well after 2 months and seeing my ex twice since he broke up with me I finally summoned the never to send him an email asking him to no longer talk to me or see me anymore. It's painfully clear that he never really had any emotional interest in me. To cheat on me repeatedly for 3 years while I worked overnight shifts, expose me to an std, and still act like he's never done anything wrong is infuriating. Now I am ruminating about suuing him for back mortgage payments since I also found out he lied about his finances while we were together. He now has a 12 room house to himself and I am tempted to sue for custody of the 2 cats he took from me as well. I'm so tired of investing myself in people who do this to me and act like they are somehow innocent of everything.  This will probably be the last time I mention him here in the blog of my page. His name is paul Kramer, he lives in north hampton new york so warn all your friends to stay clear of him. He plays unprotected and is a big liar. There I said it and now I can move on.