep the right people in the right column and you'll do fine no matter how many are left.

 

I'm commenting as a "new" fan...You seem to be happy and very humble...and that is what's important. It seems like you know where you came from, yet embrace the success in this moment. The "true" friends, whether they are new or old, will be happy that you are happy and successful...And they will do all they can to share in it with you....



Now go show some teeeeeeeeth, cuz many of us think you are fabuuuuuuuulouuuus! LOL..Take Care!
 

You are Human Brian..... Not a machine. You CAN NOT PLEASE Everyone. This is the Truth and Your FACT that you speak (I say "Your Fact" because one may argue, "Yes he can, or he should try harder to contact everyone that contact him" However, No person has ever walked in YOUR SHOES. We all have our own shoes that we have to fill. If that all make any sense.) I respect you, I respect Your music, and now I respect you again for speaking just what needed to be spoken of. Remember this.... The brighter your light shine, Hun, the more bugs You Will Attract and SOME bugs bite/sting and can drain you or even do more damage~ If you allow them to. Also remember the example of the Eagle that I spoke of last week.....It had multiple meanings, now I will tell you this one, " EAGLES are unique creatures..... Most animals envy them and would prob kill to be them, because they are Very graceful and They can SOAR ABOVE STORMS!!!" You are that Eagle, You have taken off.... Just continue to Soar. Alright! I'm done writing.
..
 

I would have to agree with Nona, you make everyone that meets you feel like they are a special friend of yours from waaaayyy back :) but that's a good thing. To anyone who reads this - Brian is one of the most down to earth, good-natured human beings I've ever met. I'm sure he's not dissing anyone. Whether we are big n famous or not, we all get busy in our adult lives and I'm sure there are people we'd love to stay in contact with and just can't seem to make that happen for whatever reason. Keeping in contact takes the effort of both people. I really think people only say things like this, because they really don't know what else to say when someone they know gets all ..."big n famous" hahahahaha
 

Brian, as long as you are content in continuing to do the music that God has given to you. This wonderful gift that all the people who are listening too. People just give Brian his props and enjoy the beautiful music the comes from within. Thank you Brian for alowing me to hear it.
And the girl who's name is"Miscegenation"? Girl! go put some clothes on!!!! Geees!!!!!
 

They need to be happy for you and show their pride that you have been blessed with the ability to dow what you LOVE. There are so many of us not doing that. What you need is friends to support you and your gift, not 'friends' who hate on what you do. Keep on keepin on Bean this is the time when you will learn who your real friends are.

 

Hey Big Brother,


I feel what U are saying. They just don't realize that U are the same as U were back then now. It's just that U have alot more people that notices U & your music now. U have 2 live 4 U & your family. So, keep doin' your thing. Don't be stressed out. Don't let stress get 2 U. "U are 2 blessed 2 be stress & later 4 the devil's mess.
"





I Love U, Brother Of Mine. Keep in touch.



Rayko a.k.a. R&B: "1 of the funkiest drummers & percussion players since Sheila E.
!"
 

WOW. I just read all of your "comments". You have a lot of friends Brian that know how to think and express themselves. Amazing, lots of really good information and advice. One thing I know is that some people are just unable to be happy for your success (or anyone else's success). That is sooo not your problem. I read a book...I think the name of it was "WHAT YOU THINK OF ME IS NONE OF MY BUSINESS", that has always stuck with me. Another persons opinion of me does not determine who I am....If someone else has an opinion about me, whether it is positive or negative, they have to live with that opinion; not me. You know who you are Brian. I know what I know (which isn't much). You shine in my book. I am proud to know you, and I am thrilled with your successes. No more analyzing what others think....just do what you do Bean!!!!!!

Love

Ellen
 

I can see that passion is definitely a part of your life as well as your music.I support you and your music one thousand percent,you're doing a great job sharing your music with the people who have tuned in to your world.You're very blessed and very loved,don't forget about Brian,you must pamper yourself too,do something special for Brian,give him the gift of love,just as you've given the world.

 

*Pops In looks around room reads blog and spits her Mountain Dew all over computer screen!*

Scrub, you know what.. Or shall I say .. You know my opinion on this.. I chuckle because we just had this conversation.. LOL.. I can't post for the world to hear what I said.. (cause you know what will happen) however I will say this much.. Toasted Peanut butter sandwich and Tomato Soup! LOL



~Wascally Wabbit~

*Pops Out*




 

There you go with that sexy pic again...my goodness... ok in my opinion the fact that you are blogging about this says a lot about you as a person and your concern for others. You don't seem like the type to discard old friends and acquaintances but people will get jealous of you when they realize that your "world" is much, much bigger than there's. You are making your dreams a reality and instead of basking in your success and passing that energy on to others, they are stuck on the negative. I know it may sound strange talking about energy and karma, but I do believe it exists. You've worked hard for what you have today and you will work even harder for what you want to obtain in the future. Now lets be honest some of these old friends and acquaintances you will lose because of there narrow mindedness and it will be rough, but you will meet so many others that will easily take their place.


You keep being who you are and keep doing what you love..making music because the rewards are endless, but nobody said it was gonna be easy....
 

I agree with Daniel. Fans like you for your music..friends like YOU for you. You can only be true to Mr. B and who YOU are. You can please all the people some of the time but you can't please all of the people all of the time. It took me a while to figure that out . Stay true to who you are and it will all fall in to place. The REAL people in your life will be there no matter what.

I am so happy things are finally falling in to place.

~E~
 

I love you - the person. I love your sounds. I know how your heart beats - It's honest Brain, always has been - always will be! THAT'S what counts in this life.

You're blessed and you share your blessings - keep it up sweet heart....x